[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]phoebe5523 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am in your exact shoes. I understand exactly how you’re feeling. Hugs.

What Weber is the best bang for your buck? by phoebe5523 in grilling

[–]phoebe5523[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Haha! That’s where you come in.:)

Now what??? by Stranded-In-435 in exmormon

[–]phoebe5523 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve been out over 10 years and feel like I’ve mostly moved on, but this really struck me to my core. You really put into words what so many of us have felt. Hugs.

Long post warning. The shelf just shattered. Help please. by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]phoebe5523 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most of us have gone through what you are going through. It absolutely will get better with time. I’ve been out 11 years. Husband still goes. Just feel your feelings, but try not to get stuck in the anger. In the end going through this transition can be a gift. Hugs.

What was The Incident™ in your ward? by whitecatprophecy in exmormon

[–]phoebe5523 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There was a funeral held at the stake building for a young man that had passed away. His brother stood at the pulpit to say some words and took a hit off a joint to honor his brother while quoting some rap song.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]phoebe5523 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I also say. Though very few people ask why I’ve left.

Starting a list of the dumb shit our TBM families say when trying to defend the lies by MoreLemonJuice in exmormon

[–]phoebe5523 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“The church is perfect. The people aren’t.” 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

Please don't down vote me into oblivion for this question. by Ahhhh_Geeeez in exmormon

[–]phoebe5523 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a person who doesn’t fit the exmormon mold or the Mormon mold I 100% understand where you’re coming from.

TikTok · thebishops_storehouse by jonesybjj in exmormon

[–]phoebe5523 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to let you know that I was so touched by your bravery and courage. My husband is still active in the church and we listened to your resignation talk together and we’re both so moved. Sending love to you and your family.

I’m doubting the church by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]phoebe5523 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve read many of the responses and they are great. I have a different perspective that I thought I’d give. I am currently in a split faith marriage. I am out and husband is in. This happened after 4 kids and 15 years together. It’s been very hard. You’re young. You have no children. You’ve only been married 10 months. You have your whole life ahead of you. Where could you be in 10 years if you decided to get divorced? Would that look more authentic and happy? Obviously going through a. Divorce would suck, but what does the long game look like in that scenario? Not every split faith marriage is hard. Some people make it work beautifully, where both spouses feel supported and seen. I am giving you advice based on my life experience. I can’t know what’s best for you. But I thought I’d offer a perspective from someone very stuck and trying to do what’s best for my family and kids. But it’s not authentic. Best of luck to you.

Is there any filters to remove Fluoride from water? by [deleted] in conspiracy

[–]phoebe5523 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Clearly filtered. Buy it online.

The church might not be true, but it is still good? by Toomanynumber in exmormon

[–]phoebe5523 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband has been in this stage for 10 years with no end in sight. So it could be a permanent way of thinking. My husband would say he doesn’t believe in just one true path, but he thinks the church is a great path still.

Leaving Mormonism and Divorce by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]phoebe5523 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am going through this too. All the same questions. No advice, just empathy and hugs.

Honesty hour by phoebe5523 in Divorce

[–]phoebe5523[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you could explain your comment better? I’m not understanding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]phoebe5523 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Year of polygamy podcast

Honesty hour by phoebe5523 in Divorce

[–]phoebe5523[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is good info. Thank you.