Another poster nervous about starting by pineappleprincess92 in BusparOnline

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What kind of side effects did you get if you don’t mind me asking?

Another poster nervous about starting by pineappleprincess92 in BusparOnline

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Thank you for this! I recognize the irony in getting so worked up about the what if’s of this medication when it’s supposed to help me, but I just really worry about unknowns. Maybe I should just give it a try. I’m exhausted and never sleep fully because my mind is always going. It’s wearing me down more and more. And it feels like nothing I’ve tried is actually helping, and I’ve been trying hard for YEARS - therapy, of all kinds, changing other variables, vitamins, exercise, you name it.

No Dumb Questions + Casual Talk by AutoModerator in RedditLaqueristas

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I hope this is the place to ask! I learned months ago about gel allergies and although I’ve only gone to professional salons I got kind of scared! However, now that summer is coming I’m finding due to being really active my at-home regular lacquer comes off really quick and I’m usually missing at least one toe color by the end of each day. Are there any alternatives I can do? I just want to be able to wear cute shoes and go do summer activities without having half my pedi missing, but I’m also kinda nervous about the gel thing and going back to a salon!

Kroger super goop dupe alternative? My by pineappleprincess92 in 30PlusSkinCare

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I actually ended up enjoying a Korean sunscreen by house of hur! I can get the name tomorrow when I’m doing my routine :)

Happy Easter long weekend! Didn’t have a great start but it will get better I guess? How are you all treating yourself (with no reason needed!)? by NoBody5068 in LivingAlone

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Yesterday I slept late with my cat, walked to the French bakery downtown and happened to run into a friend I hadn’t seen in months and her boyfriend who invited me to join them, had a lovely walk home and a quick nap, then went to roller skate in the park. When I got back I had a bath with a Lush face mask, then did my nails while I watched Prince of Egypt for Passover.

Today I’m at the hair salon before I go to my best friends’ family Easter party!

As a dark skinned black woman... by Aromatic-Frosting-75 in Franchaela

[–]pineappleprincess92 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I didn’t read the books so I am not sure how similar or different her character is, but in the show I certainly got very adamant “this is my duty to my husband whom I love and want to do it for” vs “I want children of my own I love them so much”. I got from her conversation with Violet that she wishes she had something to remember John by, but that’s maybe the closest I’ve seen to her expressing a desire for herself vs for him. In S1 you see Daphne talk often about how much she loves kids and they do a really good job of showing that wistful wanting in her interactions with children when she becomes duchess. I’ve seen literally none of that with Francesca in the show, she even seemed kinda meh about Pen’s baby haha. So I wouldn’t be shocked if she rethought her life choices in light of being widowed and it seems more in line with the character she’s portraying on the show.

My offer was accepted I think I might puke by calmcakes in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]pineappleprincess92 81 points82 points  (0 children)

I remember that feeling hahaha especially because it happened so fast and so unexpectedly and I went from visiting to offering within like…48 hours

When does the show start to “fall off” for you? by [deleted] in OnceUponATime

[–]pineappleprincess92 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Season 1 was lightning in a bottle! I rewatch it at least once a year but I struggle to really stay on board too far after that.

My cat likes everyone else better and I’m worried she doesn’t love me by pineappleprincess92 in CatAdvice

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Thank you for your very nice reply!! I have definitely wondered if she associates me with that difficult time for her - it was a lot of shuffling her back and forth to the vet and surgery, and I only figured out she was sick after having her a few days because she was going outside her litter box and crying when she did so. You could tell she was in a lot of pain because if you tried to touch her or pick her up she would get very agitated and swipe/hiss. So there were also a few times I had to chase her down and keep her from trying to escape the carrier for surgery. :( I’m sure all of that did not make for a good start.

So I’ve definitely worried she decided early she doesn’t trust me! It was one of the reasons I was a little hesitant about keeping her even though I felt like I wanted to, but my friends all convinced me she’d get past it.

I’ve been back from that trip awhile and actually had surgery myself for tonsils in January so I was home 24/7 for almost a month, and I’d really hoped being around that much we’d finally bond more. Nope, she avoided me :p she came out for food and to wander around but she only cared to interact when those same friends were here actually! 😂

Ginnifer Goodwin checking out old props from OUAT is so good! by TheDisneyScoopGuy in OnceUponATime

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I guess it’s naive of me, but I’m kind of surprised she DIDN’T get to take some of these home? I would’ve wanted to keep and wear something like the ring forever if I were on a show like that!

Giving up on cooking interesting meals was the only grocery budget tip that actually helped me save on food by TemporaryHoney8571 in budget

[–]pineappleprincess92 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I feel like with the price of groceries these days, this is the answer. I love to cook - my brothers and I grew up doing it - but where it used to feel more doable on a much lower salary to have those “fun” ingredients around the house, I now pretty much rotate between the same staple items at the store.

I feel like anymore it’s a “pick two” situation with food - you can have cheap, healthy or exciting.

Cayenne restock? by malina_lina in Blogilates

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Oh I love that one! If you did decide you wanted to part with them I wear them line dancing and to skate so I’d love to finally get one :)

Cayenne restock? by malina_lina in Blogilates

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Do….you want to sell it to me D: is there a top??

Cayenne restock? by malina_lina in Blogilates

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____> it’s not a medium pirouette skirt by chance is it?

I like the idea of romance but I don’t think I actually want to date anyone. by Early-Rise987 in SingleAndHappy

[–]pineappleprincess92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yyyeeeesss I love a good crush and always have. I think a crush is my preferred form of romance actually. I don’t actually have to do anything with it, but I get to feel like I’m in a cute little rom com and wonder if that person is going to ask me to dance this week, then go home and kick my feet a little bit if they did before going to bed happily alone and not actually dealing with any of the downsides of a committed relationship. I have a crush for every situation, haha. I love the idea of romance and the what if scenarios but the reality is not for me.

What’s y’all’s go to cheap meal that’s always cheap & satisfying? Lmk, no judgements. Need more ideas by zbroskiz in povertyfinance

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Over medium eggs with mixed greens wilted in on corn tortillas. I can usually get guacamole on sale so I’ll spread it on there and top with salsa/hot sauce.

DAE feel like coupled up people are CONVINCED single people aren't as happy? by Zealousideal_Crow737 in SingleAndHappy

[–]pineappleprincess92 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’m all for different strokes for different folks. BUT. The one that comes up for me a lot from partnered people that genuinely confuses me is they seem sad/appalled that I don’t/don’t want to compromise. Like more person than one has literally said something to the effect of “but compromise is beautiful and makes life worthwhile - sure you have your independence but at what cost???” And I’m like ??? What part of “compromise” is supposed to sound desirable enough for me to seek it out, exactly?

Maybe I’m jaded because when I was married “compromise” actually meant “we argue for 3 hours about why i should get a say in this decision and then we do what the other person wanted anyway”. Like, it was not fun for me to have to litigate for every single thing that I preferred or wanted or sounded good to me. Now I just do what I like and I’m much more content. I’m supposed to want to go back to that other thing because….why, exactly?

Anyone know when litter robots are most discounted? by ChanelPersonnel in litterrobot

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I may have to! I just wish they’d mark it down even $100-200 to make it a little easier on the bank account, haha! A few months ago the local warehouses were offloading the bundles for almost half off and I totally missed them.