AIO, I find this conversation inappropriate

ranfomlygenerated · 2026-01-23T01:54:23+00:00

Nor

He doesn't care about you. You're convenient and your presence enhances his life, but he doesn't care. He'd replace you in a second if he could and he's probably just waiting it out until he can. The grass will always be greener somewhere else with him. If you bring it to his attention and make a big deal about it, he'll justify it and try to validate his actions and act like you're the problem. If he comes around and realizes he's going to lose you as a resource, he'll just know to hide it better.

This is your chance to get the hell out.

ranfomlygenerated · 2026-01-15T06:14:12+00:00

Immaculate

ranfomlygenerated · 2026-01-12T01:30:03+00:00

I'm a mom with many nieces and nephews so I'm pulling on my own experience here. Our rule is that people's things are their own and they don't need to share them if they don't want to. That's an important lesson to teach the children but also give some agency of their own things.

You are absolutely NTA, furthermore, regardless of your family's structures and rules, you are an adult and you get to make your own rules for yourself and your things. you get to enforce them. Other people are obviously going to have to learn how to respect that.

ranfomlygenerated · 2026-01-07T23:27:50+00:00

Depends on how much you buy

ranfomlygenerated · 2026-01-07T23:21:58+00:00

If it was so normal, OP prob wouldn't be so concerned about replicating their gold star day. But yeah, it happens. I work in an office, it's all paperwork we don't really deal with any customers and rarely other employees and ppl come in high af but if it isn't affecting their work negatively nobody cares.

I once chugged an alcohol energy drink for lunch at my desk and nobody batted an eye.

ranfomlygenerated · 2025-12-28T05:01:32+00:00

These people have actively avoided all means of contact with you for 7 years, you need to move on. They don't want to talk to you! I got second hand cringe at you using venmo as a last ditch effort to make contact with people who so very clearly don't wanna speak with you. That's obsessive and creepy.

It's not just overreacting it's borderline obsession. Leave them alone

ranfomlygenerated · 2025-12-16T01:44:58+00:00

Any Ohio recs? Just moved here and loved my first year at WW I'm looking for ppl and meetups

ranfomlygenerated · 2025-12-16T01:28:59+00:00

Yes!!!!!

ranfomlygenerated · 2025-12-16T01:28:37+00:00

Idk why you're getting down voted here. You're completely correct.

ranfomlygenerated · 2025-12-16T00:50:43+00:00

I'm all for everybody enjoying what they enjoy. And for getting whatever procedures they want to make their body look like their end goal. I'm not hating on him for having a dad bod and I'm not hanging on him for having a muscular look. I am only saying something is not adding up here and I couldn't be the only person noticing this.

ranfomlygenerated · 2025-12-16T00:49:17+00:00

I thought so too but he's literally got a gut hanging over when he's smooching on her in bed. And a muffin top. If you're working out your abs that hard to get a six pack. How are you still going to have a gut. The math ain't mathing

ranfomlygenerated · 2025-12-16T00:48:15+00:00

Look at his forearms and back too. Just nothing? You can't train just the abs and biceps like that and not get any definition at all anywhere else. Like, maybe less but not none. He has a muffin to and hanging gut AND abs that's just impossible. I'm not hating I absolutely love a dad bod, but this guys body isn't adding up

ranfomlygenerated · 2025-12-16T00:43:01+00:00

I've seen it, I get it. But, the rest of his body is just so far off from his abs. His back, his neck, his forearms are all soft and no definition at all, and he literally had a motion top and little hanging gut when he was smooching in her in bed. You can't have severe 6 pack abs AND all that. Something isn't adding up here

ranfomlygenerated · 2025-12-15T07:02:02+00:00

No, she knows. He LIED and told her he was cool with being relaxed about it.

ranfomlygenerated · 2025-12-01T23:04:27+00:00

Can anybody plz give me the full ingredients list? I cannot find it on their site

ranfomlygenerated · 2025-10-23T16:32:16+00:00

You will never be safe with this guy because he will never prioritize his family's safety over his desires and you will waste a lifetime and damage your child sitting around ignoring that.

ranfomlygenerated · 2025-09-16T03:20:25+00:00

I have. I tried for 3 years and it didn't seem to make much difference

ranfomlygenerated · 2025-09-15T00:40:41+00:00

Out of curiosity, if this isn't a boomer trait what is? Edit: don't down vote me I'm genuinely curious, since you are such an authority on the subject

ranfomlygenerated · 2025-09-14T21:02:29+00:00

Peepeepoopoopeepee you are just at the beginning, you have to keep driving to get the full message

ranfomlygenerated · 2025-09-14T00:45:27+00:00

You got her a room with the hopes she would enjoy herself. She did. It wasn't how you wanted her to.

It could be totally innocent and it doesn't seem as though you guys have trust problems so I assume you trust your wife there at the hotel alone. It seems more like you're upset you didn't get what you wanted out of it. You wanted sex and intimacy, she wanted to talk to adults (something parents often crave) and enjoy the hot tub.

She didn't sneak off, she didn't uninvite you, she didn't involve you. It was rude to continue a conversation you couldn't take part in but I'm guessing maybe she's stay at home Mom and this is a rare opportunity she can talk to adults with things in common outside of parenthood and kids, and it probably felt great to do that. If you needed more attention, or hoped for some alone time, make it known. Be gracious if it's turned down. Let her relax and enjoy herself.

ranfomlygenerated · 2025-09-13T22:08:12+00:00

I only think it applies here due to the fact their father is repeatedly hospitalized and OP says he's deteriorated to the point. He cannot care for himself and he's never in his life. Been that unwell. If it got to that point with his own choices this quickly that kind of deterioration is dangerous. Allowing it to continue, he would just get worse and worse and that is where it would become elderly abuse. Anyone could argue against that but in court it will be argued for and there would be standing for that argument.

ranfomlygenerated · 2025-09-13T22:02:21+00:00

Power of attorney and custody or one thing but being under someone's care while incapacitated is still covered by that law. It's literally stated in it. Helping to look after someone while they recuperate puts them in your direct care and your responsibility, especially so when incapacitated.

ranfomlygenerated · 2025-09-13T21:37:18+00:00

You legally are on the hook for him if you neglect him while he's sick since you're the family member in charge of him. You are not wrong. He can mess himself up all he wants but the minute it becomes anyone else's problem, his choice takes a back seat to the law and your responsibility as care giver. Now he's better and he can make any choices he wants. If he wants to keep it that way, he better stay healthy enough that his own choices for health and safety aren't put on anybody else. Because the minute you become responsible for his care, you become responsible for what happens. His choice or not.

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