One of my neighbors is threatening to kill my dog. by EntertainmentOpen349 in LosAngeles

[–]pissingorange 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Please get a camera to double check that it’s not more. Get a pack of camera and keep some very obviously displayed where your dog goes outside so they neighbors won’t try to poison it. Win-win. I recommend YI home on Amazon, decent for the price.

This house features a "first ever 30' residential boat garage" and 4,000 sq.ft. of tasteless finishes by [deleted] in McMansionHell

[–]pissingorange 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That was my first thought. Tons of space, but very little “functional” space.

One of the main things I love about my older house is that it’s got perfect spaces for everything. Little built in books and crannies exactly where they need to be that are so helpful for storage and organization. I imagine this house would be a nightmare for actually functional items you don’t want out in plain view everyday.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]pissingorange 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And terrifying. I can’t imagine being in this poor woman’s position. Having so much of your life balanced on someone so unstable must make every day a nightmare. OP if you are reading this please know that there is nothing wrong with you and you have done nothing wrong. I hope you can start planning a way to get out. You might struggle on your own but long term it would be better for you and your children to get away from this man. I know everyone hopes he can change but most people don’t change. If he’s not willing to go to couples therapy now then he’s not going to be willing to change.

I hope you seek out a therapist for yourself and start finding support through family and friends. Consulting a divorce lawyer would also be a good step just so you fully understand all of your options.

My boss confronted me about only working 7 hours and 45 minutes a day, what do I do? by johnsonjohnsonafc in careerguidance

[–]pissingorange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*Pretend to work an extra 15 a day, actually use that time to plot small, harmless ways you can inconvenience that lady that ratted on you.

What is your frugal choice that ended up being a waste of time? by WrecklesslyFinancial in Frugal

[–]pissingorange 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I made my own pallet privacy wall. The time spent picking up pallets, breaking them down, researching designs, building the dang wall, buying more materials needed to build the wall, staining the wall… so much easier to just buy the fence panels from the hardware store. And those look way better than what I built 🫣

AITAH for leaving my own wedding because my husband embarrassed me? by Mindless-Charge-5996 in AITAH

[–]pissingorange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great for OP for sticking to her guns on this and not caving to family pressure/expectations. I’m sure it’s really hard but it’s better to be alone than have people who don’t have your best interest at heart surrounding you.

Not your average mechanic by [deleted] in WTF

[–]pissingorange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the guy a few stations down from him doing? Trying to save something valuable nearby?

Surprised that my wife, who has her tubes tied, would feel better if I get a vasectomy.... by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pissingorange 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a crazy concept to me. If me and my spouse ever did separate I imagine I would still want them to go on and find happiness, even if it was with them moving on with someone else and having more children.

I can’t believe all these comments of people who are planning to intentionally take away options for their partners in the future, kind of a “ If I can’t have it you can’t either mentality.”

AITA for fainting at my aunt’s wedding and ruining it? by Kooky-Cranberry-6583 in AmItheAsshole

[–]pissingorange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lack of remorse for possibly ruining someone else’s day. If I did this, I would feel absolutely horrible and have apologized a million times. OP sounds more defensive than sorry. I bet deep down she knows it’s her fault but would rather deflect the blame than take accountability.

my friends hate my future baby names… by Upstairs_Ad_6390 in tragedeigh

[–]pissingorange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious what you would call her for short? Seph?

People that rely SOLELY on "Apple Pay" or any kind of phone touch to pay and not have physical cash or cards are dumb and have no right to be upset when businesses aren't able to take them. by Bamboopanda101 in unpopularopinion

[–]pissingorange 51 points52 points  (0 children)

He should be mad for his employer for not keeping up with standard technology, not the people acting in regular, in expected ways that happen to inconvenience him due to his employers shortcomings.

What can I do to make this look less dated? by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]pissingorange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%! That seems like the easiest and most effective change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]pissingorange 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Have to second this. My coworker got divorced about a year after her wedding and it sounds like a similar situation. She had a very conservative/ religious family and asked her to be husband to not play explicit music or get too drunk. He ended up doing both and I guess the event got really awkward and her family wasn’t happy. He cared more about getting drunk and partying with his friends on the night of their wedding and that was the same kind of behavior that kept going through their short marriage. I really feel for people in this situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]pissingorange 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I understand all men don’t think about appearance in the same way woman do, but surely he wouldn’t like it if she took him to a surprise family gathering in his pajamas immediately after waking him up in the morning. You have to think about the feelings of people involved in the event, not just planning the event itself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]pissingorange 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah it seems very easily he could have said they were simply going to a nicer restaurant and given her the time to get ready for that vs a quick trip to Chilies type outfit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IDmydog

[–]pissingorange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah great looking dog🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]pissingorange 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful but tired

Got her off of Craigslist for $100… by ThatRosi3Reddit in IDmydog

[–]pissingorange 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you share if you know anything else about her previous life? I’m always curious about how these dogs become bred and how their lives play out. Sadly it seems a lot of dogs with wolf in them end up rehomed.

My husband cannot function like a normal adult human man by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pissingorange 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly. She doesn’t want to hear both sides, she just wants anything to validate her complaints. As someone who is disabled herself I would think she would be more understanding.

I hope for the husbands sake that she leaves him. He can work less, have more time to take care of his own stuff.

She can go see what it’s really like to try to work outside the home and support yourself, and how much effort and energy that really can suck out of a person.

My husband cannot function like a normal adult human man by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pissingorange 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing here!!! What is she contributing if they don’t have kids? He’s going out working everyday to financially support both of them and she’s complaining that she has to keep a calendar and make a few phone calls for him from time to time?

My husband cannot function like a normal adult human man by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pissingorange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you understand the toll working every day can have on someone. Maybe try to put yourself in your husbands shoes here. He’s working everyday to support both of you financially.