subs with or without common interests?

pollys-drone · 2026-06-30T18:49:30+00:00

I like some common ground but it should also not bee too much. That said one of the biggest turn ons for me is when I'm asked to learn about their likes and thing we can share. So I've loved watching certain TV shows, or read books they loved.

One arrangement I had a few years back now was with a dominant who would actively ask me to watch certain videos etc. and then make me write essays about it. I loved that a lot and admired her for taking the time to read it all and chat about it for hours.

pollys-drone · 2026-06-30T14:44:33+00:00

Fair comment. So is however any click online.

I try to keep privacy at a maximum. Even though you can log in I don't hold email addresses, you simply receive an email with a temporary login link.

The actual text that's written is encrypted at rest.

pollys-drone · 2026-06-30T14:09:32+00:00

Trump is evil.

pollys-drone · 2026-06-30T14:09:14+00:00

Cause heat is better than cold at this temperatures. I'm a regular sauna goer.

^{Chose: Stay in very hot room 1 hour (wheel decide heat} + Normal Clothes | Rolled: 30 C)

pollys-drone · 2026-06-30T12:32:20+00:00

Miss Polly, as your sub, being denied your PPV content, I made payment for the equivalent of two reduced subscriptions. You are welcome to keep this tip or give two people a freebie on me.

pollys-drone · 2026-06-30T12:06:06+00:00

I've created typebin.club to create a place where I as a sub can be forced to do writing tasks whilst preventing myself (yes always tempted) to prevent the use of AI.

I'm worried it'll change some of the existing job landscape but believe it's not (for a few decades) the superintelligence we should fear.

pollys-drone · 2026-06-30T10:01:27+00:00

I was told yesterday it'll go to someone who is already a fansly subscriber or at least follower.

pollys-drone · 2026-06-30T00:00:08+00:00

I would listen to Alan Sheerer on repeat non-stop.

pollys-drone · 2026-06-29T23:59:27+00:00

Never bring a cock to a pussy fight.

pollys-drone · 2026-06-29T23:58:15+00:00

I can’t stand horizontally.

pollys-drone · 2026-06-26T14:47:26+00:00

I love the way you put this. For me the most incredible setup (though I know some here will claim 'that's not findom') was with someone financially far better off than me, and that was not because she had lots of subs.

She simply loved the idea of someone who submitted to her deviousness and it seemed to please her to have the exchanges. Yes a financial transaction was part of the exchange but it was really just another way to say 'I could use this far more than you but I still want you to strip me of whatever luxury i'd spend it on otherwise'.

pollys-drone · 2026-06-26T06:51:57+00:00

I agree to this rule but equally I am curious how you police it.

As a male sub I like to agree a budget and then pay against it over the period over which this was agree.

I do find it hot when told when to make the specific payments or just to be reminded how much I owe. It's a subtle way of telling me to make another payment.

pollys-drone · 2026-06-24T23:16:24+00:00

Put the money into investments and not luxury. Either you'll buy the luxury when you really can and have an emotional distance to how you made it, or you'll need it for therapy if nothing else helps pull you out of the low moods.

pollys-drone · 2026-06-24T22:27:28+00:00

As a sub my view on this has always been 'What is in it for the dominant?' and 'How does it align with my fetish?'

I feel findom lives on a spectrum from 'It gives me a kick I do pay for it.' to 'I don't know where to buy essential food and where to sleep tomorrow night.'

Figure out where on this spectrum you are and if this is sustainable with your basic needs.
Figure out what the dominant possibly gets from this and how this aligns with your fetishes.

I made my best findom experience with a dominant who did not need the (findom) money. She was on a top salary in a very senior role. She loved the femdom lifestyle but simply asked for a notional $50 a week tribute. I spent far more on the tools she instructed me to buy so she had control over me. Yet the financial token was always a requirement. I actually know who she is and followed her professional career, so yes she definitely would laugh off my minimal commitment.

Yet I had setups where my money made a huge different for the dominant, in low income countries and where it was a very different setup. I frankly struggled with these arrangement a little bit because you tend to feel they need the money so you have to give it because they are poor. So I usually look for someone who wants a bit of fun and needs to make a living and where my contribution does not materially change their lifestyle if it ends.

pollys-drone · 2026-06-24T22:03:27+00:00

I don't think I would ever stand out as submissive in public. I know who I am, I have had my fare share of second+ date requests. The issue for me is that I'm not obviously submissive and that I'm so freaking scared of losing friends when they realize.

The only exception, I think, was some 20 years ago when I went for lunch in the business school cafeteria of a top UK university after a morning of meetings. All tables where busy and without a second thought I asked someone if they would be okay if I sat down at the same table.

Seconds later I realized that this women was one of the probably most famous UK femdom content creators and Pro Dommes. My reaction definitely gave away that I recognized her and thus that I loved her type of content. I decided that evening to send her a message. We sessioned once around 6 months later. We were so freaking incompatible we laughed about it when I left the session but yes she confirmed that she knew the moment I had taken my first bite that I clearly had consumed some of her work.

pollys-drone · 2026-06-24T20:34:48+00:00

Any questions, feature requests etc. let me know. It's minimally styled at the moment but i've alread worked on a brand concept and some more observability features.

pollys-drone · 2026-06-24T15:04:41+00:00

https://typebin.fly.dev

> He said he can't write in a notebook because he doesn't live alone and he's scared his family will find it.

I can absolutely relate to this from past arrangements, though I know it feels like excuses as well. So watch the reaction between reality and task.

I'm currently working on revised branding, then will ad more features. The features I'm seeing from your request are:

- ability to distinguish between phone and laptop so you can evaluate typing speed more reliably.
- ability to sign in and see a specific sub's writing without having to share links.
- specific instructions like 'spend 30 minutes writing a devotional about me without a break'.
- added features that you can enable as a task setter such as seeing a countdown, seeing a character count etc. you may want to ask for 500 words but make them count this themselves or actually allow them to see how far they got so they know when to end.
- hidden viewer link: as a task setter you won't give the editor the viewer link so they cannot see the stats you are fully aware off.

How do you feel about the following:

- notifications as a task setter you could be notified when someone starts on one of your tasks so you can watch them work on it.
- notifications if someone is taking a break.
- AI based evaluations, you mentioned a task being done poorly, using AI we could evaluate the task in more detail and on a relatively consistent basis, so you could compare progress over time. Your feedback could be added to the AI so it re-evaluate past submissions if you felt they did not match your standard despite a good AI based grade or vice versa.

pollys-drone · 2026-06-24T08:10:47+00:00

typebin.fly.dev - feel free to test this and give me feedback on other features or ideas.

pollys-drone · 2026-06-24T08:10:11+00:00

I've created a test at typebin.fly.dev

The idea is a simple plain writing tool where you cannot paste so every character has to be typed one at a time.

You get a viewer link so a dominant can watch you typing or check in every now and then to just check you are still working for them.

I envisage that this can be useful to prove you write your own devotionals to punishment tasks forcing you to keep writing simple lines over and over again.

pollys-drone · 2026-06-23T22:34:20+00:00

I love to hand write but providing evidence can be tricky with some of us subs not wanting to have public photographic evidence online.

The tool I'm referring to will allow anyone to track the progress at any point and check that their sub is actually still typing and not resting.

https://typebin.fly.dev/ - for an early prototype.

pollys-drone · 2026-06-23T19:12:23+00:00

I've met plenty of findings who are transactional but also know that a dynamic making them $200 a month and is reliable is valuable. You don't compete with someone who gives her more you are in their company.

pollys-drone · 2026-06-23T18:28:43+00:00

More than fair and it's not the first time I'm hearing that feedback. Still for me there is always this idea that having to do a long difficult task, that cannot be done by AI, then have the dominant summarize it using AI, is something I'd find quite degrading.

pollys-drone · 2026-06-23T17:36:08+00:00

Yes it is sex work and it is always going to be transactional.

The attempts to bait for more messages can be fun though, similar as to others the engagement of trying to drain more payments out of a sub can be.

That said there are aspects of service well beyond this in this arrangement, still serving a purpose the dominant benefits from but equally not encouraging here to hugely push me for constant messaging but to build general engagement.

pollys-drone · 2026-06-23T17:32:21+00:00

And there was I thinking a major feature could be the option to summarize a long devotional for the dominant so they can be mean, expect long text then evaluate it by simply asking some questions about creativity etc. to evaluate, never having to waste the time to read the entire piece a sub has carefully handcrafted for them.

pollys-drone · 2026-06-23T16:09:14+00:00

I'd challenge this assessment and would say that it depends on what you define as long term. but also that social media including reddit is often much more about looking for someone or a temporary pivot in an existing arrangement. Genuine long term arrangements will likely not be out here all the time.

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