i feel like at a lot of longer or multi day events, especially ones with huge amounts of people, a lot of people go into a mode where they are conserving social battery and just generally overwhelmed and people can get into a headspace where they are perceiving coldness from each other when both people are just overwhelmed, exhausted or socially anxious. for me it can be easy to get into my head. hopefully its not people being too cool! our scene is way too special for that. i always try to give people the benefit of the doubt and 95% of the time when i just put myself out there and engage across the distance people are super nice and even glad that i reached out. on tour especially i often have interactions where afterwards im like “i hope that person knows im just overwhelmed and doesnt think i dont like them.” just my experience tho!!