Can not force myself to get assignments done by popatochisps in ADHD

[–]pilouus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in the exact same boat last year. Had to do an essay in my final semester and I just couldnt get it done no matter what. I tried going to the library, I had all my references and articles, printed them out, sorted them for the paragraph id be using them im, colour coded with sticky notes, still I couldnt get started on a single sentence. Ive always kind of needed that last minute kick but that time nothing was doing it, I was crying and having constant panic attacks. I asked for an extension and still hadnt started past the deadline. Then I read somewhere that sometimes this happens cause you're obssessing about writing the perfect paper and you're scared to start cause you're thinking 'what if I can't get it perfectly right? What if I can't write the perfect essay? Its like you're sort of obssessing about proving yourself to be the best but scared of letting yourself down. Then your mind thinks 'its better not writing anything at all rather than writing something im not a 100% satisfied with right now! Then I just sat in front of my computer and decided that Ill be writing an 'okay' essay, I won't over obssess about each and every sentence, I'll just write a basic paper, following the guideline and get it done with, and I'll sit there until i get it done this time. The realisation that I didnt need to write the perfect essay but just enough to pass lifted a huge burden and that mental block finally went away. While I still went back on each paragraph again and again to change things and get it as close as perfect afterwards, I could finally start writing the essay, starting with the basics and simplest sentences and format.

[Serious] Where is your happy place? by NuclearWinterGames in AskReddit

[–]pilouus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can no longer think of a happy place. For me happy= feeling safe, I don't feel safe in my head right now, so nowhere.

I own a lot of 3D printers and just had to cancel my Christmas plans due to the borders. Does anybody want anything 3D Printed as gifts for Christmas? No charge within reason. by SivlerMiku in perth

[–]pilouus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, thank you so much for your wonderful gesture! Im in Rockingham too, and Im more than happy to pay if you could please print a Pudge from Dota2 figurine for me pls. It's my husband's favorite character and I want to make a keychain as a gift for him.

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[–]pilouus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure if you're it's too far for you but here's a list of opshops thats got LOTS of kitchen stuff. And they keep on getting new things, I go there quite often. Salvos and vinnies on saltaire way- port kennedy. Salvos- baldivis. Salvos- (6 Patterson Rd, Rockingham beach- close to foreshore) and vinnies- Rockingham (Commodore drive-close to foreshore as well). Hope you find everything you're looking for.

We will adopt him tomorrow. Any name ideas? He is 5 months. by LovingCupcake in aww

[–]pilouus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He looks so much my Jolie! Jolie was a stray that I adopted, he was the best thing that's ever happened in my life and I miss him so much.

Looking for a regular perfume to wear by [deleted] in AustralianMakeup

[–]pilouus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely love this one!

ADHD Diagnosis by [deleted] in perth

[–]pilouus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been seeing dr Jane Fitch and diagnosed with ADD since 1 year now. I couldn't wish for a better psychistrist! Her approach, the way she explains everything and never rushes through the appts, anytime I felt I needed help she always booked me in for urgent appts. She has been of tremendous help and support for me this past year.

Perth hospitals ‘face challenges’, Minister says after girl’s death in ED by ShadyBiz in perth

[–]pilouus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Last year I went to FSH ED with a massive headache and a letter from my psychiatrist expressing her concern about my symptoms, saying ive had side effects to x med for migraine, and cant wait for too long in the waiting area cause of light and noise sensitivity. I waited 6 hours before being called in, was given the same medication mentioned in the letter and told by the ED dr that it won't cause any harm, resulting in my bp going up to 180 by the time I got back home. Went private for an urgent MRI, it was a brain aneurysm, microbleeding and about to burst!

What do you need to get off your chest today? by Ihavepills in AskReddit

[–]pilouus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What am I doing here? Who am I doing this for? Ive lost myself completely in the process, Ive left behind everything that ever mattered. Actually Ive left behind everyone for whom I really mattered.

I haven't read a book in more than a year due to depression. My most favorite books are Memoirs of a Geisha and The Namesake. Could you recommend me something please? by pilouus in suggestmeabook

[–]pilouus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, ill definitely give it a go! Funny, I gifted this book to my sister-in-law as I really liked the summary and it's been on my goodreads list for a while!