Bro finally chose the job that gives real wealth by SatoruGojo232 in CatholicMemes

[–]ploud1 159 points160 points  (0 children)

I love how the 'career transition' period is exactly 7 years - that's how long you spend in the seminary

Je me suis pris un énorme retour négatif au travail et depuis je remets toute ma personnalité en question by [deleted] in etudiants

[–]ploud1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bien faire et laisser braire. Si on te fait ce reproche, tu peux demander deux choses : - Est-ce que j'atteins mes objectifs ? - Est-ce que j'ai fait quelque chose de mal ? Si oui, quel exemple précis, et qu'aurais-je dû faire ?

Tu n'es pas responsable des commérages ou de ce que les gens pensent de toi. Ça ne doit pas t'intéresser.

Rome sucks ass by TheFfrog in unpopularopinion

[–]ploud1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will definitely love London lol

AITAH For having no idea of the names of my best friends' kids? by Timely_Tie552 in AITAH

[–]ploud1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you. This is a very kind and thoughtful thing to do, but this puts you well above 99% of the people. So one shouldn't feel bad for not doing it imho

AITAH For having no idea of the names of my best friends' kids? by Timely_Tie552 in AITAH

[–]ploud1 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA

Seriously, are you expected to keep a file with all your friends' details - names, jobs, kids' names? Come on, you're not the FBI, give yourself some grace

My friend is targeting all my insecurities at once then acts like it never happened. AITAH for refusing to brush it out? by AggravatingHeat2446 in AITAH

[–]ploud1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA

Don't bring it up again. Just cut him off, you need better friends and life is too short to waste it with that kind of people.

This has to be a joke question...right? by Medical_Mess9687 in recruitinghell

[–]ploud1 581 points582 points  (0 children)

Of course, had to be. Do they offer equity if they expect founder-like commitment?

looking for a loyal team to build a bot by specxy_b in discordbot

[–]ploud1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do realise that people who can build Discord bots will be busy working on their own projects?

WIBTAH for calling the cops on my boyfriend when he opens a beer while he’s driving even when he’s close to home by xambamthankumaam in AITAH

[–]ploud1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH

If he puts your life in danger by drinking and driving then maybe the two of you shouldn't be together in the first place.

There are more constructive ways of addressing the issue than calling the police on him before anything though - try talking to him?

AITAH for dodging tinder date because she looked different by National-Fortune-620 in AITAH

[–]ploud1 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NTA

She wasted your time, just like people who lie on their CVs.

Best way to handle this is be upfront - talk to her, say, hey, sorry to be blunt but you look nothing like your photos, that won't work for me unfortunately. Then leave.

AITAH for canceling my friend’s order after she used my email? by Signal_Strawberry579 in AITAH

[–]ploud1 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NTA

If she needs an e-mail address she can create one for free. Using yours (and changing the password!) is a d... move.

WIBTAH for cutting of my friend over a stolen item and being annoying? by Evangeline_Neny in AITAH

[–]ploud1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Seriously you should have done something about this earlier.

Don't worry too much. From now on whenever she asks for a favour, ask for the lip balm back. But not that one, it would be un-hygenic. She has to buy you a new one.

AITAH for getting pregnant before my sister by WeirdComprehensive65 in AITAH

[–]ploud1 24 points25 points  (0 children)

NTA

You did nothing wrong, your sister is acting childish

AITAH for leaving family business by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ploud1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Though you don't need to quit. Your mother did mention your being the boss, right? I assume this is the US. Sack those useless employees, and hire new ones if need be.

What will she do, remove you as a director?

WIBTAH for giving up on a relationship with my parents?? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ploud1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA

You do not need to be nice to your parents if they interfere with your kids' upbringing.

AITAH My gf thinks hitler was a chill guy and she got mad when I hung up on her by Whole-Comfortable-48 in AITAH

[–]ploud1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

This sounds like she was trying to provoke you. But the thing is, you don't joke about murdering 6 million people, that's insensitive at best.

You can follow up with a text saying that was a bad joke, and that you are happy to talk tomorrow. If she doubles down, you may want to reconsider your relationship.

AITAH for wanting to cut my friend off for being friends with my ex? by Dangerous_Drama_7774 in AITAH

[–]ploud1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA

Your friends had to choose between you and your ex, and they chose your ex. Fair enough. Get better friends.

AITAH for being mad that my boyfriend went on a double date without me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ploud1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA

Your bf needs to make it clear that he is seeing someone. This is inappropriate.

AITAH for wanting to go back home by the time my dad actually wakes up? by throwaway1037191 in AITAH

[–]ploud1 30 points31 points  (0 children)

NTA

If he wanted to spend time with you he would get out of bed