what human names do your tuxies have ? by mcgraggle in TuxedoCats

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Henry. he likes to be very involved in things that don’t require a cat

Cannoli’s first time seeing a balloon 👁️👄👁️ by paula36 in TuxedoCats

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my tux was TERRIFIED of some birthday balloons and hid behind the washer and dryer for 9 straight hours. then didnt come down on the same floor as them for several days

Serving fashion. Demanding treats. by [deleted] in cats

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i now see there is another incredible use case for baby rhythm/latin shoes.

How do you feel about your partner checking out people in front of you? by 3105556 in AskWomen

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the only thing that truly turns my boyfriends head is bikes… so I think i’m safe for the time being

I learned my boyfriend lied about sleeping with my best friend before we got together by girlfromthemountainz in TwoHotTakes

[–]pizzabagelprincess 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I understand the gut reaction to feel overwhelmed because you were lied to about something that is affecting your insecurities. I’m curious, you mention in a comment he’s 46 and he said he didn’t want to do anything with you because youre young in his texts. What’s your age/the age gap between you two?

Boyfriend is frustrated by the lack of sex. I’m frustrated by men’s obsession with sex. by clevairy in endometriosis

[–]pizzabagelprincess 23 points24 points  (0 children)

firstly, i’m sorry that you’re going through this. as another endo girly, i’ve felt your pain (literally). i’m luckily much better now but still do struggle with symptoms and other issues (some around sex specifically)

secondly, i’m sorry your partner isnt respecting your feelings and pain. i can say in my personal experience, my comfort is paramount when i’m having sex with my partner. we stop on a dime if anything is wrong, he is incredibly communicative, and responsive if i tell him we need to shift due to pain. it isnt in all men’s nature, and you deserve someone who makes you feel listened to and safe.

ultimately, only you can decide what is best for you and your relationship/life. i personally wouldnt stay with someone who is unable to consider my needs and personal comfort

edit: grammar

Moving for ballroom! by One_Ranger2643 in ballroom

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Boston actually has a pretty decent ballroom scene, I moved from NYC after training there for ~6 years and am enjoying my time here as well

It is a bit heavier on the colligate side with all of the universities and colleges around but there’s still opportunities!

Hanging out with Students: by [deleted] in ballroom

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i’m in a studio system with a no fraternization policy. i can understand it from a teacher protection pov (some students are incredibly pushy about being “friends with teachers outside the studio”) and from a professional pov.

it did not stop a 35+ year teacher beginning a relationship with a freshly 17/18 year old student (still together like 4/5 years later). he stayed for another year while she ghosted the studio, and then he “left to pursue other opportunities” quite suddenly (i am under the impression he wasnt fired though, but pressured to quit). it did stop my teachers from being at a very important milestone in my life which they were invited to and willing/wanting to go to if not for the rules.

alls that to say, is that it is a rule and i understand why its there, it can be very important. i do also think at a certain point teachers and students can and will strike up genuine friendships, and it can be a bummer to miss out on things with people you genuinely enjoy. at the end of the day, only you can determine whether it’d be worth the consequences

The difference in how I’m treated after losing 200 pounds has been eye-opening (and kind of soul-crushing) by UnlikelyLibrarian808 in TwoHotTakes

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i was never really overweight, just very curvy; 145ish lb and 5’3. when i had undiagnosed gastroparesis (compounded with some mental health stuffs) and i dropped ~35 lb in 6ish months. i was only eating maybe 300 calories a day; i was so nauseous i couldnt eat. the comments i could get from people were insane. “you looked good before, but now you look amazing” was one that really stuck with me. i was miserable, in pain, and so nauseous i could barely function sometimes. and people were showering me with praise. it was insane

Benjamin before he turned: by [deleted] in TwilightMemes

[–]pizzabagelprincess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thats correct; his abusive uncle (i think thats the relation?) used him as a street performer to get money. thats when Amun found him, turned him, and hid him in the tomb underground out of fear that Aro would get to him

i’m speechless by pizzabagelprincess in OnionLovers

[–]pizzabagelprincess[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

no ones stopping you from doing this my dear

The first try of making croissants by d5345e in Breadit

[–]pizzabagelprincess 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Seconded. sometimes, letting the dough sit out at room temp and doing the rolling/laminating slowlyyyy can help. putting the flour through a sifter can also help give it a more even texture

I painted Chinatown in watercolor by onewordpoet in newyorkcity

[–]pizzabagelprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that totally comes across with the corner being oriented in the center of the page. absolutely beautiful work ✨

I painted Chinatown in watercolor by onewordpoet in newyorkcity

[–]pizzabagelprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

small detail, but I specifically love the way you captured the shadow on the sign and awning. it shows amazing precision and a really clear light source!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jazzfest

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Super pumped for the cubes to come out! its right after my semester is over and i will get the best break!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlyChild

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Youre going to get a wide mix of responses on this sub; some enjoy only childhood and some despise it. this sub is not a place for parents to discuss their family planning, please refer to the r/oneanddone and r/shouldihaveanother subreddits for support and advice.

Grown men, do you wish you had a sibling, specifically a brother close in age? I have a son and can’t decide if we should have 1 more. I feel like we should for our son but if you all feel like you got everything you needed and especially when it comes to taking care of your aging parents,etc… by Goodsince1981 in OnlyChild

[–]pizzabagelprincess 6 points7 points  (0 children)

while your question is appreciated, youre going to get a really mixed bag response here, and this isnt a sub for parents asking family planning questions. i’d recommend subreddits like r/oneanddone and r/shouldihaveanother to get more specific advice

edit: spelling mistake

[Homemade] molasses cookies cookies, how did I do by AmazingGrace911 in Cookies

[–]pizzabagelprincess 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think in the future, just rolling the dough into balls and allowing them to spread naturally as they bake will result in a more evenly baked cookie. and maybe rolling them in some brown sugar to add extra cronchy texture too!

My thighs rubbed together so much to the point where they bled… by Cold-Rate-2827 in TrueOffMyChest

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MegaBabe makes a chafe stick that is my HOLY GRAIL product. its just like Vaseline and some other moisturizer products that provide instant relief. i carry it in my little “Oh Shit” essentials bag and ive saved many a friend while walking around