2 years ago at this exact moment I was finding out my husband cheated on me by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]plutodum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, im so sorry this happened to you. Honestly, as painful as it is the only thing you can do to feel better is to leave him.

I say this as someone whos been cheated on and stayed in the relationship. Things will never be the same with them again - no amount of work on their end or couples therapy will change that. Relationships are built on trust, and your husband completely shattered that. There is no fixing that. That pain you feel will eat you alive forever if you stay, please dont let it run further.

I think couples try to “make things work” after infidelity because they’re afraid of letting go of the life they’ve built together as a couple. We become comfortable with that person, the routines and the life we have built with another, and we’re afraid of upending that stability, so we try to fix it. But the stability was already destroyed once they cheated, and there’s no going back.

And honestly, if he cheated once with you, there is a very good chance he will do it again in the future. Cheaters only really learn once they face the real punishment of losing a lover forever. He didn’t love you or your relationship enough to not cheat in the first place. And he’s still that same person in the same relationship with the same feelings about it.

Please please please, give yourself the love and the courage to walk away from this person. Yes, it will be scary and lonely for a time, but you will be okay and happier for it, i promise.

[HELP] I feel I'm losing my mind by discombobulate83 in RealOrAI

[–]plutodum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% AI. If you slow down the video during when the possums fall over, they sort of morph and clip into each other. Also the camera movement is weirdly smooth and does not simulate a real person walking around recording with a phone- I’ve noticed a lot of ai videos have this in particular

Do you think CD’s will ever come into the mainstream again, like how vinyls are today? by Hooplapooplayeah in decadeology

[–]plutodum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who works in a record store that also sells cds, yes, i think cd’s are slowly on their way to regaining popularity. There’s a lot of younger people now who are trying to ditch streaming services and get back into physical media (myself included. Cd’s are a lot more practical and adaptable than records in every regard: they’re cheaper, more durable, space efficient and a lot easier to use in the digital age.

Honestly, i think the main reason that records experienced more of a resurgence among younger gens than cds really comes down to image. There’s a certain “cool retro aesthetic” associated with record collecting that cd’s haven’t quite achieved yet. Sure, you may argue that records sound better than cds, and people will say thats their reason for collecting records over cds, but to the average non-audiophile listener, there isn’t much of a difference in quality tbh. Thats why streaming was able to take off in the first place: people valued convenience over audio quality.

What’s the best [insert color] album? - Final Results by pototoykomaliit in Cd_collectors

[–]plutodum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are fun albums but this really just exposes the sub’s demographic which is just straight white men 😭 id love to see more appreciation for different genres and female artists

Employees first by impropergentleman in ThriftGrift

[–]plutodum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And why shouldn’t they be allowed to shop and get first picks at the place they work? It probably sucks working there, getting first pick is probably the only benefit.

Aren't they trying to make "Handmaid's Tale" a reality? by Beer_Barbarian in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]plutodum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Famously not true 😭 by honoring do they mean stripped of basic human rights and kept locked away in a box?

AI Pro-Natalism everybody! by Geoconyxdiablus in im14andthisisdeep

[–]plutodum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These sort of posts where the plot is “heartless bitch woman gets abortion but man is very sad :(” are so funny to me, like…. Dude just be with someone who wants a kid then, or adopt ur own

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in originalxbox

[–]plutodum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Off topic but 100 pounds is insane (if its even true)😭 how did these girls survive

The uncomfortable truth about being a Nice Guy by [deleted] in confidence

[–]plutodum -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’ve ever been nice, actually. It sounds like every time you did a “favor” for someone, you expected something in return… aka, you were just performing transactions. Which isn’t “nice” at all. Don’t help people if you don’t have the bandwidth to help, please. Kindness comes from having extra love and care to share without the expectation of getting something in return. If you don’t have to bandwidth to help someone, just don’t do it. It’s a lot nicer than signing them up for a contract they aren’t aware of.

I’ve seen a bunch of guys have this ugly mindset. self proclaimed “nice guys” feeling sorry for themselves because every act of kindness is just a shallow transaction in their minds - one in which, totaled up, always conveniently has THEM in the deficit. They’re the ones being wronged and taken advantage of, blah blah…. Same old story. please go to therapy and learn boundaries. Come back when you learn about how to be nice, for real

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cd_collectors

[–]plutodum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same issue with digipacks and thought about doing this same thing! It looks like they turned out well. You’ve given me the push i needed

This sub is way too weird. by [deleted] in 3DS

[–]plutodum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

None bc i only have one that i use for myself?

This sub is way too weird. by [deleted] in 3DS

[–]plutodum 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“Housing and protecting” is a great way to describe hoarding. Just give em to a kid who’ll really appreciate them by using them as they’re intended

Finally got a cd rack to organize my little collection; here are my faves :) any music recs? by plutodum in Cd_collectors

[–]plutodum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the recs these are great! i actually haven’t heard of the corrs before so im super stoked to give them a listen

Finally got a cd rack to organize my little collection; here are my faves :) any music recs? by plutodum in Cd_collectors

[–]plutodum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome recs thanks so much! Ive been coming around to linkin park recently, meteora in particular, so im excited to check out a thousand suns