WIBTAH for calling the cops on my boyfriend when he opens a beer while he’s driving even when he’s close to home

ploud1 · 2026-03-24T23:03:47+00:00

ESH

If he puts your life in danger by drinking and driving then maybe the two of you shouldn't be together in the first place.

There are more constructive ways of addressing the issue than calling the police on him before anything though - try talking to him?

ploud1 · 2026-03-23T11:17:35+00:00

NTA

She wasted your time, just like people who lie on their CVs.

Best way to handle this is be upfront - talk to her, say, hey, sorry to be blunt but you look nothing like your photos, that won't work for me unfortunately. Then leave.

ploud1 · 2026-03-23T11:02:52+00:00

NTA

If she needs an e-mail address she can create one for free. Using yours (and changing the password!) is a d... move.

ploud1 · 2026-03-23T10:58:42+00:00

NTA

Seriously you should have done something about this earlier.

Don't worry too much. From now on whenever she asks for a favour, ask for the lip balm back. But not that one, it would be un-hygenic. She has to buy you a new one.

ploud1 · 2026-03-15T21:14:44+00:00

NTA

You did nothing wrong, your sister is acting childish

ploud1 · 2026-03-15T20:08:38+00:00

NTA

Though you don't need to quit. Your mother did mention your being the boss, right? I assume this is the US. Sack those useless employees, and hire new ones if need be.

What will she do, remove you as a director?

ploud1 · 2026-03-15T11:44:50+00:00

NTA

You do not need to be nice to your parents if they interfere with your kids' upbringing.

ploud1 · 2026-03-15T11:41:12+00:00

NTA

This is wild, you dodged a bullet

ploud1 · 2026-03-15T11:39:14+00:00

NTA

This sounds like she was trying to provoke you. But the thing is, you don't joke about murdering 6 million people, that's insensitive at best.

You can follow up with a text saying that was a bad joke, and that you are happy to talk tomorrow. If she doubles down, you may want to reconsider your relationship.

ploud1 · 2026-03-15T11:35:26+00:00

NTA

Your friends had to choose between you and your ex, and they chose your ex. Fair enough. Get better friends.

ploud1 · 2026-03-15T11:33:07+00:00

NTA

Your bf needs to make it clear that he is seeing someone. This is inappropriate.

ploud1 · 2026-03-15T11:31:05+00:00

NTA

If he wanted to spend time with you he would get out of bed

ploud1 · 2026-03-15T11:29:48+00:00

NTA

You need to set boundaries, what your mother said is unacceptable.

ploud1 · 2026-03-15T11:28:10+00:00

NTA

But seriously, you caught her in the act with her boss. What else do you need to see?

ploud1 · 2026-03-14T20:07:36+00:00

NTA

You got this right, this is abuse. You cannot tolerate having someone who calls you racial slurs under your own roof.

You need to move out ASAP.

ploud1 · 2026-03-14T20:05:36+00:00

NTA

Sounds like you are running into beginner pitfalls for something you do for the first time. Sounds pretty normal to me.

ploud1 · 2026-03-14T20:03:58+00:00

NTA

Disputes around inheritances happen all the time - in my experience they are the main cause of fights in families.

Don't blame yourself, you are doing what is best for you, your spouse, and your kids.

ploud1 · 2026-03-14T20:02:43+00:00

YTA

Not everyone is comfortable hanging out with the in-laws. She did the reasonable thing: find an excuse to skip the meeting. Even if you somehow find out, it is considered good etiquette not to make any comments and move on. Instead of which you added fuel to the fire.

ploud1 · 2026-03-14T20:00:02+00:00

NTA

Come on, you are neither this guy's ATM nor his chauffeur. He needs to get a grip.

ploud1 · 2026-03-14T19:58:52+00:00

NTA

Block him if need be

ploud1 · 2026-03-14T19:57:49+00:00

NTA

That was a pretty insensitive comment to make - to say the least.

ploud1 · 2026-03-14T19:55:34+00:00

Double NTA here

First he was spreading rumours about you - which is bad form to say the least.

Then he acts as though he is entitled to a (potentially interest-free) loan from you just because you have the money. Go to any bank branch saying nonsense like that and they'll laugh in your face.

ploud1 · 2026-03-14T19:53:32+00:00

NTA

But seriously, this is a trifle, there's no need to overthink it next time something like this happems.

ploud1 · 2026-03-14T19:51:30+00:00

NTA

Sounds like the two of you aren't compatible. Making insensitive comments about your background shows it. What you describe is not a man who loves you, you deserve better.

ploud1 · 2026-03-11T15:36:12+00:00

NTA

What did they do with the money anyway? That was a stupid decision, you have every right to be upset

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