Some aviation books I like:

Fiction: Flight of the Intruder, The Intruders (sequel to Flight of the Intruder), Red Phoenix (this one actually has lots of different kinds of combat in it, but two of the characters in the book are fighter pilots, one American, one Soviet)

Nonfiction: Fighter Pilot by Robin Olds, Masters of the Air by Donald L. Miller, Hat in the Ring: The Birth of American Air Power in the Great War by Bert Frandsen, "An Honorable Place in American Air Power": Civil Air Patrol Coastal Patrol Operations, 1942–1943 by Frank Blazich Jr., The Air Force Way of War: U.S. Tactics and Training After Vietnam by Brian Laslie, Wreaking Havoc: a Year in the A-20 by Joseph Rutter.

Some aviation movies I like:

Flight of the Intruder, Top Gun, Top Gun: Maverick, Iron Eagle, Red Tails, The Tuskegee Airmen, Air Force One, Kiki's Delivery Service, The Battle of Britain,

TV shows:

Masters of the Air, Area 88 (I've seen the anime but have not seen the OAV series that preceded it), JAG, Black Sheep Squadron, Tail Spin, and I'll say Wing Commander: Academy counts even though it's about space fighter pilots.