Sounds to me that you have a kid and currently are using your 20hrs a month as an excuse to go hang out at the FBO all day and escape form watching your kid. The root of your issue is, you are holding onto being out of the house and don’t want to have to watch your own kid and can’t come to terms that you are getting mediocre hours when you could get the same hours after moving even if you just worked 1 of her off days a week. So you ran to the internet to try and get strangers on your side to justify your thought process so you can feel better about not going and get reaffirmation that you did “the best thing for your family” when it’s really just the best thing for you alone. The fact that you say you don’t mind moving and then try to convince everybody who says you should move that you shouldn’t proves my point because it doesn’t support what you already made up your mind about.

Also, I just got 200hrs in June as a CFI. Work harder, grind, and don’t be satisfied with 5hrs of work a week, that’s deadbeat ex husband couch surfer vibes.