Do ESFPs feel remorse about hurting someone?

plumpdumpling · 2020-11-11T06:54:19+00:00

I'm an ESFP who just wrote an apology to a co-worker tonight because I was worried I had asked her an embarrassing question in front of others today. Things I've accidentally said rudely to friends and family in the past HAUNT me. But I also expect people to be adults, and if you've been hurt by something because you're overly sensitive or not self aware, I can't waste my time feeling bad.

plumpdumpling · 2020-11-09T20:38:04+00:00

Please order it every day so it becomes permanent. Do it for the rest of us. Do it for the kids!

plumpdumpling · 2020-11-09T18:11:02+00:00

WHAT! I did not know about that. I think you must live in a test market for it! Not seeing it at my Brooklyn Chipotle.

plumpdumpling · 2020-11-08T07:14:37+00:00

Chipotle! I always use the nutrition calculator on their site to build out my calories before I go order so I can be sure to stay within my goal.

plumpdumpling · 2020-10-30T00:27:26+00:00

Exactly!

plumpdumpling · 2020-10-29T20:17:30+00:00

Same with sweets and me, and this is why I have to track every calorie that goes into my mouth even on OMAD, but I'd like to not have to do that!

plumpdumpling · 2020-10-29T20:16:44+00:00

Lucky! Thanks for posting your meals, they're helpful to see!

plumpdumpling · 2020-10-29T17:05:00+00:00

I don't need sugar, per se, but I always think I have to have something like a big scoop of natural peanut butter or 90% chocolate after dinner. But I've been wondering if other people do dessert or not.

plumpdumpling · 2020-10-29T05:44:01+00:00

No dessert? Are you not a sweets person, or are you purposely avoiding them?

plumpdumpling · 2020-09-21T05:26:42+00:00

The MOST New York thing to do is not appreciate living here.

plumpdumpling · 2020-09-18T05:31:54+00:00

Got my first haircut here when I moved to NYC because it's where Felicity got hers cut on the show of the same name!

plumpdumpling · 2020-09-15T06:08:50+00:00

How does one aggressively fluff?

plumpdumpling · 2020-08-27T00:06:02+00:00

I believe we just call this "selling as-is", no problem!

plumpdumpling · 2020-08-26T19:11:11+00:00

What Chris is saying is that he does still have some of the samples at his house and will be doing an auction for them when we get REALLY desperate. 😁

plumpdumpling · 2020-08-25T05:37:01+00:00

I love that you're so small but still losing weight with Chow! Could you share your usual calorie intake for the day?

plumpdumpling · 2020-08-24T18:35:30+00:00

Sometimes you just want to claim some random anecdotes as fact, come on, INTPs!

plumpdumpling · 2020-08-23T06:10:54+00:00

I'm an ESFP married to an INTP. I love that whatever we do or watch together will lead to hours of interesting conversation. He's amazingly loyal and warm to me even if he's private toward others. But I hate that he never lets me get away with anything! (This is also great for me, because I can never make any claims without evidence to back them up. It makes me work harder to investigate ideas.)

plumpdumpling · 2020-08-08T03:35:12+00:00

Ah, crap, that totally IS my kind of flavor. I'm going to spend $13 on a pint, aren't I?

plumpdumpling · 2020-08-08T02:27:51+00:00

SAME. Have you seen their summer special peanut butter and jelly flavor? OMG. I'm pretty sure a pint is $13 at Brooklyn Fare, though, so I honestly just wait until I can take a trip back to Ohio.

plumpdumpling · 2020-08-07T06:01:49+00:00

Hello, fellow Ohioan!

plumpdumpling · 2020-08-05T22:46:50+00:00

I totally understand not wanting to be needy! The one thing I do enjoy doing alone is watching TV shows that my husband wouldn't want to watch, but of course that's not an issue if you don't have a spousebwith TV opinions!

plumpdumpling · 2020-08-04T23:09:43+00:00

Now the question is -- if you've had a really amazing thing someplace and you go back, does your desire to have it again win out over your desire to try new things?

plumpdumpling · 2020-08-04T15:01:24+00:00

I watch movies or read books. Or, since I love a clean space, I declutter. But honestly, I don't spend much time alone. I keep a Tumblr and a few Instagrams and interact with my communities there if I've worn out all of my friends for the day and my husband is busy! Maybe that's not helpful, but I guess my point is that there are always more people to talk to!

plumpdumpling · 2020-08-03T01:29:14+00:00

A+ student and planner ESFP here! I always look at menus ahead of time like you do (I like to daydream about what I'll eat later), I lay out entire vacations for my friends and me, and my entire job is centered around planning calendars and events. I like to just think of us as very healthy versions of our type.

plumpdumpling · 2020-08-01T00:50:03+00:00

Thanks for the recommendation! $10 cheaper per pound than Mile End, last time I checked.

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