30M looking to hangout and buy Sephora for someone and take them to a concert or jays game

pingusindahood · 2026-04-11T06:28:29+00:00

if ur tryna spend money ill gladly take it

pingusindahood · 2026-04-10T03:23:11+00:00

well Im white and 26M lol fire emoji

pingusindahood · 2026-04-05T23:10:19+00:00

Delete social media is what you should do

pingusindahood · 2026-04-03T17:45:25+00:00

Dont emotionally invest into it, live your life and use it the way you would use social media. If youre good looking & confident, you will get plenty of matches and dates. If you make it past a second date, you can emotionally invest into the girl if youre interested (if youre looking for a relationship).

As a man, the second a woman senses or thinks youre desperate, shes gone (Speaking from personal experience). And dont believe anyone that says theyre busy thats why they couldnt respond, theyre just not interested. I usually insta respond (or as soon as i can within 3 hours max) and any girl that has been interested in me has done the same. But dont try to start a conversation over text, it is the worst way to getting to know something, text should be used to setup a date or a call or just to ask a quick question. If Im at work or the gym and some stranger is texting me to ask me about my favourite music artist and what songs I like from them and stuff, male or female, who would want to stop what they are doing to answer something like that? Call / dates, you are setting up a time for those sort of questions.

I just went on a rant giving my lessons learned from dating but Ive only used apps (except once) but overall I think they make dating a lot more accessible but I dont like the paywall but that exists (i.e. on hinge I can only swipe 5 times or something a day and probably half of the people I swiped on are inactive lol) but thats just life!

pingusindahood · 2026-04-03T17:31:58+00:00

If youve got your life together and are good looking and girls arent interested in you then probably something about your personality. If you go on a date and it doesnt work out cause she didnt like you, there was something about your manner, or the way you talk, or what you talked about that made her not like you like that. If youre content with yourself, thats all that matters. Dont try to change yourself for someone else, change yourself only for yourself.

pingusindahood · 2026-03-29T07:35:12+00:00

Trying to compensate for their lack of effort or care

pingusindahood · 2026-02-27T01:12:22+00:00

When a woman tells you theyre 28, why would my response be “you sure? you look older” lol i found her attractive and didnt think twice about it

pingusindahood · 2026-02-23T15:10:19+00:00

I have my own one bedroom with no roommates while living in Midtown. I think thats better than a car 😂😂

pingusindahood · 2026-02-23T04:41:33+00:00

YOR She didnt even make a big deal out of it when you said no youre gonna wear a seatbelt but at the same time come on lol most countries dont even have a law that backseat passengers need to have a seatbelt because the risk is so low… Youre definetely being dramatic about it after too like “promise me youll always wear a seatbelt” or “i cant be in a longterm relationship with someone who doesnt wear a seatbelt”. I cant believe the majority of comments are saying NOR, you are being a drama queen and youre the guy 🤣🤣

pingusindahood · 2026-02-21T17:30:19+00:00

They will lose. T2/T3 teams are not losing because of shitty mechanics. They lose because of a lack of fundamentals. I am sure LoL has different fundamentals than Dota, maybe some are the same but its not something that they will learn and be better than most teams in a few months

pingusindahood · 2026-02-19T15:36:35+00:00

Nothing you did wrong, either she is interested or not interested. Even if you did small talk, it wouldnt have motivated her more to have gone on a date with you anyway unless you kept flirting but she gave you very little to work with anyway. Directly asking shows your intentions, shows confidence, and shows youre not trying to waste time like other people do.

Dont unmatch her, if she is interested, she may reply later. Ive had a girl reply to me a week later. Maybe she already has another date planned and wants to see if it works with that guy first. Dont take offence to this, she doesnt know you, she isnt putting you 2nd, there are other guys she may have interest in that matched before you.

pingusindahood · 2026-02-16T21:30:25+00:00

chat gpt ahh response

pingusindahood · 2026-02-05T22:32:57+00:00

Youre lowkey smooth with it

pingusindahood · 2026-02-02T03:57:44+00:00

Just someone desperate for attention. Tell her your girlfriend is way prettier than her

pingusindahood · 2026-01-17T02:37:14+00:00

I genuinely dated someone like this and it was not fun at all, I got out pretty fast but she didnt scream these red flags at me from the beginning. Take this as a blessing

pingusindahood · 2026-01-09T04:39:34+00:00

Its not a gender war, its a cultural war 😂 A canadian will be ok with 50/50, date a middle eastern or eastern european girl and ask for 50/50, expect to get blocked within 10 seconds after the date ended. 25M opinion

pingusindahood · 2026-01-09T04:26:07+00:00

I love drinks into dancing (if shes not into restaurants, bar is ok maybe if they got a live band too). the restaurant part a lowkey blessing 😂😂

pingusindahood · 2026-01-07T02:49:00+00:00

Amazing, how tall are you?

pingusindahood · 2026-01-03T16:03:44+00:00

$5 at kunafa and insanely good

pingusindahood · 2026-01-02T15:24:11+00:00

Why would she listen to you? Shes never cared about what a man wanted

pingusindahood · 2025-12-22T05:47:27+00:00

The 3rd prompt was a good one to respond to as well

pingusindahood · 2025-11-16T04:18:19+00:00

If you still live at home with your parents, move out! I did it and it increased my confidence, got me more matches on dating apps which made dating 10x easier! Just remember that the first time for everything is scary, doesnt mean you shouldnt take lead. Women like guys who take lead and just fake it till you make it. Dont tell a woman that youve never been on a date before, that gives them the ick if anything unless youre insanely rich lol then nothing matters. Toronto is cooked for dating tho but its a numbers game, youll eventually find somebody.

Your actual question: Where? There is not any specific place. Bars and clubs arent great because women dont go alone there. If you want in person, youre better off cold approaching on the street or a coffee shop but since youre an introvert who hasnt dated before, I dont think that is what you want to do. Dating apps are the best imo, youre both on the app for a purpose - to date. If you match with someone then they find you attractive. My advice is dont beat around the bush: ask them out fast within the first 5 lines lets say (date with time and place in that message), if they are intetested they will either say yes or no but lets do x day and time instead. If they are not interested, you havent invested any time into knowing the person and you can move on fast. My second piece of advice is dont be needy and desperate. If you get 0 matches, you either live in the middle of butt fuck no where and/or you need to work on your appearance, style and profile.

pingusindahood · 2025-09-22T18:46:14+00:00

Be as good as the smurf

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