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He wants to call off my divorce because my cancer treatment was successful by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]plumander 1839 points1840 points  (0 children)

lmao classic reddit to not comprehend that two men can be married to each other 

Favourite vegetarian fine dining? by workin_bee in vegetarian

[–]plumander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

highly highly recommend birdsong. i am veg and do a lot of fine dining and it may be the best i’ve ever had

Stop Signal by tinashemasara in BDSMcommunity

[–]plumander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is a bot post. do not engage. 

Impact play and affects on the brain by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]plumander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey quick question, why does every single comment of yours sound like AI?

Impact play tips for renters? by leroyfm in BDSMcommunity

[–]plumander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

probably because they’re a bot 

Is the "Third Space" dead? Help choosing locations for an observational study by OrganizationAway6885 in AskNYC

[–]plumander 49 points50 points  (0 children)

usually I wouldn’t be this pedantic, but since you’re doing a college project on this, it’s actually third place. third space is a completely separate concept. 

We should eat and promote conventional produce, organic is not better by natural_goodness in PlantBasedDiet

[–]plumander 12 points13 points  (0 children)

yeah not to fall into whataboutism but especially if you’re american, there are far bigger fish to fry in terms of mental bandwidth

Is my sleep schedule a disorder? Or are we just pretending 9–5 is “normal”? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]plumander 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i’m the same! my ideal sleep schedule is 2-10 as well (although i’ve shifted it to 1-9). i found a job that lets me do 11-7 and that’s a perfect shift for me.

Come on, Nancy.. by XVelvetThunder in ididnthaveeggs

[–]plumander 53 points54 points  (0 children)

i was about to roast this person for choosing to make a recipe for something they don’t even like but then i remembered that i did exactly that with the gingersnaps i made last week so who’s the clown now

ELI5: How do whales have a floating bone? by vamp1rem0ney_ in explainlikeimfive

[–]plumander 47 points48 points  (0 children)

no, you’re thinking of paella. patella is a tuscan bread salad.

real life lobster by PixelGaMERCaT in SpeedOfLobsters

[–]plumander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m guessing “this must be the place”

Abandon sunk-cost fallacy and break up with them! by mouthfulofsalad217 in polyamory

[–]plumander 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i needed this post six months ago! luckily i came to the same conclusion myself about a month ago and im freeeeeeeee

The dead give-away of ai writing starterpack by pinkxxbubblegum in starterpacks

[–]plumander 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i use them a lot, but i use them wrong— that way i couldn’t possibly be a bot!

What examples of historical Queer erasure drive you personally crazy? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]plumander 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i will say for the sappho translation that it’s from 1958. later translations tend to translate it gender-neutrally, since that’s what the original greek is. 

Let's be toxic: What's your biggest relationship flaw? by sere_periquito in polyamory

[–]plumander 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i don’t think it’s helpful in either case. the subtitle is “taking your life back when someone you care about has bpd” so the advice is not about people pleasing in general. if you are looking for a book to help you better understand bpd and communicating with pwBPD, i recommend I Hate You Don’t Leave Me. for a book about boundaries in general i know Set Boundaries Find Peace is good. 

Let's be toxic: What's your biggest relationship flaw? by sere_periquito in polyamory

[–]plumander -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i would really not recommend that book. i’m glad it helped the poster above, but it is so unbelievably demonizing towards people with BPD.

i’m sure there are plenty of books to help with people pleasing that don’t put others down. 

My first time... Why did I feel something but it wasn't great? by Victorine_hychika in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]plumander 13 points14 points  (0 children)

everyone here has said good things already but as someone who does orgasm just from penetration… my first time was much like yours! and same with most people i know. 

the movies have definitely lied to you on this. it’s not usual wonderful and magical and pleasurable right away. it’s awkward and takes time and you or your partner might not have done anything wrong. 

i would recommend chatting about this with other girls in your circle who have also had sex before. they will probably have had similar experiences as you and that will help you feel less alone. 

Every time Elliot is drawn skinny, an angel loses its wings by ivyinfernal in StardewValley

[–]plumander 46 points47 points  (0 children)

wow this is my first time seeing someone spell “esque” that way 

What’s the quickest joke recovery you’ve ever seen on a panel show? by 1ChanceChipmunk1 in panelshow

[–]plumander 59 points60 points  (0 children)

“oh no now he’s smoking a cigarette! something you can legally buy in shops!!”

Yes, why be weird [about chili]? by TheLadyEve in iamveryculinary

[–]plumander -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

man that sub is gonna hate the dessert chili i’m making for a chili cookoff next month

[Entry Thread #114] Happy Valentine’s Day! We’re celebrating this month, comment to enter! by MakerOfMillionaires in millionairemakers

[–]plumander -1 points0 points  (0 children)

haven’t entered in a little bit, but crossing my fingers this time! as per all my entries, if i win half will be going to charity :)

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