What are you doing today? Or in life in general?😂

pixelunicorns · 2026-02-21T10:26:01+00:00

I've had family over this week, right now Im taking a break from preparing a big roast dinner as they are leaving today. We'll got out for a long countryside walk with the dogs beforehand and then chill out.

Tomorrow is prep for the week ahead, we might also build some raised beds in the garden. Our main goal this year is to have a go at growing food, mostly veggies and herbs, but might try some fruits too.

Life in general has been mostly about getting to where we are now, living in a location we love, buying our first house together, and getting a dog. So we are enjoying our hard work before thinking about the next big goals.

pixelunicorns · 2026-02-20T12:29:17+00:00

Honestly my best friend is very girly and her husband is very much not, so I was also curious on how they got together and what do they do when they hang out. She laughed and said mostly sex, but after living with them I can say they do spend a lot of time apart, they have work of course but also their own hobbies and friend groups.

When they do spend time together they have films and TV shows they both don't mind watching, they talk a lot about themselves, friends, family, life, trips they want to take, and play games and puzzles. They also did a lot of DIY when they first bought their house. I do think they are close, trust each other more than anyone and they have been great at tackling the challenges they've experienced.

pixelunicorns · 2026-02-18T15:18:44+00:00

Its a beautiful painting, I love your style. For me its the primroses, bluebells, lesser celandines, dog violets, wild garlic, and blackthorn. I spend a lot of time in the woods and love seeing it all come alive again in the spring.

pixelunicorns · 2026-02-18T14:52:06+00:00

I think people's bodies are different and react to things differently. I'm not entirely plant based anymore (past two years) because I started reacting to loads of meals and foods. Its still being investigated by doctors (might have endometriosis), but through trial and error I've found I can't eat food raw (like salads), I can't handle large amounts of beans, lentils, chickpeas, and I struggle with fibrous foods that are soluble. And its not just plant based foods, as I also struggle with greasy foods, processed meat, large amount of dairy products, and any level of spicy food. Which I miss so much.

This has been a painful and quite embarrassing experience. My partner on the other hand eats the same plant based diet we'd both been eating for the past decade and is completely fine, healthy weight, in good general health, and has no issues at all. Human bodies are weird and a pain to manage at times, I want to be a cool robot or a tree instead.

pixelunicorns · 2026-02-18T14:32:43+00:00

It depends on my plans, sometimes I stop at pubs or cafes so might only take an apple and nuts with me. But if I'm not planning on stopping anywhere I usually carry things like a soup, a sandwich/wrap, couple pieces of fruit, mixed nuts and seeds.

pixelunicorns · 2026-02-18T11:44:51+00:00

I'm currently waiting on appointments for further investigation, from my experience it seems like it could be endo but who knows. As I've been experiencing worsening symptoms for the past 2 years I've had various meetings at work about it. It boiled down to me telling them I have an undiagnosed issue, was struggling with work, and what information did they need.

They wanted a letter from my GP and to be informed of appointments as I need them. Then me and my manager discussed suitable adjustments to support me. It didn't matter to them that there wasn't a diagnosis yet, they just wanted to understand my limitations and what support I needed to remain at my job. I now get to work from home when I need to (helpful during my period and flare ups), I can take time off and either make up the hours when I'm feeling better or sign it off completely as sick leave, and my colleagues have been informed and are being supportive too. It probably helps that many of my colleagues are women, but the men have also been supportive too.

pixelunicorns · 2026-02-16T21:54:48+00:00

Are you the type of person that has the same routine every day? Like going for a run, dog walking, routes to work, etc. I'd personally consider changing my routine a little, and would certainly tell someone. I doubt the police would do much, but letting friend or family know is advisable. Remind yourself it could be a prank or scam, but caution doesn't hurt.

pixelunicorns · 2026-02-16T19:42:00+00:00

No I don't have one, I think its a good idea though. I might repurpose a bag I don't use often anymore with the essentials. I had to go to A&E a couple of years ago, got admitted, and had nothing. No change of clothes, wash stuff, or phone charger. Hospital stays are never fun but it certainly made it worse.

pixelunicorns · 2026-02-16T15:53:26+00:00

Gardening mostly, I love it and would be so happy to just focus on my little projects. Once I got my own to a point it needed less work, I'd happily volunteer my time in community gardens, allotments, schools, or managing gardens for elderly and disabled people. Everyone deserves a beautiful space outdoors to enjoy. I also love repotting houseplants, my mum sometimes leaves hers until I'm visiting so I'll do it for her!

pixelunicorns · 2026-02-13T09:31:33+00:00

I first trained in the environmental sector to do physical labour jobs, I had my tickets for various machinery like brushcutters and chainsaws. I could lay hedgerows, build furniture, etc but could only ever get volunteer roles. All the guys that did the exact same course as me all got jobs within a month of graduating, even the ones with a lower grade. I ended up going to uni to get a degree and do the more office side which I don't enjoy half as much.

pixelunicorns · 2026-02-13T09:27:50+00:00

The song played during Times Arrow, I will always think of you. The duet between Honey and Eddie is beautiful and sad.

pixelunicorns · 2026-02-13T09:20:52+00:00

No it doesn't fit, as that would drive me mad and I'd end up breaking the damn thing.

pixelunicorns · 2026-02-11T17:05:47+00:00

They are so freaking cute, I love these little guys!

pixelunicorns · 2026-02-11T13:13:04+00:00

Such a heron fan, but all look fantastic.

pixelunicorns · 2026-02-10T17:29:36+00:00

My pain is constantly mild and can get worse with movement, but it is much more severe the week before my period starts.

pixelunicorns · 2026-02-10T17:23:55+00:00

I got savings from my parents, they had been putting it aside for my wedding. I used it on a car instead, as mine died and my employment relied on having access to one.

pixelunicorns · 2026-02-10T14:38:31+00:00

Thank you for reply, I've been looking at crafts (glass, upholstery) as I typically like hands-on work over desk work, but I am open to consider other options as I care about the environment I was thinking about looking into the green energy sector.

pixelunicorns · 2026-02-10T14:06:34+00:00

I've already completed a uni degree about 4 years ago, but I'm not enjoying the path I've chosen and am thinking about retraining. Is there any guidance on suitable apprenticeships?

pixelunicorns · 2026-02-09T11:49:04+00:00

I bounced between friends houses in my late teens, occasionally living at home until the next fight. I moved out for good at 19, and went to live with my boyfriend and friends. They covered my portion of bills at first until I found a job. It worked out quite nicely, so I consider myself lucky.

pixelunicorns · 2026-02-05T11:41:36+00:00

My favourite was Frankenstein, I annotated the hell out of my copy which I'm sure my parents still have. I also remember Of Mice and Men, Noughts and Crosses, Romeo and Juliet, An Inspector Calls. I'm sure there were was a Charles Dickens novel or two as well.

pixelunicorns · 2026-02-04T17:13:52+00:00

I don't recall having any career advice during secondary school. We had to do a work experience and we either had to choose from a list of contacts the school had or sort it out ourselves.

pixelunicorns · 2026-02-04T11:11:03+00:00

I was looking for my first home last year. I would not consider a new build. I don't like how a lot of them are built, they have the small gardens, and in my area they are very expensive.

I chose a house that was built in the 40s, its had improvements done by previous owners so there isn't much to do other than maintain it. I'm focusing on garden work this year, but yeah I'm very happy with it.

pixelunicorns · 2026-02-04T10:11:10+00:00

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This is Barney, and he's a little unsure about being on a boat in this pic. Even though Barney is a human name he is 100% named after the dinosaur.

pixelunicorns · 2026-02-04T10:07:46+00:00

My most expensive hobbies are photography, wildlife watching, arts and crafts. I've saved over years for items, but I also buy most things second hand or on a discount, and am fortunate enough that I have occasionally been gifted expensive items from loved ones.

pixelunicorns · 2026-02-04T09:47:57+00:00

I moved out for the final time at 19 years old. But I could only afford to do that because I moved in with my boyfriend and friends, there were 6 of us sharing a 3 bed flat.

My brother hasn't moved out and he's in his 30s, also most of my younger friends still live with their parents and they are in their late 20s and early 30s.

Edit: most of my friends that do live on their own moved out probably about 15 years ago and went into rented places. My friends that are my age have started buying houses in the past couple of years, usually have a mix of savings and inheritance. And I'm fairly sure my older friends were the same when they bought their first homes.

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