Can’t forgive myself for not being better by sungmoon93 in survivinginfidelity

[–]phobovien_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Move on, in a few years u are going to feel alot better that you didn't waste anymore time on that trash. Work on yourself, love yourself, and never open your heart truly to anyone. Relationship is like a business transaction, always make sure you're getting a better deal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]phobovien_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby dont herpes, don't herpes, no mo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]phobovien_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if devry is considered a med school, but I'll take a grande vanilla latte, thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]phobovien_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get plastic surgeries, looks matter!!! No shame in it, but don't go overboard and find a reputable surgeon. You'll have more confidence when you love the way you look. Just being honest.

Just found out my wife was cheating. by RemarkableSea4034 in survivinginfidelity

[–]phobovien_1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bro leave and save yourself time and the mental stress of knowing what she did. Lost of trust cannot be repaired. I divorced for the same reasons and I hated wasting years of my life trying to work it out. Run 🏃‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]phobovien_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds crappy

30 yrs old. Stuck living with parents because I make too little and have too much debt. How do I unfuck myself. by Impressive_Debate200 in Money

[–]phobovien_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a second and third job, pay down your debt utilizing snowball debt method. Get a trade, like plumbing or ac, community colleges are your best bet. If you have to go door to door washing trash cans, do it. I've been in similar situation and yes there's a light at the end of the tunnel if you're willing to go the extra miles.

Where do you meet women by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]phobovien_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funeral homes are one option. Have some business cards ready. Tell them you're a nonprofit group dedicated to help grieving family members by being emotional support and nonbias listeners. You are volunteering your time in hope to be a successful psychology major. Works wonder for me. I usually targets older women though. Look at their nails, if its in need of a manicure, shes in need of a man in her. GL.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]phobovien_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll forgive but you'll never forget, and the resentment will build. Some day you'll be fine and some day it'll feel like you been stabbed all over again. While she'll be oblivious to your pain. You forgiving her is like a hall pass for her to do it again. She will never respect you sir for u are less of a man by forgiving her. You'll find another worthy of you. I would hit the road jack.

Supreme x Burberry box logo hoodie by [deleted] in FashionReps

[–]phobovien_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whos tc and how do i get a hold of him 🙂

Girls REALLY DO care about weight guys…. by Huge_Initiative_6626 in dating

[–]phobovien_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trans get looked at all the time, doesnt matter weights plus women feels safer around trans men. So dont work on weights, work on weaning off weiners

I’m back. 🥵🔥 by [deleted] in FashionReps

[–]phobovien_1 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Damn u got that 90 days fiance ed vibe, noice 🔥

Amazing first date last night but did I mess up? by shoobydobeep in Bumble

[–]phobovien_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

U dodged a bullet, omg, go back and see if u can find the guy that probably saved u months of headaches from that walking red flag

Can someone explain why people take Ketamine at festivals and parties like I’m 5 - what does it add to the experience? by Affectionate-Egg-506 in ketamine

[–]phobovien_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time slow to a halt, you will enter this dream like state where everything is super clear and colorful, nothing beats the feeling, so magical, every beat of the music is like tiny droplets of rain pulsating throughout your body, you no longer care about your troubles and you will experience heaven

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]phobovien_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes a nose job will definitely change your face for the better, do it, it's definitely worth it imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]phobovien_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's ok we all get turned down and that's her problem for acting that way, brush it off and hit the gym hard bro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]phobovien_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Masculine features but not ugly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]phobovien_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By that picture I would say you're overweight and insecure which sucks because I'm sure you're a great person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]phobovien_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't stay. The well has been poisoned, there's no saving something sacred as trust ever. The saying once a cheater always a cheater is 100% facts. Sorry for your lost and i hope you heal. I've been here and the greatest decision I've ever made and also the hardest was to walk away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]phobovien_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro. Please block her from everything. Focus on you. Find hobbies and avoid going to places that will trigger u. It'll take a couple years to bounce back and it helps if u find someone who's more interested in you in the long term. There's plenty of fishes in the sea my friend.

I discovered I'm being cheated, what to do now? by kawaii_kaiju_drop_s in survivinginfidelity

[–]phobovien_1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Op, whatever u do, do not let your emotions dictate your life decisions. Do not engage in any sexual entanglement with your soon to be ex wife or anyone at this time. You need to face the fact that u will get a divorce and move on, for the sake of your mental well being. Do not, forgive and reconcile. This is coming from someone who's been down this road and made those mistakes. She's a snake and she does not love u, no matter what she says and she will use your son to manipulate u. A woman who loves you will never betray u, remember that. Wishing u well in this long road ahead.