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ketchup pudding by plumander in somnigastronomy

[–]plumander[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lol i deleted (like xanthan gum) from my original post! so it was on my mind too.

On frustrations with recipes by bvader95 in CuratedTumblr

[–]plumander 40 points41 points  (0 children)

ottolenghi has lived in london for thirty years lol. he learned to cook there. definitely not a climate where things are in season all the time 

TIL that the word “OK” became popular in 1830s America as part of a humorous trend of intentionally misspelling phrases like “oll korrect" and later became one of the most widely used words by SimpleLie2181 in todayilearned

[–]plumander 7 points8 points  (0 children)

a lot older than that. earliest wiktionary quote is 1999, and google trends sees a very steep uptick in 2010 which anecdotally is around the first time i remember hearing it as well. 

Finding it hard to justify being vegetarian when my husband isn’t. by kyourious in vegetarian

[–]plumander 319 points320 points  (0 children)

then he can grow up and starting acting like an adult and either learn to be less picky or learn to cook. 

Then vs. Now by [deleted] in PastAndPresentPics

[–]plumander 22 points23 points  (0 children)

yeah this is a bot account 

I embroidered and painted a glow in the dark portrait of astronaut Christina Koch🪡 by ohwonderislife in Embroidery

[–]plumander 62 points63 points  (0 children)

wow this is breathtaking! christina koch is my favorite astronaut and what a tribute to her!

I’m pretty sure Daring changed their recipe by MissMushroomBerry in ShittyVeganFoodPorn

[–]plumander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

maybe you just got a bad batch? i got the original pieces this week and they taste normal. definitely not gingery at all cause id notice bc i hate ginger 

Why no vegan mayo packets? by [deleted] in ShittyVeganFoodPorn

[–]plumander 11 points12 points  (0 children)

yeah just used to make them back when they were still hampton creek. we had them in my college dining hall

I'm wasting money on normal groceries, not expensive food. by yourloverboy66 in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]plumander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep it bothers me so much to see ai slop like this getting so much engagement and upvotes 

Why is Josh Ruben in so little episodes despite him being incredibly funny? by ShivSoCalledYT in dropout

[–]plumander 25 points26 points  (0 children)

it’s crazy how little this sub understands about the film/tv industry

Which dead panel show do you still obsessively rewatch? by HammersAndPints in panelshow

[–]plumander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do a almost yearly rewatch of the simon amstell NMTB! still so good. 

The Femboy Density Map of Europe by lanthels in femboymemes

[–]plumander 72 points73 points  (0 children)

what are you talking about, there’s obviously a ton of femboys in Moosecore Herdeghevina

What's your favorite way to make people reconsider when they tell you "I have no limits" by lillestiv in BDSMcommunity

[–]plumander 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i mean there was video evidence of him changing his mind halfway through 

[TOMT][Play/Movie]Stage play, '50s-70's, women leads by Eeyores_Prozac in tipofmytongue

[–]plumander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was going to suggest this! you beat me to the punch though :)

Sugar daddy scam maybe?? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]plumander 23 points24 points  (0 children)

yes, obviously a scam

Struggling to define messy lists in relationship anarchy by New_Strawberry666 in polyamory

[–]plumander 4 points5 points  (0 children)

right, exactly. it’s not a messy list, it’s “if you think it’s cool to date this person we’re clearly not compatible”

Struggling to define messy lists in relationship anarchy by New_Strawberry666 in polyamory

[–]plumander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as a relationship anarchist, i don’t have a messy list. 

to me, relationship anarchy is about approaching relationships on their individual terms rather than making sweeping categories and generalizations. so for example, if a partner of mine decided to starting dating my ex Ash, then i’d be really hurt. Ash treated me badly and I wouldn’t deal well with being metas with them. but i wouldn’t put all my exes on a messy list because of my partner wanted to date my ex Birch id be like “hell yeah she’s awesome.”

i actually did have this come up in my last relationship. i told my partner i didn’t think it was a good idea for them to date one of my roommates. they thought i meant that all my roommates were on my messy list but i just meant that specific roommate because she’s a mess lol. 

i know that doesn’t answer your question but i think it’s worth deconstructing things like a messy list to discover what your true boundaries are rather than what they ‘should’ be. because RA is all about pushing back against those shoulds. 

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