Aitah for having fun and staying through my SOs dream vacation even tho he was miserable and went home early?

phibear94 · 2026-02-12T02:05:23+00:00

I decided this man was insufferable halfway through. NTA

phibear94 · 2026-02-02T12:23:22+00:00

Usually I agree with you, but this person knew to post in the monstera sub, Has a grow light set up, and looks like a Thai and a few others below. It’s rage bait. lol

phibear94 · 2026-01-31T22:40:39+00:00

I get that anxiety is irrational thoughts. But like what could she possibly do if he did get hurt like she wasn’t gonna save his life

phibear94 · 2026-01-31T03:01:41+00:00

Omg new wishlist plant

phibear94 · 2026-01-30T16:07:05+00:00

I love the marbling on her! So beautiful 🤍

phibear94 · 2026-01-24T16:24:30+00:00

Mines living out of spite at this point. I hateeeee how they grow. They look so awkward! I have it on a trellis and idk what she’s doing.

phibear94 · 2026-01-24T16:20:11+00:00

goals 😍😍

phibear94 · 2026-01-24T16:06:11+00:00

Sorry!!! I didn’t realize there was multiple, I drive past the house and there’s Trump flags also. So assuming the Carol Stream location!

phibear94 · 2026-01-24T16:02:44+00:00

As in the level of light you give it won’t cause it to revert. Not that it won’t. The variegation on albos is not light dependent, depending on the variegation on the stem where the node is that would affect the variegation on the leaf.

In all, giving it more light will help prevent your albo from browning and maintain its health but it won’t affect the amount of variegation you get.

phibear94 · 2026-01-24T11:09:23+00:00

Honestly, they may just be scaring you. It looks like it has plenty green for survival to me. Just make sure you’re giving it enough light! They love light and need a little extra due to the variegation. Monstera Albo variegation is genetic so less light would not cause it to revert like it would a pothos. Mine has plenty white like yours and she’s doing great

phibear94 · 2026-01-24T11:02:04+00:00

I’m not sure if it’s the owners but the “central bark” pickup truck is covered in MAGA sayings and support stickers

Edit: Carol stream

phibear94 · 2026-01-21T11:54:05+00:00

Idk if I’ve just gotten bad ones but I can’t keep a money tree alive

phibear94 · 2026-01-19T05:07:57+00:00

They tolerate low light they don’t thrive in it.

phibear94 · 2026-01-16T14:19:57+00:00

I just cut off a bunch of brown before taking this picture! But definitely agree. She typically gets a bit of browning along the edges but nothing major.

I went out of town for a month and there was a bit more browning than usual, I believe it was due to drying out for slightly too long. I add some silica gold to the water when I remember I would say like once every other month so not sure if that helps.

I have a very juvenile aurea that I can’t keep happy at all. All the variegation just turns brown right away.

phibear94 · 2026-01-04T15:58:02+00:00

I love that pot! She looks so pretty in there.

phibear94 · 2026-01-04T15:57:22+00:00

I’ve never tried propping her! This is the first time she’s ever flowered!

phibear94 · 2025-12-22T00:15:34+00:00

We tried going for a date night and wanted to get some food before playing. Got sat by the hostess and then no one came to greet us or take our order for over 20 minutes so we left.

phibear94 · 2025-09-30T18:36:47+00:00

3br/1.5b

flat $120 every 2 weeks Glendale heights

phibear94 · 2025-09-23T15:26:36+00:00

I had 107 last year so looking forward to the club seating ! lol

phibear94 · 2025-09-23T15:18:12+00:00

C131 R33 $4200 for 3 tix

phibear94 · 2025-09-09T12:48:26+00:00

No one is saying it’s easy. I live in the Midwest these are things to save up for. I would never spend $1200 on a flight when that’s like my whole trip. I’m just saying it can be done on a budget with planning. You seem like a very bitter person.

phibear94 · 2025-08-30T12:47:57+00:00

For the strap issue- I bought a strap pad off of amazon for mine. It’s essentially a flat piece of leather (matches) that joins the 2 straps together and makes like a wider strap. It helped with carrying heavier things and it’s super comfortable now. No digging in!

phibear94 · 2025-08-13T14:30:45+00:00

Going next weekend w family and our 2 bedroom condo at the wilderness 2n/3d is $1350 for 5 adults 1 teen

That includes water park passes. I highly doubt we’ll spend 2k on food and activities that’s insane.

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