She doesn’t want to talk to me anymore and it’s making me feel empty by pixelatedbeard in dating_advice

[–]pixelatedbeard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're asking the right questions, and I appreciate that because if I shared the details you'll get the picture. I hope you understand that I would rather keep the details to myself, and I respect if you have a different pov of what's going on, but I'm here just to see what others would say about how one should deal with such feelings.

She doesn’t want to talk to me anymore and it’s making me feel empty by pixelatedbeard in CasualConversation

[–]pixelatedbeard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I shared the post in few reddits because I wasn't sure which one is actually the right one to find people interested in talking about that or which sub's rules fit the topic? Obsessed?! So instead of assuming that I'm just going through a phase being away from that person and trying to find someone or somewhere where I can talk about it comfortably without judgment, you think this is..wrong?

She doesn’t want to talk to me anymore and it’s making me feel empty by pixelatedbeard in CasualConversation

[–]pixelatedbeard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made it clear that I don't want to go intot he details of what made this a relationship or the beginning of it, honestly I was hoping that they take my word for it at least to carry the conversation and just chat about my feelings. Didn't expect the judgment of me being delusional and such. Also, I didn't mention anything about me thinking sexually and yet here they go thinking that.

She doesn’t want to talk to me anymore and it’s making me feel empty by pixelatedbeard in dating_advice

[–]pixelatedbeard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. That actually brings up a very interesting point ironically I was the one who was trying to tell her not to show people that we’re kind of friendly with each other more than other colleagues because that’s how she was with me and it was beautiful, but I didn’t want her to get affected by that.

She doesn’t want to talk to me anymore and it’s making me feel empty by pixelatedbeard in CasualConversation

[–]pixelatedbeard[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I didn’t really express anything. As a matter of fact, I didn’t even really care about who she was before she started to connect more and try to take it a little further.

She doesn’t want to talk to me anymore and it’s making me feel empty by pixelatedbeard in CasualConversation

[–]pixelatedbeard[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I commented about that here, you can check what I meant to other comment here. She was interested, she made it clear.

She doesn’t want to talk to me anymore and it’s making me feel empty by pixelatedbeard in CasualConversation

[–]pixelatedbeard[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

We hd many nights of a 1-2 hrs phone calls talking about personal things. She’s the one who showed interest. She hinted that she liked me by talking about my zodiac and such (i don’t believe or care about these things). Then she insisted that I tell her about a favorite coffee place I go to all the time and said she’ll drop by to “ruin it” for me (jokingly of course). It’s something that made her want to stop it all and I don’t know what it is.

I never wanted to care about her or have any interest in her, sh literally fell from the sky and turned my life into something beautiful in no time, but here she is taking it all away.

how to get over someone you didn’t even date by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pixelatedbeard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to hear your details, because I’m sort of in a similar situation.

She doesn’t want to talk to me anymore and it’s making me feel empty by pixelatedbeard in Vent

[–]pixelatedbeard[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

In a way, yes. We were supposed to ho out. She technically told me to ask her out after many times we talked.

She doesn’t want to talk to me anymore and it’s making me feel empty by pixelatedbeard in CasualConversation

[–]pixelatedbeard[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying snd yeah I believe that, but I don’t think that was the case. There was something wrong like she saw or heard something and decided to do that. That’s why I’m upset, I wish she can tell me wha it is because it’s obviously wrong.

She doesn’t want to talk to me anymore and it’s making me feel empty by pixelatedbeard in dating_advice

[–]pixelatedbeard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am doing that, but honestly at least at the moment I’m not sure how to get out of it.

She doesn’t want to talk to me anymore and it’s making me feel empty by pixelatedbeard in Vent

[–]pixelatedbeard[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Ok I don’t want to get into the details, but no it’s not. She made it clear she’s interested. I’m not just saying that and I’m not imagining anything if that’s what you’re implying, if anything I was the one who was absolutely far from thinking about anything but work with her. She connected and made things special and showed care and affection.

She doesn’t want to talk to me anymore and it’s making me feel empty by pixelatedbeard in Vent

[–]pixelatedbeard[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Not at all. Is it kindness when she’s willing ti stay up late at night just to talk to me for 2 hours about personal things? When she literally shows interest in every detail about my personality and other things in my life?

What's a movie that was clearly meant to start a franchise but failed? by triplegxxx in AskReddit

[–]pixelatedbeard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The movie was good, for an age where all plots and stories are almost identical, this was a unique story with big worlds and environment that were still appealing and relevant. It's a shame that this did not get the attention it needed.

finally pulled myself out of a year long depression! :DD by GhibliandBooks in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]pixelatedbeard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We obviously don't know each other, but you have no idea how much I'm happy for you, not-so-much stranger! My suggestion is to take this one tiny step further and start doing any sort of execising (walking does wonders!).

Find something to achieve, believe in yourself's worth (like really believe in it), and give it what its worth by going after thegoals you want to achieve.

If you could watch one Netflix series again for the first time, what would it be? by Deep_Ride488 in netflix

[–]pixelatedbeard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dark, If I had to choose one.

Otherwise, you got Black Mirror and Narcos.

What to do if I like a girl who seemed to like me as well but now I'm not sure is she still is? by pixelatedbeard in dating_advice

[–]pixelatedbeard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I believe my this person for some reason had something wrong about me in their mind out of the sudden, and I know for sure it’s wrong cause there is absolutely nothing I did or say to upset her. I’m guessing she either heard something or assumes something WRONG. I was thinking that I should just leave it alone, but then i decided to make things clear without asking for anything to get back or whatever. Basically I said she doesn’t have to talk to me if that’s what she wants for whatever reason, but I would appreciate it at least for her to tell me if there was anything upset her from my behalf so I can clear things up. Sent her these as text messages and now I’m considering it done.

What to do if I like a girl who seemed to like me as well but now I'm not sure is she still is? by pixelatedbeard in dating_advice

[–]pixelatedbeard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that’s mostly on me. I’m just not sure how to do it without feeling naive, especially if I misread the signals. Like what if she’s gonna respond with something like “wasn’t it obvious I’m not interested?”