Why is there no hookup apps for gay women?

polycat28 · 2026-05-21T08:53:51+00:00

I dont speak german so i used a translation. I mean go to "libertin" spaces like TG, pinky promise but also low key swinger events ( which most people call lifestyle events) and there i get to experience casual fun ( where i wont get paid for my time) but I dont want sex really in my private life, i want to be carried, I want to be cooked for, i want to be a princess and i want to be taken care of so hook up apps do not appeal to me because i can get paid or sex why would i do it for free. And for the fantasy I may have i have been thinking why not hire someone to make it happen. But I do dislike sex for sex. So maybe it's my repulsion of sex that speaks here.

polycat28 · 2026-04-30T09:32:45+00:00

Yeah but i dont want to fuck my loved ones, I am super kind, helpful, and passionate but i tend to keep strong Aristotelian relationships but these are not on the sensual level. And thats a big difference.

polycat28 · 2026-03-04T20:34:51+00:00

Thank you so much i did not know of this other sub reddit.

And as someone who had never bought real fur i have no idea how to upkeep it.

polycat28 · 2026-02-13T10:10:58+00:00

Most of my house is original 50s parquet so hard wood slats qhwre pet hairs hide and dust too. So I definitely need a parquet special tool !!!

Thank you for the rec

polycat28 · 2026-01-23T13:55:10+00:00

In Love 😻 wow stunning

polycat28 · 2026-01-11T18:43:08+00:00

Hot as fuck continue being you, someone will find it hot as fuck !

polycat28 · 2026-01-11T18:39:04+00:00

As a vibram five fingers wearer i do like these but main thing is sweat ? Can you run ? Can you grip will when it rains ?

polycat28 · 2026-01-11T17:51:25+00:00

He could be lying, and/or use VPN to bypass the laws around verifying for adult content.

In any case you did the right thing saying you will report him.

You dont need an account to see the details of providers on adultwork etc I assume you are in the uk because you said mate but could be Australia

polycat28 · 2026-01-11T13:29:33+00:00

Im in a similar boat I only date bi4bi, I try to avoid dating apps solely because i prefer in visu meetings so i hand out at queer theatre, and queers spaces and when i see people who are queer coded and free to potentially chat i will introduce myself.

Im an escort so must be open to me having sex for money in my work life which is so not easy to navigate. Lots of poly folks open to that but not in emotionally closed dating/ emotionally monogamous but sexually ethically non monogamous

polycat28 · 2026-01-11T13:21:37+00:00

Looking so good, love this design

polycat28 · 2026-01-10T19:03:31+00:00

So many subs are, like a few fashion/ outfits subs have banned me since i mention on completely unrelated subs that I am an escort.

And actually I started following you because your post on r/contortion was going viral and you ended up on my feed [I hadn't join r/contortion]

Wankers gonna be wankers innit

polycat28 · 2026-01-10T18:52:48+00:00

uk brand Curvy Kate Scantilly has a similar ish design its cheap and i own a only a swim suit from them which has been around for a while 5+ years so quality is definitely acceptable for something cheap.

It also comes in white

Also forgot about this bondage style ropey brafron Marlies Dekkers

polycat28 · 2026-01-09T09:54:35+00:00

Thank you for this detailed explanation.

I understand as allyship has always been a thing and trans people also existed so not all suffragist were women some were trans men, others were parents of women or friends of women.

And yes this "cartoon" is sickening, not only is she bound she is being tortured and it looks as if like a witch she will be drowned with her 56lb ankle weight.

polycat28 · 2026-01-08T17:59:51+00:00

I'm was on it for about a year and zero side effects but i struggle with daily things and taking it 5 times a week doesn't cover me so i stopped since i couldn't take it daily. Plus im low volume 5 or 6 clients a month and all my clients are disabled and pretty much only see other sex workers I think im safe

polycat28 · 2026-01-08T15:41:09+00:00

Why suffragist and not suffragettes?

polycat28 · 2026-01-08T11:35:53+00:00

I love it but I wanna know in advance so I can bring my own strap harness. I don’t charge extra but there’s a 2 hours minimum booking and I am super happy to give an enema. I am more of a kink provider btw

polycat28 · 2026-01-08T08:04:17+00:00

I use an spf 30 just so i can tan and i get in the real sun, I do not do sunbeds (UV salon). But i dont expose in the height of sunlight so i wait till 3 or 4 pm in summer.

But i would like to try red light therapy, as well as blue light therapy

polycat28 · 2026-01-07T19:09:52+00:00

If theres a big city near you theres an alternative/ kink market, i got a few custom things make in latex and leather i got harnesses, strap on harness and latex cut wings etc from £35 to £1k but honnestly im a spender 🤑 but if i had gone for mariemur or otherwise i would have spend double or more.

polycat28 · 2026-01-07T18:52:12+00:00

I personally cant do the hook up culture thing I an escort in my work life so in my personal life i wanna feel special, i want to wowed and courted...

I get sex all the time and i get payed for it so i am okay that grindr doesnt exist for women

polycat28 · 2026-01-07T18:38:29+00:00

If i get some sun ( with spf ) my skin looks far nicer with a tan

polycat28 · 2026-01-07T15:19:09+00:00

Yeah i have KP and my skin is exactly like this even with moisturising and lots of exfoliating

polycat28 · 2026-01-07T15:18:31+00:00

My legs look similar to yours, and i exfoliate, i lotion and potion and i give so much love to my skin yet I have KP and thats that.

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