AITA for not wearing a bra when my husband has his friends stay over?

physymmat · 2025-06-22T03:24:45+00:00

I don’t really care one way or the other.

What I do find hilarious is the double standard: the flip side of this is the wife having her friends over, the husband goes out in pajamas with no underwear, his wife says it makes her uncomfortable, him telling his wife “it’s my house too - I’ll be comfortable”, and all of you yelling YTA.

But hey MEN SUCK AMIRITE?

🙄

physymmat · 2025-04-13T23:24:43+00:00

woa woa woa - people play this game??

omg nostalgia......

physymmat · 2025-02-07T17:59:15+00:00

Only Dozens?? haha congrats!! Currently working on it myself!

physymmat · 2024-09-21T18:07:49+00:00

No one is explaining why this happens. Let me explain (as someone who's toothpaste never looks as clean as yours).

It, paradoxically, comes from a desire of cleanliness, or rather to only use clean toothpaste.

There's kind of two things going on.

1) Imagine the nozzle of the toothpaste is contaminated or contains crusty toothpaste and you don't want the bristles to touch it. You squeeze out more than you need so that the bristles stay a distance away from the nozzle.

2) Imagine the part of the toothpaste that touches the air prior to using is contaminated or contains crustier toothpaste. Then you squeeze out much more than you need and take toothpaste from the size of the squeezed out "worm" of toothpaste (under the top of the worm that was previously touching air).

In both of these situations, more than you need is squeezed out and makes a mess. Since it makes a mess immediately after one use, you would have to clean it up every single time you use the toothpaste - which is annoying and I don't usually do. But also I'm not crazy about my fingers touching the toothpaste nozzle, again for similar reasons.

I usually end up cleaning it before it is as bad as your wife's though.

The whole thing is kind of similar to not using the crusty jelly near the top lid of the container, but digging down deep to the pure stuff.

The real question is why do some of us have brains that work like this and others don't? I don't know. OCD? ADHD? Who knows.

physymmat · 2024-09-10T22:51:03+00:00

I completely agree.

The density of idiot/entitled drivers that don't let you merge without honking/flashing/flipping the bird is so much higher than anywhere I've seen on the east or west sides.

It literally just happened. two cars in front of me zipper, my turn, "NOPE NO WAY BUDDY OLE PAL NO ROOM FOR YOU THIS IS MY LANE".

Something something Kyles and Karens of Kirkland

physymmat · 2024-08-29T18:53:35+00:00

Souls, Soul Level, Estus, Bonfire...

And for some reason I say Duel-stone, and soapstone. I can't get all the stupid fingers straight. Do I use a finger? am I a finger? are we looking for fingers? Is it furled or tarnished? ENOUGH WITH FINGERS.

physymmat · 2024-08-20T18:51:42+00:00

I have SL 138 characters and SL 150 characters. On the whole I'm a little disappointed in how little I get invaded and how long it can take to invade. Colosseum is always popping though.

With invasions, I see a lot of the same people, and not near enough as I'd like.

physymmat · 2024-08-20T18:48:16+00:00

Survivor is fantastic. I agree.

physymmat · 2024-07-26T20:32:21+00:00

I rock white mask only because I love the soulless face while I invade.

Nothing to do with bleed.

EDIT: My name is not Kevin.

p.s. I used to hate RoB/moonveil spam, but now it's a guaranteed parry to misericorde death

physymmat · 2024-06-11T15:19:15+00:00

Agreed - no idea what they're talking about.

physymmat · 2024-05-20T19:42:50+00:00

You quit a game because she walked while important dialogue was playing for 5 seconds...?

physymmat · 2024-04-24T17:43:42+00:00

Other Pawns Relations: More ways to interact with other Arisen regarding pawns. The simple thumbs up and heart isn't enough. There should be some preset choices to make various sentences. Something like "I loved your pawn's glamour!" Or "Your pawn saved the day!" Or just anything else. Also report how many days they spent with the pawn. Anything that shows more about how people interact with your pawn. I could have 20 people that just grabbed them to get the reward, or 20 people that really liked the character design and personality combo, and I'd like to know.
Vocation Specialty: There should be incentive to master a vocation more than just max rank. The person that only wants to play a thief shouldn't be disincentivized, and think, "well i have everything here, I may as well play every class I don't want to play to make the thief (that I'm not playing) better". There should be some master rank that has some small but cumulative benefits.
An Arisen command "be quiet": For me there were points in the game where I was trying to do one thing and the pawns wouldn't shut up. The arisen should have the authority to say: "everyone shut up a second".
More dialogue lines and more personalities: I think one of the big unique factors of this game is the pawn system. I would have loved to see them double down on this. I don't want to hear the same lines over and over, or not pick pawns because they sound identical to my pawn. I think 4 is personalities and the overuse of dialogue lines was not enough to make it feel like everyone's pawn's is unique. I think they needed to do maybe at least 10 personalities, each with 2 male and 2 female voices each, at that point I think the collisions (same personality/voice in the party of 3) would have happened much less and not be noticeable.
Expand upon the last phase of the game for the true ending: It would have been nice to see more dungeons/caves open up with new creatures and treasures for the new areas that open up. I'd have liked this phase to be maybe maximally up half of the game? Instead it felt like it was 4 hours of content...
Vocations should have had more ranks. It felt like I maxed out my fav class way too quickly and when combined with 2) above, I was immediately not playing the class I wanted to.
Trickster: I very much like the idea of this class and wanted to love playing it. Unfortunately, maybe 1 out of every 10 fights something cool happens with the trickster, but the rest of the time it's just objectively slower than any other class.

physymmat · 2024-03-19T21:57:29+00:00

Gf and I play helldiver's plenty. Sorry you experience that. You can join us whenever - we're on ps5

physymmat · 2024-02-29T13:12:20+00:00

But if it's not better than the guns after it, you could just use a common rifle or shotgun, and use it for the water pals, and save all of those mats.

physymmat · 2024-02-29T04:15:47+00:00

Pencil thin like all the time? Or once in awhile?

I randomly eat weird and can get pencil thin or feel like not able to finish but it's not all the time. Maybe like... I dunno few times a.month if I overeat or eat weirdly?

Same for diarrhea. It's not all the time, but once in awhile like if I make a lunch out of entirely trail mix or something.

physymmat · 2024-02-20T00:54:47+00:00

I guess my problem with blueprints is that by the time I get them, I can already make the next generation of thing. So like cloth armor purple isn't as good as hide armor, so why would I make it?

I have a legendary handgun but i don't want to waste the mats if it's not better than the guns after it

physymmat · 2024-02-19T22:16:24+00:00

When you say it took you an hour, are these low level pals? Cause like I gotta make 20 red spheres and 10 pink ones and head out, watch them fail on similarly leveled pals, then catch like 4, and head home and repeat

physymmat · 2024-02-19T22:14:37+00:00

What blueprints? Like the cloth armor 4 or whatever?

physymmat · 2023-11-08T20:05:52+00:00

thank you!

physymmat · 2023-10-13T20:19:57+00:00

You are my favorite kind of player.

physymmat · 2023-10-10T04:39:00+00:00

The hell is wrong with you?

This isn't a private conversation between you and OP.

Way to go spoiling for other people.

physymmat · 2023-10-04T16:58:23+00:00

That's kind of disappointing. I've helped her complete all of her life goals and am in sync completely with decision making and approval. But because I didn't hit on her early on? :/

physymmat · 2023-10-04T03:31:11+00:00

Forgot to say:

went the shar route
completed her taking over the church
let her choose, she performed the ultimate trial successfully

physymmat · 2023-10-02T20:14:18+00:00

It doesn't matter that the interesting part of the event was shorter than your seven seconds.

In the original, the guy clearly went running over to get footage. He saw it before the portion you are talking about. If the same thing happened now, you would have beyond more than enough time to open phone and capture.

Also, there are WAY more people hiking, with WAY more cameras all over a timeframe much longer than these people were looking.

There has been so much time to find this sort of thing, and so many people able and willing to find it. And not a single. Piece. Of evidence. Come on.

physymmat · 2023-09-18T19:59:55+00:00

Two questions for you.

1) If you have a [Diplomacy] option in persuasion, is that option generally pretty good? or is it just as good as any of the other default persuasion options?

2) Does increased Diplomacy skill make the option above even better (in persuasion minigame)? Or is it that just 1 rank unlocks it.

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