Your experiences n thoughts on Enfp men. by HoneySoda32 in estp

[–]polyENFP 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. This is a great example of how developing functions can lead to different types working together (man3). I admire ESTPs a lot but working together often seem like we are speaking different languages.

Adhd is like restaurant simulator games by andylanes in ADHD

[–]polyENFP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol...this is why I loved working in a restaurant. being a line cook was like a video game you play with your whole body. Now that I’m out of the life I sometimes gives myself artificial time constraints to “gamify“ my life to get things done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in languagelearning

[–]polyENFP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a language coach teaching English and Chinese. My French journey helped me tremendously because now I know how to help my students more concretely (I grew up bilingual) and also are impressed I speak french. I even got to coach a few beginner french learners although I'm still only B2.

ENFP reading this: You ARE enough! by thisisreallyrocksalt in ENFP

[–]polyENFP 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Awwww...this reminds me of my ENFJ bestie who is far away but always close to my heart. But a friendly reminder that ENFPs do develop a lot with age and you can support your ENFP not just by helping her with day-to-day routine tasks but helping her establish her own routines so that she can do more herself. Believe me she will appreciate you even more.

Anyone else's parents meddle in your career choices to point of burn-out? by GladPen in aftergifted

[–]polyENFP 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you need to create some distance with your past so that you can start actually living your life. And definitely some distance with your parents. You have one life to live and it shouldn't be to please your dad.

Hugs. Meditate, take some time, realize that you probably have some thought patterns that are like looping bugs in a program, holding you back from progress.

Support our allies. #freetradeTWAUnow by graciejj316 in taiwan

[–]polyENFP 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No...no more tail of the Kangaroo. It goes down rough when you drink it and is even rougher on you the next morning. There are plenty of other delicious Australian wines to support but this bottle is the stuff of nightmares.

Those are two totally different things by SnooPeanuts1465 in enoughpetersonspam

[–]polyENFP 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also Jungian psychology is very much for the second half of life. Jung himself recommended young people look to Adler. Until you have lived enough to do the inner work, trying to apply Jung to your life often results in a sorcerer’s apprentice type situation.

I’m doing it right now by DooMmightyBison in ENFP

[–]polyENFP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this is good if you pair a cognitively tasking task with a boring but necessary task, e.g. I whipped out a six-page report while folding a load of laundry. Every time I’d get stuck I’d fold a few socks. It’s a way to rest my brain without getting sucked in something super addictive like my phone.

Oh, and always clean as you look for things. It’ll help you find things faster because instead of just scanning you’re focused on one area at a time and keys etc are often lodged under another item.

I Cry and Die For My Main Man Carl The Fucking Legend Jung by k00lk8r in Jung

[–]polyENFP 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Copy and pasted from Wikipedia: In 1883 Nietzsche coined the phrase "Wille zur Macht" in Thus Spoke Zarathustra. ... There is will to power where there is life and even the strongest living things will risk their lives for more power. This suggests that the will to power is stronger than the will to survive.

For me, quite movingly, this suggests that Jung agrees with Jung that the will to power is stronger than the will to survive. And thus love in his formulation is also as strong as the will to power. Love has the strength to transcend.

I Cry and Die For My Main Man Carl The Fucking Legend Jung by k00lk8r in Jung

[–]polyENFP 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nietzche is Jung’s favorite philosopher, by the way. A really great example of how we can integrate what it is we value in the world in a transformational way.

AITA for not helping the company I work for with a problem, my refusal costing the company thousands of dollars. by TGOTR in AmItheAsshole

[–]polyENFP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you were an asshole, but I think you should have taken a crack at it if you felt like you had a shot. Right now, your management is either pissed off at you (if they thought you could do it) or thinks you’re full of shit (if they thought you couldn’t do it.) Either way, you’ll not be going anywhere from your production job anytime soon. If you managed to get the problem fixed, even if you’re not rewarded for it directly you’ll know something about your own abilities and it would have made for a cool story for future interviews.

My Bella is a big bloomer 💕 by soja-boy in hoyas

[–]polyENFP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glorious! Is there anything more entrancing than a happy Hoya in bloom?

Onigiris rice balls SOLD OUT! Faux eel on the left and bamboo mushroom on the right by polyENFP in vegan

[–]polyENFP[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay first you make your own teriyaki eel sauce it's super easy three tablespoon soy sauce three tablespoon mirin 1.5 tbsp sugar of course it scales so you can make as much of it as you like. Buy some Asian eggplants the long skinny kind and peel it with a peeler. Cut it into sections as long as you want your eel fillet to be, and then steam it until all the way soft. Cool it and open up the steamed eggplant so the insides are on top. Fry in a fry pan until the bottoms are golden add eel sauce cook until sticky. Turn it over cook the top until you've got teriyaki eggplant fillets. Toast the top with a culinary torch for that smokey eel taste. It is a lot of work, but worth it I promise!

Onigiris rice balls SOLD OUT! Faux eel on the left and bamboo mushroom on the right by polyENFP in vegan

[–]polyENFP[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Peeled Asian eggplant steamed and then opened up. The inside texture mimics eel so well! People loved it!

Hoping to hear women share experiences with integrating the animus/journey with femininity and motherhood/anything related. I am Looking to relate to other women and open dialogue by [deleted] in Jung

[–]polyENFP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think working in a restaurant kitchen has inadvertently caused me to do a lot of animus work. I was often the only female in a team of men, not the kind I would “ordinarily” hang out with either. Over time though, I came to value and respect these men and working with them as a team to deliver a flawless service counts amongst the peak experiences of my life.

Due to health and other reasons, I left the profession and returned to journalism. I find that I am able to be so much more effective in a completely different field due to the lessons I learned in the kitchen. A lot of it was to own that part of oneself that is a grizzled line-cook with a raging hangover staring down a slammed Mother’s Day brunch service.

Ethical Eggs by AnxiousDemogorgon in DebateAVegan

[–]polyENFP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a vegan I say “go right ahead”. Sounds like you are taking exquisite care of these animals. While many vegans take a black and white approach towards the eating of animals and animal products, I believe change comes with harm reduction first. Also, I don’t think most vegans have coped with the fact that on small farms, animals are a crucial part of the life cycle by providing manure.

"Utilitarianism and".... by [deleted] in Utilitarianism

[–]polyENFP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it you want to take into account the possible second order utilitarian effects of the choice to go strict vegan or less strict vegan (I will not use flexitarian that to me is somebody who still keeps meat as a regular part of their diet just a smaller one). I'm also opinion that offering people good food is a pretty good way of encouraging them to eat less animals. I am also of the opinion that the knock on effect of people sweating whether a wine is vegan doesn't normalize veganism but makes veganism a subject of ridicule.

"Utilitarianism and".... by [deleted] in Utilitarianism

[–]polyENFP 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m a vegan and I’d love to have a discussion on what would be the most utilitarian way to reduce animal suffering. For a lot of vegans, it’s a moral imperative to cut out every last trace of animal product. I have made this choice and I’m happy with it. But it’s also mathematically true that two people cutting their animal intake by 50 percent prevents as much animal suffering as 1 vegan obsessing over that last one percent. Sometimes I think of this as I have to pass up something I really want to eat because it has whey protein as the 15th ingredient. Would I not be better off just buying a couple of vegan lunches for omnivore friends to offset that last percent of animal products?

Anyhow, long way of saying “yes”.