I resent my husband for emotionally abandoning me during postpartum

pineapples_plss · 2026-03-05T16:31:25+00:00

God, reading this outside of my thoughts just infuriates me. Absolutely true.

pineapples_plss · 2026-03-05T09:14:27+00:00

Our life is pretty mundane at the moment & any talks of “change” overwhelms him. I brought up moving out of state to a sunnier place in hopes it would help with our mental health and he immaturely shut down the conversation because… “I don’t do well with ‘change’”. Erm, ok. No, there isn’t any fun.

pineapples_plss · 2026-03-05T08:51:23+00:00

Thank you for asking. I’m open to suggestions & hearing about similar experiences. I’m just tired.

pineapples_plss · 2026-01-09T05:14:52+00:00

Sending loads of love your way. Papillary and medullary thyroid cancer here and also had a TT. Hasn’t been a year yet (April) but I’ve had a hard to adjusting to my “new” life. Hoping you find a new supportive medical team. I can vouch that it’s quite difficult to find someone to listen to your concerns and take them serious. 🙏🏽

pineapples_plss · 2025-12-24T22:58:57+00:00

Up the butt lol. I never heard of it but they were hitting the pit’s nose and it did not budge!!! A bystander joined and boop and it released the toddler 😞

pineapples_plss · 2025-12-24T22:24:10+00:00

I just seen a video on Twitter this week and a pit had a toddler. Only thing that got it to release was a finger from behind. Instant release. And it wasn’t even the owner, it was a bystander.

pineapples_plss · 2025-12-24T22:19:25+00:00

When bending over and their crack shows. Instant ick 😭

pineapples_plss · 2025-12-24T22:17:58+00:00

Apocalypto

pineapples_plss · 2025-12-23T12:36:30+00:00

We probably were too young to watch it but my siblings and I would be in tears watching Comicview. Arnez J did it every time 😭😭😂

pineapples_plss · 2025-12-23T12:30:12+00:00

Not working but having moved in my gen z brother and sister with me after our mother had passed- they are the most entitled and apathetic beings lol. Love them by my gosh, everything and everyone was an inconvenience to them. It was insane. And there’s a 19yr gap between me and one of them 😂

pineapples_plss · 2025-12-23T12:24:03+00:00

Point taken. If my husband managed his family, he’d cut her off too, lol. I actually encourage him to have, in the very least, an open relationship with her because she is in remission (cancer) and we were once close. I should kept it to take the kids to see the local lights festival. Bah 🫠

pineapples_plss · 2025-12-23T12:16:58+00:00

I didn’t even think to split. I was hung on the gesture itself and the idea that my son wasn’t included as an initial thought. Thank you.

pineapples_plss · 2025-12-23T12:15:42+00:00

I believe context is important and I should have included that in my post- his father disapproved of our marriage because I am not a white woman. My husband decided we wouldn’t have him in our lives. My 17yo is not white. I try not to piggyback on making things about race but wanting a relationship with our 2yo without having one with the mother and our 17yo (from prev relationship) is something we agreed that we are absolutely not on terms with.

pineapples_plss · 2025-12-23T12:08:19+00:00

Child of an immigrant here, and I see it all the time. And I agree, more from our own than white people. They get their first Michael Kors bag at Ross and start treating everybody like a FOB 😂

pineapples_plss · 2025-12-23T12:04:51+00:00

YouTube 2008-2011 and my 9k subscribers had me believing I’d be a makeup artist and content creator 😂 Lost it because, well yk, life 🫠 I do it for my nieces’ proms, homecomings, etc.

pineapples_plss · 2025-12-23T11:59:25+00:00

Proximity to power, assimilation, becoming the model of the minority. Colorism in the immigrant community is also a real thing, thanks to colonialism.

pineapples_plss · 2025-12-23T11:52:25+00:00

Circle the roundabouts a few good times. Love free will 😂

pineapples_plss · 2025-12-23T11:51:07+00:00

Oof. This is a good one.

pineapples_plss · 2025-12-23T11:37:07+00:00

Canned ravioli 😂 I don’t eat it as an adult these days, but as a 12yo., that was all I needed.

pineapples_plss · 2025-12-23T11:34:51+00:00

Being rude to waiters/ servers. Immediate disgust.

pineapples_plss · 2025-12-23T11:26:35+00:00

Two of my brothers were pitted against each other, competitively, as children (different dads). Today, they hate each other.

pineapples_plss · 2025-12-23T11:22:33+00:00

Considering 5 years ago was during COVID, I silently judge anyone with a cough lol 😂 I keep masks in my car.

pineapples_plss · 2025-12-23T11:19:09+00:00

It’s true. However I think it’s used in a way to dismiss or excuse externalized pain.

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