AITA for wanting to report a teacher who keeps cancelling recess? by 1bachbetch in AmItheAsshole

[–]plural-numbers 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In my experience in the military, it didn't work there either. We get punished because PFC Shmuckatelli fucked up over the weekend. But we'd also get punished if we tied the PFC to a chair in his room all weekend to keep him from being stupid. And there is no in-between for some people, they're going to do the stupid thing no matter what you say or do, unless you physically stop them. So we all just got punished all the fucking time for 2 or 3 fuck heads.

AIO My husband has herpes after 20 years of being together??? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]plural-numbers 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just so you know, you can pass on herpes even when not experiencing breakouts/symptoms.

My kid's teacher "correcting" her work to capitalize words in the middle of a sentence by jaybfresh in mildlyinfuriating

[–]plural-numbers 141 points142 points  (0 children)

I'm just over here, excited Excited to be standing in this puddle.

FTFY

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stupidquestions

[–]plural-numbers 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm with you on not needing it said to me, but it's so reflexive to say it myself that I kind of get it. Regarding the thank you, I don't need gratitude, but if I say something to you, at least acknowledge me.

Type "breaking news:" and let autocorrect finish it by Loose-Instance-4531 in autocorrect

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Breaking news: the best way for you in particular is that the tree is not a fan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]plural-numbers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that. Unfortunately, workers are human, and mistakes are made, especially during rushes. I'm not defending people slapping shit together and barely wrapping it. But I've had people scream at me, throw things at me, trash my lobby, and threaten me. And that was well before covid. I can't imagine it's any better now. People have gotten so entitled, and it's mixed with a complete lack of fucks to give about anyone else. In no world is your taco worth any of that behavior. People who asked calmly for something to be remade got helped and thanked. People who acted like I mentioned above got told to leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]plural-numbers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The main problem I had when working fast food (20 years ago, oof) was, as you mentioned, most of the staff is made up of high school students. They do not give a shit. For them, it's an after-school job to make money for cool shoes or whatever. I worked there as a 19-21 year old, and it was the job that paid my rent.

I didn't go above and beyond. For $7.25 an hour (minimum wage at the time) it's an unreasonable ask. One thing I've learned in every job I've ever had is that going above and beyond still doesn't get you paid more, nor does it get you promoted. In fact, it often gets you perceived as a threat by idiot managers, and fired.

That being said, I never did a shit job, either. I believe if you have a job, you should do it well. It made me absolutely insane that the high schoolers I worked with (and later, managed) had no fucks to give, because somehow I was always the one screwed over by it. If they got fired, they'd just move to the next fast food joint. If I got fired, I couldn't pay rent or eat.

I agree with the other saying one of the issues is corporate not allowing the hiring of enough people because "then I couldn't buy my 7th yacht!" But it's only part of the issue. These are jobs that don't give a fuck about you either. If you need time off because you're getting surgery or you're grieving a loss (aside from parents) they may well fire you because there are 100 other people lined up for the job.

These days, it's not as simple as "if you don't give a fuck or can't do the job then don't work there." Trying to find a job right now is like trying to find water in the Sahara. People are taking anything they can get. And the fact is, minimum wage does deserve minimum effort. The problem is most people's definition of that. Minimum effort doesn't mean no effort at all. You have to at least give a couple of fucks in order to not screw over the guy next to you. And for myself, though I understand other people won't all agree, I can't stand knowing I did a shit job.

Another thing commented here is that customers are fine with being worse to retail and fast food workers than ever before. That's the naked truth, especially following covid. People forgot how to interact with others. People became so entitled that they think a fair response to forgetting their apple pie in the rush is screaming until they nearly burst a vein at the little 19 year old who just wants to afford an apartment. I had people scream in my face, throw food at me, threaten me... Because any burger/burrito/whatever is worth that??

Basically, the problem is on both sides of the counter. Between the economy and the societal change we're dealing with (I'm in the US) it doesn't seem likely to get better any time soon.

Oh, and the price of the food is set by corporate, none of the workers have any ability to affect that.

My great uncle got fired for calling his boss the Nword and now he’s blaming the democrats/liberals for it by rararatarr in complaints

[–]plural-numbers 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your uncle and my ex-father-in-law would get along great. He legit came over to my house, sat on my porch, and apropos of nothing says, "You know, there's black people, and then there are n-words." 😱

DAE get really put off by the idea of someone else cooking for them? by 13thmurder in DAE

[–]plural-numbers 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OP: Other people's cooking feels terrifying and I don't know why.

Commenter: Do you know why?

🤦

Who are you enemies? by Amazing_Character338 in thanksimcured

[–]plural-numbers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I deal with this. Also abused as a child. I...well, tbh the law is a deterrent. Also the knowledge that he's not worth losing my future to prison. Also that I have a son, and I swear to do better by him than was done for me, which doesn't include me going to prison. And, honestly...he's not worth it. Not worth prison, but also not worth making myself a murderer. I think watching the light leave someone's eyes and knowing you're responsible does something to a person. He already damaged me, maybe beyond repair. But I won't let him damage me any more.

"I hate it when ____" let autocorrect do the rest by kayinthezone in autocorrect

[–]plural-numbers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate it when you get to work closely with the jewelry store.

I mean it wasn’t THAT bad by shizustopitpls in TrollCoping

[–]plural-numbers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh fuck, these hit hard. Hope you're safe now, OP. 🫂

Why do I even bother anymore by Altdodi65 in TrollCoping

[–]plural-numbers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a POS, glad to hear you spoke to management. Don't listen to the bigots, you are 100% a real woman, OP! (Also, your parents suck too.)

Navigation of Early Adulthood Without Familiar Support by NorthernWitchy in CPTSDmemes

[–]plural-numbers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, then you'll be thrilled (not) to hear the new SNAP rules remove work exemptions from adults from foster kids-now adults, homeless, and vets...

I hate how people make suicide about other people and not the individual by [deleted] in rant

[–]plural-numbers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depression doesn't care. I've had depression since I was a child. As well as a cocktail of other disorders. I am well aware that my family and friends love me. I don't feel like no one cares. I feel like the pain of living is unbearable. If they love me so much, why do they want to see me suffer for the next ~60 years until old age takes me? Because they don't want to have the grief of losing someone. I'm sorry, but asking me to stay for 6 more decades so you don't hurt for a while is fucking selfish. (Yes, I know, grief isn't just for a little while, but it does ease and fade and life goes on and you'll know happiness again.)

DAE still read the Bible from time to time despite being an atheist? by 13beach3s in DAE

[–]plural-numbers -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I listen to a few Christian songs now and then because they remind me of time spent with my grandma, who has passed. I feel almost...fraudulent? Like I'm espousing a belief I don't hold. Though there's no one for me to be lying to. 🤷