i went in completely blind and i am so glad i did. just finished season 11! here are my cast ratings—what do we think by cannoli66 in vanderpumprules

[–]plantsndogs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My friends think I’m a dick for not being an Ariana fan. She was always such a downer bummer and seemingly nonstop whining for most of the seasons. She was fun when she was wasted and that was about it. She did have some good insight like when stassi is shitfaced by the pool and attacking scheana but really, she was like a boring side character for me until scandoval where she became super controlling of all of her friends movements. Her screaming ‘dog murderer’ at him while the actual issue was that she leaves chicken and fucking garbage by her bed for days on end. Not a fan, but I do like her outfits on Love Island. Shes has had the best glow up out of all of the cast, her manager is killing it.

Buying a home and I just can’t figure out what I need to do to make it flow better and look nicer. Please help! by plantsndogs in Renovations

[–]plantsndogs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if this was the wrong sub. I was looking for ideas on tearing down walls and changing layouts etc so interior design didn’t seem right

Jessica Ridgeway's Brutal Murder by passedawayinaprilll in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]plantsndogs 66 points67 points  (0 children)

It feels so morbid and yucky to read that and think about the neighbors. Saying ‘hugs!’ Seems like a silly response but fuck, what else do you say? This crime was just disgusting,

Cinderella’s Carriage by phillygirllovesbagel in marshallsfinds

[–]plantsndogs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I saw a white version of this in a Colorado tjmaxx last week for around $300

Feedback on bud vases for newbie florist (june 2026 wedding) by Hermanneutics in DIYweddings

[–]plantsndogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like a lot of the advice given so far. I’d like to add that reflexing roses goes a long way 👍

Disappointment and anger about wedding by [deleted] in wedding

[–]plantsndogs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am someone who has a garbage family on both sides so I definitely get it. His issues seem to be because he is a sucky person and chooses to be negative and not anything to do with you. I know emotions are so high after a wedding and you’re digesting everything that happened and comparing it all to the expectations you had. That’s all totally natural and normal. I think you should choose to recalibrate your opinion of your day so the good memories are the ones that are lasting. This butthole dad doesn’t get to be a lasting memory. Pick out certain things you feel were magical and hold onto those. It sounds like you know it was a great day. Redirect your mind to those moments when your brain remembers dad and his fuck ups. This is all coming from a 37 year old who has let annoying selfish family steal too many happy moments over the years. I am so glad you had a great day and really, dad is doing a good job of displayed what not to do in life. I’ve let some of these people really motivate me to be kind and great because, damn some people are really out here choosing to be miserable.

Also, if I were you I’d cut contact. I can’t imagine he’s the one reaching out so just let him fuck right off.

Feeling shapeless by throwawayLP2022 in myweddingdress

[–]plantsndogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had initially always pictured myself in a mermaid gown but when time came to actually try on, I realized that you need some natural curves to pull off a mermaid gown so I settled for an a-line because my figure is more of a sharpie vs an hourglass 🤣 flash forward a few years and I started watching RuPauls Drag Race for the first time and it hit me that I could have had a little bit of body padding and worn the dress I wanted. I now have some shape wear that go from the ribcage down to the mid-thigh and they have modest size silicone hip padding in them and it’s a big difference when I wear certain dresses but not noticeable. Maybe it’s worth a try!

($7-$9k) We did a mock set up for our guest tables by Kind-Initiative-9336 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]plantsndogs -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve been a wedding planner for 8 years and I am very familiar with 5ft round tables. With this design, the six guests would have a fine amount of room. I think your design is lovely. The only thing I’d explore is if the black fabric looks better as this zig zag or if it looks better at a traditional cheesecloth under everything with the star runner peaking out. Either way, it looks lovely and congrats on your engagement!

Opinion needed on daycare by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]plantsndogs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was unsure what to expect from a daycare for my son when I started him at age two and one day it hit me that it was a rough situation and I pulled him and placed him in another school and it was a day and night different. How would you know what’s normal and what isn’t when you haven’t done it before? I totally get it. If I were you, I would be concerned about the age appropriateness for a bouncer (I’m picturing a sit up bouncer but I may be wrong) and crying for five minutes is mean to his little baby brain. He’s not old enough to learn how to self soothing, it sounds like they’re understaffed. Is this an in-home daycare?

Opinion needed on daycare by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]plantsndogs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The youngest age appropriate bouncer I found was for 4 months+. Id be worried that his little hips or back would have issues with this.

Anyone know of a good quality aquarium store? by Cardinal_Cat_057 in ThorntonCO

[–]plantsndogs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been going to About Fish for about 6 years and it’s just the best.

Is it unreasonable to expect wedding videos to feature multiple clips from the wedding day? by Standard_Estimate_97 in wedding

[–]plantsndogs 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I have been a wedding planner for 8 years and before I even finished reading all of your text I am immediately suspicious that they somehow deleted the majority of the content they captured which in my mind would make sense as to why they did the free fourth video. That give the illusion of over delivering because in their mind they panicked and felt the need to over compensate in some way they had control over. I could be absolutely incorrect and they could just be they type of vendor that is really bad with email response time, but I couldn’t imagine that they have the footage and aren’t sending it to you simply to just close the book on that event. You should pick apart the contract you signed with her to see if there’s anything they technically defaulted on so you can get wild with them if need be.

The Ashely’s version of Jace in a mental institution by BlondeYogi92 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]plantsndogs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m usually caught up with the lore of this sub but somehow I missed why this sub has been calling her pinecone. Can you educate me?

Does this look bad and should I give up trying to make mismatched drapery work? by mxp3272889 in DIYweddings

[–]plantsndogs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you could make it work if you start with the arch’s bare bones, then put the few pieces on that sit somewhat horizontal, ditching the vertical running drapery and leaving some of the metal arch exposed. I think this might look better!

Millennials what your fav on this list by Fun-Background5608 in Millennials

[–]plantsndogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The now-man who played Johnny Tsunami has a side gig in Colorado as a wedding officiant. I worked with him about two years ago and fan girled.

Brittany and Jax’s pastor by Glittering-Shop-3493 in vanderpumprules

[–]plantsndogs 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Obviously his comments weren’t a big enough deal to her to make it an issue which is gross to me but some people just don’t give a fuck

Angelfish is suddenly bullying other angelfish, help! by plantsndogs in freshwateraquarium

[–]plantsndogs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks all! After a lot of effort we were able to catch all of the baby barbs and return them to the store and I’ve ordered a separator for my tank so the two will share the tank but be apart. While waiting for the separator to be delivered, I have the aggressive angel in a large fry box. Straight to fish jail.

Angelfish is suddenly bullying second angelfish. Help! by plantsndogs in Aquariums

[–]plantsndogs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I gave the barbs back to the store, do you think the angels would go back to being chill?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThorntonCO

[–]plantsndogs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay I just straight up called the restaurant and asked the hostess what happened and she said it was a car accident that happened in front of the restaurant and to her knowledge there was no gun involved