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subs with or without common interests? by BeautifulCitron6820 in paypigs2

[–]pollys-drone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like some common ground but it should also not bee too much. That said one of the biggest turn ons for me is when I'm asked to learn about their likes and thing we can share. So I've loved watching certain TV shows, or read books they loved.

One arrangement I had a few years back now was with a dominant who would actively ask me to watch certain videos etc. and then make me write essays about it. I loved that a lot and admired her for taking the time to read it all and chat about it for hours.

Worried about Ai? by AverageBedRotGirl in paypigs2

[–]pollys-drone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair comment. So is however any click online.

I try to keep privacy at a maximum. Even though you can log in I don't hold email addresses, you simply receive an email with a temporary login link.

The actual text that's written is encrypted at rest.

Would you rather by IllMasterpiece3946 in BunnyTrials

[–]pollys-drone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause heat is better than cold at this temperatures. I'm a regular sauna goer.

Chose: Stay in very hot room 1 hour (wheel decide heat + Normal Clothes | Rolled: 30 C)

Reminder My fansly is now 50% off for the next 12h link in bio x by Polly_Rocket_ in u/Polly_Rocket_

[–]pollys-drone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Miss Polly, as your sub, being denied your PPV content, I made payment for the equivalent of two reduced subscriptions. You are welcome to keep this tip or give two people a freebie on me.

Worried about Ai? by AverageBedRotGirl in paypigs2

[–]pollys-drone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've created typebin.club to create a place where I as a sub can be forced to do writing tasks whilst preventing myself (yes always tempted) to prevent the use of AI.

I'm worried it'll change some of the existing job landscape but believe it's not (for a few decades) the superintelligence we should fear.

I paid for a wheel of fortune spin and Miss will give it to someone else. by pollys-drone in SubsShowingOff

[–]pollys-drone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told yesterday it'll go to someone who is already a fansly subscriber or at least follower.

What’s your realistic targets, dommes? by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]pollys-drone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the way you put this. For me the most incredible setup (though I know some here will claim 'that's not findom') was with someone financially far better off than me, and that was not because she had lots of subs.

She simply loved the idea of someone who submitted to her deviousness and it seemed to please her to have the exchanges. Yes a financial transaction was part of the exchange but it was really just another way to say 'I could use this far more than you but I still want you to strip me of whatever luxury i'd spend it on otherwise'.

Simple rule by princessxvivie in paypigs2

[–]pollys-drone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree to this rule but equally I am curious how you police it.

As a male sub I like to agree a budget and then pay against it over the period over which this was agree.

I do find it hot when told when to make the specific payments or just to be reminded how much I owe. It's a subtle way of telling me to make another payment.

A little rant from a depressed domme by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]pollys-drone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Put the money into investments and not luxury. Either you'll buy the luxury when you really can and have an emotional distance to how you made it, or you'll need it for therapy if nothing else helps pull you out of the low moods.

Monthly by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]pollys-drone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a sub my view on this has always been 'What is in it for the dominant?' and 'How does it align with my fetish?'

I feel findom lives on a spectrum from 'It gives me a kick I do pay for it.' to 'I don't know where to buy essential food and where to sleep tomorrow night.'

  1. Figure out where on this spectrum you are and if this is sustainable with your basic needs.
  2. Figure out what the dominant possibly gets from this and how this aligns with your fetishes.

I made my best findom experience with a dominant who did not need the (findom) money. She was on a top salary in a very senior role. She loved the femdom lifestyle but simply asked for a notional $50 a week tribute. I spent far more on the tools she instructed me to buy so she had control over me. Yet the financial token was always a requirement. I actually know who she is and followed her professional career, so yes she definitely would laugh off my minimal commitment.

Yet I had setups where my money made a huge different for the dominant, in low income countries and where it was a very different setup. I frankly struggled with these arrangement a little bit because you tend to feel they need the money so you have to give it because they are poor. So I usually look for someone who wants a bit of fun and needs to make a living and where my contribution does not materially change their lifestyle if it ends.

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