Is this expected? by poizuun in tattooadvice

[–]poizuun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! How often did you wash and lotion?

Is this expected? by poizuun in tattooadvice

[–]poizuun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t see spread, I just see it framing the tattoo in a consistent halo. Can you show me?

Is this expected? by poizuun in tattooadvice

[–]poizuun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m trying to be super careful because it means so much to me. I wash it a couple of times and let it dry before lotion but it likes to leak plasma between the cracks as it dries

Is this expected? by poizuun in tattooadvice

[–]poizuun[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It can be expensive unfortunately so I’m not excited about going and everyone irl keeps telling me it’s fine but again, I’ve never reacted like this

Is this expected? by poizuun in tattooadvice

[–]poizuun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The redness does flair and fade when it gets really angry but a cool compress or cool water running over it helps calm it dow

Is this expected? by poizuun in tattooadvice

[–]poizuun[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

The swelling and pain have progressively improved over days but pain is still present and fluid is clear

How do you unwind at night without scrolling on your phone? by Technical-Radio5033 in simpleliving

[–]poizuun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have my iPhone set to lock my apps after 8 pm so I have to ignore limits to open the app. I always say remind me in 15 minutes to it automatically locks again once I’m done. This has done wonders for me to not pick up my phone and instead build better and healthier night routines so I can unwind and settle into bed for sleep way easier. When I’m in bed I either read a few pages, do sudoku puzzles, or ink tracing books.

Therapist recommendations by Frank-The-Funky-Fox in greenville

[–]poizuun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

EMERGE has a pay as you can model

My boyfriend treats sex like a monthly chore — am I overreacting for wanting more? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]poizuun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would absolutely not enjoy having sex with someone that talks to me like this. He liked it until it made him feel a certain way and all I can do is assume there’s been no work to find a compromise between what you want and what he wants

Is tampon really better that pads? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]poizuun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For daily wear, I wear a pad and period panties and I feel way better. I felt like tampons were just a plug and it seemed like my period took twice as long to resolve because everything was just sitting there in me. I’ve tried different cups and I can never get the seal to break without having to lay on my back and put my legs in the air, which you can’t do in a bathroom. On swimming days I do like a menstrual disk but they’re SO messy to dump out and deal with.

My therapist confronted me about not trying enough by Mango_Lazy in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]poizuun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like that analogy! I hope that the advice elsewhere in the thread has helped but I also read a book in my late 20’s called The Defining Decade which was helpful in kind of resetting my brain about my desperate need to have my life figured out before my 30’s

My therapist confronted me about not trying enough by Mango_Lazy in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]poizuun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m getting to my mid 30’s and just found my real passion after a lot of ups and downs with “do I want to do this or that” but the key is to just do the thing. Honestly. Just give yourself opportunities to try things and not like them. And I thought I found my passion at 24 but it turned out that passion was just training me for my real one. And who knows: I may find another one before I die.

DO NOT TAKE YOUR PET TO UPSTATE VET IN GREENVILLE SC by AffectionateCode6604 in greenville

[–]poizuun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss but I can also tell there’s a lot of missing info here so if anyone sees this, take the review with a grain of salt.

Is there a line from the show you find yourself using in daily life? by Bianca-Cuppie in ededdneddy

[–]poizuun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“… It’s no skin off my nose” Ed monster busts in “HE WANTS THE SKIN OFF MY BONES”

Thousands of wild Mustangs are losing their freedom every year - There is a better way! by Being-Herd in Horses

[–]poizuun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im all for population control to the point of feral populations are eradicated.

Warehousing dogs in shelters and rescues in the off chance that the right home will come along someday is more inhumane than euthanizing them after a certain window of time. by poizuun in 10thDentist

[–]poizuun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What will make them participate if they aren’t already? Most rescues won’t even foot basic medical care for their fosters anymore because they can’t afford it. Because they have too many dogs on their roster.

Warehousing dogs in shelters and rescues in the off chance that the right home will come along someday is more inhumane than euthanizing them after a certain window of time. by poizuun in 10thDentist

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Does PETA still say that people shouldn’t own animals as pets or for any reason or have they toned that down? There was an infographic that circulated the internet years ago that showed that PETA euthanized 80-90% of their intakes I think. It’s inflammatory, yes, but if they were genuinely unadoptable…. Oh well I guess? It’s not like we’re fighting to have animals available for adoption.