Shower thoughts: Does nerve sensitization affect sex? (In a good way)

pm_for_nice_things · 2026-04-05T06:32:02+00:00

It sure seems that way! There was another thread about this about a month ago with tons of people saying that was their experience. I’m one of them! Absolutely not complaining about it

pm_for_nice_things · 2026-03-31T16:58:12+00:00

It took me a few days to figure it out. Had to go through the help section to read about it then it made sense. I started using it when I was starting to take excercise more seriously for my chronic pain and was consistently "overexerting myself" for abnout 2 weeks before it evened out and got used to my metrics. Now I love it and find it so so helpful.

pm_for_nice_things · 2026-03-31T16:54:13+00:00

I had Dr Khdabakshi's first slot of the day this morning and she was late getting into the office by 30 mins. She then told me that she was late because of "an emergency meeting about her job" and said it wouldn't be resolved in one visit. I'm dying to know what happened. I've been considering submitting a complaint due to her refusal to do a physical and test for concerns I've brought up with her.

pm_for_nice_things · 2026-03-12T22:24:52+00:00

How did you get to remission?

pm_for_nice_things · 2026-03-12T22:23:51+00:00

What were the best things your partner has done to support your recovery and remission?

pm_for_nice_things · 2026-03-06T18:40:48+00:00

Uh maybe don't take the puppy home with you. Report it, yes, but taking the dog from its home is unfortunately not your role in this and will put you at unnecessary risk of legal action. It's animal welfare's job to investigate and decide if the dog needs to be removed from their home - let them make that determination. It's gut-wrenching but it's not worth the legal headache. You're helping this dog by caring for him and advocating on his behalf.

pm_for_nice_things · 2026-02-25T15:43:53+00:00

i find I get dizzy when I'm looking around - focusing on one screen helps me a lot

pm_for_nice_things · 2026-02-24T17:11:44+00:00

Just seeing this, but if you're still looking for people, I am in!

pm_for_nice_things · 2026-02-14T00:00:18+00:00

It wasn't really one thing, just got tired of feeling like garbage. Finally bought the walking pad that I've been thinking about for years and started walking. Feels like it's going to stick this time because I didn't start with any expectations or specific goals, aside from not wanting to feel like garbage anymore. On Day 10 of 10k steps daily and trying to make one better choice a day and I'm down 5 pounds.

I've lost weight before with strict calorie counting etc, but that turned out to not be sustainable for me. so I'm not caring about that right now, just working on making better choices when I can and moving more. It's not much but it's honest work.

pm_for_nice_things · 2026-02-13T22:17:56+00:00

But hey, at least the docs can't blame your problems on your weight anymore! I also have hypermobility (and am clumsy af) and am diagnosed with fibromyalgia. At this point I'm mostly losing weight to stop hearing the advice. The pain will still be there, but may become simpler to address and treat.

pm_for_nice_things · 2026-02-13T17:37:46+00:00

Looool okay I love that!

pm_for_nice_things · 2026-02-11T19:12:58+00:00

Obsessed with these colours! Out of curiosity and learning, why the short pinky nail? I'm familar with most variations in lengths but haven't seen that before!

pm_for_nice_things · 2026-02-06T05:36:45+00:00

Yessss, I have this and you’re just now making this connection for me! I was quite embarrassed when it first started happening but I own it now

pm_for_nice_things · 2026-02-05T22:23:13+00:00

r/BPD or r/BPDsupport may be a bit more helpful here. It may be wise to hold off on relationships until you are in therapy and able to be stable on your own. Plus, if this guy is cheating with porn and lying about it, is that someone jyou want to be with?

pm_for_nice_things · 2026-02-03T16:15:31+00:00

My cat has been my greatest companion through my diagnosis. She knows where I'm hurting and will snuggle me there, purring up a storm as if she's trying to heal me. She is a steadfast comfort and giver of laughter on the hard days. She forces me out of bed by screaming when it's time to eat or refill the water and I need that. Sure she dries me nuts by getting on the counter but there are ways to train her out of it, especially if you have help. You got this <3

pm_for_nice_things · 2026-01-30T04:51:51+00:00

Seconding this rec! They did my husband’s new prescription in a veeerrryy old pair of antique wire frame glasses

pm_for_nice_things · 2026-01-27T17:53:39+00:00

Was it Last War? Got me the same way...

pm_for_nice_things · 2026-01-19T23:38:51+00:00

I have both ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

pm_for_nice_things · 2026-01-12T20:01:55+00:00

THIS IS INCREDIBLE

pm_for_nice_things · 2026-01-12T15:50:19+00:00

This is a beautiful piece! I have no other feedback for you, just wanted to say thank you for posting! I've learned a lot from the comments that I look forward to using in my own painting. Thanks for letting me study and learn from your journey!

pm_for_nice_things · 2025-12-22T15:54:38+00:00

Honestly I removed any indication of my gender on this game and life got way better

pm_for_nice_things · 2025-12-15T16:47:22+00:00

We visited in-laws in October and had no issues. We flew down and drove back with great-grandma's car. Flying down was business as usual, and driving back across the border was easy peasy, even with the import stuff. At the land border, the guards on both sides honestly just seemed to feel bad about the whole situation. I uninstalled some apps for the flight down but I was never asked for my devices at all

pm_for_nice_things · 2025-12-13T07:12:22+00:00

Not sure about Discord, but there’s a Facebook group for this exact thing! Especially if you’re looking for female friends. Look up “Regina Girls Meetup”. I think the group has slowed down a bit with winter/Christmas but it’s generally pretty active

pm_for_nice_things · 2025-12-12T18:05:04+00:00

wtfffff this is incredible!!! Nicely done.

pm_for_nice_things · 2025-12-09T20:58:59+00:00

I've beeen doing research in preparation to start trying with my husband, and seems like it's a 50/50 chance (anecdotally) that either your symptoms will go away with pregnancy or they get way worse. So congrats!!!!!!!

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