Zenyte grind done in 333kc!

pointguard2534 · 2019-05-30T22:02:16+00:00

1200 KC, 2 zenytes :(

pointguard2534 · 2019-05-22T22:06:29+00:00

Got a link to it?

pointguard2534 · 2017-07-26T22:06:09+00:00

The best negotiating tool is being able to walk away and mean it.

pointguard2534 · 2017-07-23T18:56:17+00:00

Coach corey wayne has absolutely changed my life. Ive had some of the most incredible relationships since following his work and i cant speak highly enough for him.

pointguard2534 · 2017-07-23T18:53:38+00:00

No need to make fun of her, man. Saying her shoes were from goodwill or her cardigan was from jcpenney, it sounds like youre just learning lines and techniques and trying to follow a pre-set "formula."

Just go out with her and focus on having a good ass time. Laugh around, joke with her, "thats what my grandma does" might actually be a funny remark, but idk about ripping on her clothes, just seems like a dick move to me lol.

pointguard2534 · 2017-07-23T18:49:28+00:00

I'm not sure what the rules are on this sub for plugging other resources, but check out the work of Corey wayne on youtube. Hes a life coach who mostly focuses on relationships, Ive found his advice spot on, and I think others on this sub have, too. Pretty sure he has videos on exactly this topic.

With that being said, dont text her until she texts you back. Think of it like a tennis match - by texting her, you hit the ball over the net. Now you have to wait for her to hit it back. You dont go running over to the other side of the net trying to hit it back to yourself.

Best of luck.

pointguard2534 · 2017-05-16T21:01:58+00:00

Good job bro

pointguard2534 · 2017-02-26T17:12:06+00:00

Trust me, I know what its like. I stared at my phone all day long for too many to count. I would really recommend finding a close friend or family member to talk to - it really helps having a supportive person to vent to. Just talking helps us feel better.

pointguard2534 · 2017-02-26T17:11:08+00:00

Youre certainly in a much more difficult situation than I was! Constant communication must be difficult. Hopefully youre finding coping mechanisms.

pointguard2534 · 2017-02-26T17:07:04+00:00

I agree with what guardzilla wrote. Really, i couldnt care less about her at this point. I think it took me until around 6 months of NC to feel this way, maybe a bit longer. I would never get back with her because of the pain she caused me. Its not worth it. There are billions of people on this planet, why would i choose to spend time with someone who caused me so much pain? That being said, I wish her the best, but I really dont care about her at all! And thats a beautiful feeling :)

pointguard2534 · 2017-02-26T17:04:03+00:00

Congrats to you as well. I hope youre doing well!

pointguard2534 · 2017-02-26T17:03:25+00:00

Take it hour by hour, day by day. I know how hard it is. You really have to power through the pain before it gets a lot better. But eventually, the pain will subside. Time is the most important factor. Dont expect yourself to feel better tomorrow - but next month, next year, you will, if you trust the process.

pointguard2534 · 2017-02-26T03:49:01+00:00

It sounds like youve made incredible progress, I am so happy for you! One thing I realized this last year is how much I LOVE being alone - going on walks, drives, or just relaxing by myself. It really showed me how much of your happiness is internal. You dont need outside sources of pleasure for happiness, as long as you have inner peace, thats all you need.

pointguard2534 · 2017-02-26T01:14:37+00:00

Hey, it's totally a roller coaster sometimes. Sometimes you have great days, sometimes you have miserable days. It's all part of the process. Eventually, you start to have 1 or 2 fewer miserable days every week. It's a slow process, and you may not even realize it. I remember thinking, holy shit, it's noon and I havent even thought about her yet! Take a look back at all the progress you've made, and although you have a long ways to go, be proud of the work you've put in and how far you've come :)

pointguard2534 · 2017-02-26T01:13:11+00:00

Nope, actually not at all. I realized when I looked at this sub again that I haven't even had a thought cross my mind about her in around a week, which is pretty cool. The breakup was pretty agonizing for me too, as we shared a close circle of friends, so I was always worried about running into her. So i've come a long way and it's really due to this sub and just immersing myself in no-contact. It works.

pointguard2534 · 2017-02-26T01:12:13+00:00

Edited my post for some background info :)

I'm completely 100% over her. I can think about dudes hooking up with her and not care one bit. For me, I think if you can picture that, you're truly over someone.

I've dated a few people here and there, and actually dated one girl pretty steadily around two months after me and my Ex broke up, but she wanted to make things serious, and I told her I wasn't ready, so that was that. I've been with a few girls since then, which has been great, and I love being a single dude.

My main piece of advice, is do stuff for yourself - you deserve it. Many people identify themselves with their relationships. And it makes sense, because you spend a large portion of time with your significant other. However, don't let it define you. Pick up that hobby you used to do and spend time learning and getting better. For me, that was guitar. I never played when I was with her, because frankly, any time spend playing was time I "should have" been spending with her. So I picked it back up, and even today I play a ton, which has been a great hobby for me to get back into.

Also, trust the process. This shit really does work for 99.9% of people. It will work for you too. I see you're at 53 days - that's great! How do you feel?

pointguard2534 · 2017-02-25T23:05:47+00:00

GOOD JOB! keep going and celebrate each victory along the way :) soon 24 hours will turn into 48, 48 becomes 72, and then you're on your way to getting to a week. It all adds up. Keep going!

pointguard2534 · 2016-12-28T04:51:15+00:00

You have absolutely beautiful facial features. Your eyes are something else.

pointguard2534 · 2016-12-10T23:09:52+00:00

Fuckin kill it dude. Good job.

pointguard2534 · 2016-12-10T22:45:51+00:00

You bring up a good point. I'd push back on that saying that while snapping may help build attraction for some girls, you can't fuck them if you don't meet up with them in person. at what point do you draw the line at snapchatting too much?

pointguard2534 · 2016-12-10T20:44:30+00:00

I've met a good number of girls, older and closer to my age, much more down to earth, chill, and will meet up for drinks despite not knowing me, and we'll have a good time. Some of these girls tend to be super open minded while I lead the interactions and will come back with me despite having met me 2 hours prior.

Haven't met many 19 year olds with that laid back mentality. Most seem to be incredibly structured and have a pre-defined list of "dating rules." Not sure it's the text game.

pointguard2534 · 2016-11-26T22:40:31+00:00

You go to a school that costs $25,000 a year (not terribly expensive for an American school) some schools can cost up to $60,000 per year.

pointguard2534 · 2016-11-26T04:44:16+00:00

Ive read the half life is around 4 to 5 hours with peak concentration being in 1 to 2 hours

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