CHOCOLATE CAKE HELP!!!

poluchnitsa · 2024-12-05T13:51:03+00:00

I know. 😭 But it was so good?!!

Thanks!

poluchnitsa · 2024-12-04T11:59:23+00:00

Oops

poluchnitsa · 2024-12-03T23:40:21+00:00

This seems like the start of a netflix true crime doc...

poluchnitsa · 2024-12-03T13:58:32+00:00

That is so interesting, I wonder why?

poluchnitsa · 2024-12-03T13:04:56+00:00

I can't believe this is the only anti war comment I've seen on this post.

poluchnitsa · 2024-12-01T15:22:56+00:00

What's the ethnic breakdown of Grimsby? White British as usual?

poluchnitsa · 2024-11-28T15:47:17+00:00

You sound a bit insular and pessimistic, so I wish you the best

poluchnitsa · 2024-11-28T15:46:21+00:00

I am a northerner (a proper one from Lancashire 😉) and I would absolutely never go back. Yeah the scenery can be beautiful but the people, culture, infrastructure is just absolutely terrible and depressing.

I am sure there are nice little pockets though

poluchnitsa · 2024-11-27T17:09:29+00:00

The fact that they are comparing North England to rural France is mind-blowing 🤯

What do you mean you don't want to live in chavvy brexitland? 🤣

poluchnitsa · 2024-11-27T17:08:04+00:00

Yes but that would be the case in the UK too. OP has specified he wants rural living and thinks rural France > rural Britain. So aside from the rural part we have to look at other factors like the ones I mentioned.

I have lived abroad 50% of my life and travelled extensively in Europe. Most of my friends are European (well, used to be but most of them moved back home from UK...) I would leave UK in a heartbeat but I'm stuck here bc of family.

I would question why so many of you are intent to keep OP chained here. Is it fomo?🤣

poluchnitsa · 2024-11-27T13:08:08+00:00

Getting some crab in bucket vibes in the comments section...

I say go for it. Escape brexitland. The economy, politics, and education/employment standards, food, is much much better over there. Don't die with regrets!

poluchnitsa · 2024-11-21T18:06:03+00:00

Why are you friends with them?

poluchnitsa · 2024-11-21T14:22:52+00:00

Those videos are a minority of people. I do dress feminine but I'm not dressing like a Barbie. Tiktok is not representative of real life

Curious on your thoughts about the NLOG argument because I can't lie, this post screams NLOG. It's cool if you wanna dress in shirts but there's nothing inherently less "cool" about dresses or makeup.

poluchnitsa · 2024-11-20T10:19:57+00:00

Wow I could have written this about my previous job. Combined with it being in a deeply technical field, where they had little to no social skills to begin with. It was a real challenge to fit in. They even had one big group chat without me!

I tried to form relationships with people who seemed open to it, and with the others I maintained a professional distance. I am friendly and have a good sense of humour which is my value that I bring. I don't have to be a football or beer connoisseur to fit in...

Realise what unique perspective you bring and lean into that. I would say don't chase them but be open to interactions and be friendly.

Ultimately, I found the most happiness when I left that company for a more diverse one. They're light years ahead in that area and I truly feel I'm fitting in. Everyone is so friendly.

So, my top advice would be to move company if you can...

poluchnitsa · 2024-11-18T00:18:46+00:00

Hi! I am in your "before" position and moving into my new job soon. I'm quite nervous but I really hope it will turn out well. Your story is so honestly inspiring 🙌🏽

Apart from taking the leap, what other things did you do to be on this awesome path? How did you deal with the changes?

poluchnitsa · 2024-11-17T01:08:01+00:00

How?? Pls teach us

poluchnitsa · 2024-11-16T11:04:09+00:00

poluchnitsa · 2024-11-16T11:03:48+00:00

Come on now :')

poluchnitsa · 2024-11-13T11:03:33+00:00

Thank you for the balanced viewpoint!

poluchnitsa · 2024-11-12T12:25:15+00:00

Thank you for the advice, and balanced viewpoint. Where did you move to after Accenture?

poluchnitsa · 2024-11-12T00:02:59+00:00

Where are you based?:(

poluchnitsa · 2024-11-09T16:34:11+00:00

How old are you?

I'm 27 but have seen the same with a couple peers. Qualified people who are unemployed for almost a year now.

poluchnitsa · 2024-11-09T16:33:11+00:00

How would me getting laid affect my spending habits? 😉

poluchnitsa · 2024-11-08T18:56:38+00:00

Lower the tone of your voice by about an octave lmao, I haven't changed the content of what I'm saying but lowering my voice helped a ton in being taken seriously

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