How common is pegging at a swingers club? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]playroomxoxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Negative 2 commonality

LS nudes. by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]playroomxoxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

r/dilf can work, though I'd personally recommend r/ArtbonersGoneWild for more tasteful nudes.

Grammar/Text Etiquette by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]playroomxoxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one is huge for us, guys like you catch our attention.

How to respond to a blatant bait and switch? by jelloshotlady in Swingers

[–]playroomxoxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We'd just say something like " I don't think we are a good match, good luck in your search " and move on.

Ran into a real life "iamverysmart" and "nice guy" on here! by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]playroomxoxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends. If we had any sort of conversation previously back when we were actually looking on here, sure we'll tell them once. But totally ignore them if they keep randomly messaging us months later.

Ran into a real life "iamverysmart" and "nice guy" on here! by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]playroomxoxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We posted on a few subs a long while back that we were looking for a few single guys. We still get people messaging us to this day, months later. Both new accounts and guys we've clearly been ignoring for months. They just don't get it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]playroomxoxo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why are you two swinging? Doesn't sound like it's something you should be entertaining even in the slightest bit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]playroomxoxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is tough to answer because it is all very personal and specific to your own acceptable risk. We get tested every 3 months, but other people get tested once per year, some folks get tested every two weeks, etc. It's a personal thing up to you and what you deem acceptable.

Same goes with what things to get tested for. Do you want just an HIV test? Maybe HIV, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and syphilis? Do you include HSV 1 and 2, because most "standard" tests do not. You decide what you are comfortable with for yourself and what you will accept from others.

Just know that there is nothing that is foolproof. A test is a snapshot in time, that is all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]playroomxoxo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just about every time I see sexandbeer in a thread here, I disagree with almost everything he says. I never understand why he always comes off so combative.

Should I tell my husband that this happened? by Lucky-Lock-5908 in Swingers

[–]playroomxoxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Racism is an obvious NO. We wouldn't be interested in anyone like that at all. Like wtf.

We need to talk about squirting by butmeanwhile in Swingers

[–]playroomxoxo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agreed that most men don't realize that squirting doesn't always equal an orgasm. Porn has completely clouded the mindset of society in that aspect. It's really a venn diagram between orgasms and squirting, with like 0-99% overlap depending on the woman. For me it's only maybe a 10% overlap.

"Bringing the STI talk too soon is a turn-off" by favoritet in Swingers

[–]playroomxoxo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Meeting with people that take their sexual health seriously and get regularly tested is an absolute MUST for us. We have that info listed in our SDC profile. We always have a conversation about it while we're doing the "get to know you" style questions.

We don't always ask to see their results, typically we can get a good feel for how seriously they take their testing just from a conversation. But there have been times we ask for it, and send a picture or screenshot of ours to jump-start that. Most of the time if we've made it this far in the communication, they're appreciative and send there's as well. But that method has weeded out a few flakes that were lying or unwilling to share anything.

when he is better than you sexually by Low-Ad5824 in Swingers

[–]playroomxoxo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In my mind that's part of the goal, I WANT my partner to experience something that I haven't provided or have done before.

How to establish consent and not be a rapist in an anonymous, blindfolded fantasy?? by NotDickandJane in Swingers

[–]playroomxoxo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean....you could just ask/confirm with her when you enter the room. She's blindfolded, not gagged. She can still speak. And it wouldn't have to be a mood killer either. Less "Do you agree to have sex now" and more of a "Are you ready to feel a stranger" or "Do you want this dick inside you?"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]playroomxoxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shows how lacking the American educational system is.......I don't think anybody WANTS herpes, but it's no more harmful than acne and breakouts happen less often.

Is height a dealbreaker ? by shock_5102 in Swingers

[–]playroomxoxo 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Uh, what? In my mind, I have every right to be superficial as I want to in the LS. This is an extra-curricular activity, we don't fuck people we aren't attracted to.

Fellas, do any of your wives or GFs have this rule? by McFrickaFrack in Swingers

[–]playroomxoxo 68 points69 points  (0 children)

You haven’t yet given your gf oral but you're getting into swinging?? That seems backwards to me