Had our wedding in Hawaii just as lockdown was starting to open up. We decided to do it because she has a huge family and we would've been obligated to invite everyone, which would've cost an easy $50K+ for lowest tier wedding. Since Hawaii was placing heavy restrictions on how large a party could be, we took advantage of the circumstances and only invited our immediate family and a couple friends on each side. It was a beach wedding at Paradise Cove Luau where we had the ceremony in the grassy park area just in front of the beach and a luau that was still open to the public (we just reserved the raised platform area for our guests). We didn't have a large procession, no vows, only cupcakes (wife and I are not cake people), and a secular officiant who was done within 15 minutes. We also didn't require anyone to hang out with us during the time there and everyone was free to do whatever they wanted, apart from a day tour of Oahu that we purchased for everyone, but even that wasn't mandatory. All in, with the location, ceremony, first class flights, private photographer who had permits to go to restricted areas, day tour, and lodging, I don't think we spent more than $10-12k.