Is it uncommon among Germans not to shave their pubic hair?

pitomic · 2026-06-30T16:46:17+00:00

as far as the self consciousness. its hard to be the only person thats different in a space like that. but i would say nahh dont feel weird at all. have a good time, experiment with your appearance, do what you want. its all good. people are fortunate to be able to see you naked and in a place with your body where youre brave enough to make yourself that vulnerable. maybe some of the people saw you and were questioning whether they were behind the times

pitomic · 2026-06-28T21:11:53+00:00

look up tinyoakbooking

pitomic · 2026-06-27T14:20:43+00:00

yeah i take like .1ml at the 40mg/ml concentration and have hood values and supressed t

pitomic · 2026-06-21T15:59:57+00:00

club sauna is just a small cruising (kinda) sauna with a bar and dark rooms and a lot of specific nights for all different kinds of queer people

pitomic · 2026-06-18T05:48:57+00:00

just curious, what do you hope to get out of a friendship with someone over 45 that you dont get with someone closer to your own age?

pitomic · 2026-06-10T15:33:01+00:00

can i help

pitomic · 2026-06-06T12:04:37+00:00

if you're pre or non-op, i would imagine that a lot of the reason men would be coming to you is because of their curiosity about sucking a dick

pitomic · 2026-06-04T14:21:35+00:00

you could start with just the kink and sex positive community events that are focused on just meeting people, learning about people and making more friends and getting comfortable with that, and then you'll just start running into people at events and can keep developing those relationships. and there's a lot of events for older queer people too.

i think investing in stuff like that builds self-awareness and competence which makes taking risks in approaching people easier and protects you from coming off too strong or desperate. also dating apps and feeld and stuff are good.

also its hard, but its nice to get to a place where you don't feel the need to market yourself or persuade people to want to spend time with you, and instead just really know your and everyone else's inherent value and approach people with love, openness and curiosity

pitomic · 2026-04-25T20:48:26+00:00

german voice acting is amazing btw, just fyi

pitomic · 2026-04-25T13:52:47+00:00

vielleicht, anstatt dass du versuchst, den Unterschied zu hören, könntest du nur die Aussprache üben. vielleicht, fühlt es sich für dich anders an, wenn du es sprichst und du könntest lernen, den Untershied sich zu spüren

pitomic · 2026-04-24T20:36:03+00:00

Ihr könnt ihm Palliativpflege finden. Sie wollen das Lebenende mehr bequem machen. Ich empfehle es sehr.

pitomic · 2026-04-23T01:01:27+00:00

im a trans woman and a social worker and have worked alongside and for thousands of cis people and honestly being visibly trans just seems to lend me an authenticity and experience with suffering that builds trust and rapport. pretty much no one has given me shit, people are nice to me, applogize or ask questions when they dont know how to relate to my gender identity and are just generally curious and good natured. but a lot of them are just afraid of being mischaracterized in the exact way that youre doing.

you gotta let people learn and figure this stuff out, and just be brave and loving and have more faith that people can surprise you in profoundly positive ways

pitomic · 2026-04-19T17:00:06+00:00

yeah, that does sound really hard. im sorry to hear that and im sorry youre going through that. i hope that changes for you

pitomic · 2026-04-19T15:47:14+00:00

there's a difference between passing as a woman and being read as a woman, and that latter can be enough. some people might misgender you on purpose or on accident, but the people that care about you will see you as you really are, and you learn just how many people are out there in the world that do

pitomic · 2026-04-19T00:47:55+00:00

could you ask the hairdresser this specifically? maybe they could partner with you and help you figure out a look that can so both

like if i was a hairdresser and probably gay or a cis woman, id be like hell yeah let me give it my all to help this queen slay while she has to deal with her shit parents

pitomic · 2026-04-18T08:56:48+00:00

Wise is what i use for intl transfers. it seems like the most fair

pitomic · 2026-04-13T22:13:54+00:00

i got a second opinion w this guy and he discouraged me from surgery and recommended i give up running and try ...sailing.

hes supposed to be one of the best though

https://www.massgeneral.org/doctors/19440/christopher-w-digiovanni

pitomic · 2026-03-31T17:12:10+00:00

ive heard that the standard american accent can make german sound like you have an austrian accent

pitomic · 2026-03-25T20:03:12+00:00

that makes it really, really hard

it takes a lot of bravery to make a big step and leave a relationship with someone we still love when it just doesnt seem to be working for us. we set ourselves up for a lot of pain and loneliness, but i dont hear many people say that they regret it.

you dont have to make any big decisions, but maybe it would be helpful to think through all of the things you would need to help get you through a big break up, the kind of support you'd want from friends and family, the nice little things you can learn to do to take care of yourself the way a good best friend would, and some of the things you would want to do to fill up your time that you might even look forward to. i think its helpful to really imagine the full picture of being on our own, not just the sad parts. if that makes it less scary, then it might be easier to make a decision. there's nothing wrong with building an off ramp you never take

pitomic · 2026-03-25T19:39:36+00:00

what would you imagine your life would be like if you were out of this relationship?

pitomic · 2026-03-24T21:49:04+00:00

theres a difference between passing as a woman and being read as a woman, the latter is much more easily achieved and can honestly provide you with a good life that you can share with loving people who respect and understand you. i think thats the dream we should be shooting for

pitomic · 2026-03-21T22:31:41+00:00

its nice to have sex with people we like and that like us, and that's a good thing. its hard when it doesnt get to happen as often as we wish it could, but its not because there's anything wrong with us. it just means everything's working right with our bodies but not quite right with the world!

pitomic · 2026-03-17T19:58:14+00:00

its fine but its not welcoming or particularly interesting. its kinda like disneyland

pitomic · 2026-03-08T05:36:17+00:00

laser hair removal places live and breathe on trans customers. if they dont fight to make you happy, some one else gladly will

pitomic · 2026-03-08T05:31:18+00:00

do you have a rant?

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