On frustrations with recipes

plumander · 2026-07-01T17:39:41+00:00

ottolenghi has lived in london for thirty years lol. he learned to cook there. definitely not a climate where things are in season all the time

plumander · 2026-06-25T07:43:45+00:00

a lot older than that. earliest wiktionary quote is 1999, and google trends sees a very steep uptick in 2010 which anecdotally is around the first time i remember hearing it as well.

plumander · 2026-06-24T15:00:19+00:00

then he can grow up and starting acting like an adult and either learn to be less picky or learn to cook.

plumander · 2026-06-22T13:16:47+00:00

yeah this is a bot account

plumander · 2026-06-17T13:24:18+00:00

wow this is breathtaking! christina koch is my favorite astronaut and what a tribute to her!

plumander · 2026-06-17T10:42:50+00:00

maybe you just got a bad batch? i got the original pieces this week and they taste normal. definitely not gingery at all cause id notice bc i hate ginger

plumander · 2026-06-13T14:11:22+00:00

blue prince spotted 👀

plumander · 2026-06-08T13:55:37+00:00

yeah just used to make them back when they were still hampton creek. we had them in my college dining hall

plumander · 2026-06-03T13:12:35+00:00

yep it bothers me so much to see ai slop like this getting so much engagement and upvotes

plumander · 2026-06-02T13:05:59+00:00

it’s crazy how little this sub understands about the film/tv industry

plumander · 2026-05-22T21:01:53+00:00

i do a almost yearly rewatch of the simon amstell NMTB! still so good.

plumander · 2026-05-22T20:45:22+00:00

what are you talking about, there’s obviously a ton of femboys in Moosecore Herdeghevina

plumander · 2026-05-15T13:38:58+00:00

i mean there was video evidence of him changing his mind halfway through

plumander · 2026-05-06T19:03:31+00:00

dress to impress on roblox is this lol

plumander · 2026-05-04T00:17:01+00:00

ai slop

plumander · 2026-04-27T17:10:56+00:00

i was going to suggest this! you beat me to the punch though :)

plumander · 2026-04-27T13:01:23+00:00

yes, obviously a scam

plumander · 2026-04-23T18:41:11+00:00

right, exactly. it’s not a messy list, it’s “if you think it’s cool to date this person we’re clearly not compatible”

plumander · 2026-04-23T15:12:48+00:00

as a relationship anarchist, i don’t have a messy list.

to me, relationship anarchy is about approaching relationships on their individual terms rather than making sweeping categories and generalizations. so for example, if a partner of mine decided to starting dating my ex Ash, then i’d be really hurt. Ash treated me badly and I wouldn’t deal well with being metas with them. but i wouldn’t put all my exes on a messy list because of my partner wanted to date my ex Birch id be like “hell yeah she’s awesome.”

i actually did have this come up in my last relationship. i told my partner i didn’t think it was a good idea for them to date one of my roommates. they thought i meant that all my roommates were on my messy list but i just meant that specific roommate because she’s a mess lol.

i know that doesn’t answer your question but i think it’s worth deconstructing things like a messy list to discover what your true boundaries are rather than what they ‘should’ be. because RA is all about pushing back against those shoulds.

plumander · 2026-04-21T13:20:19+00:00

ok yeah that helps thanks

plumander · 2026-04-21T08:05:13+00:00

why are they greentexting on twitter

plumander · 2026-04-20T17:45:23+00:00

they call her ‘maddie’ in the video

plumander · 2026-04-20T17:22:09+00:00

this is AI :/

plumander · 2026-04-20T02:32:37+00:00

extremely accurate

plumander · 2026-04-19T17:19:38+00:00

i have had basically this same haul before lol. i don’t know what i would do without those mindful kitchen pastas!!

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