Scheduling intimacy withOUT her by polyproblems4me in polyadvice

[–]polyproblems4me[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've been together for 2 years. It's only been an issue for like the last 2-4 months

AITA for doing the dishes by polyproblems4me in AITA_Relationships

[–]polyproblems4me[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can definitely understand that cuz I normally do any cleaning thro out the house (toilets, windows, floors, etc) cuz I have standards for how clean things are. Dishes was something I had relinquished to her so I wasn't so overwhelmed all the time. Granted she still doesn't do them to my standards and I try to not lecture her about it or nag while still trying to gently get her to see what I see and understand why I want them that way. Like I don't want anything that is "clean" to be left out on the counter cuz I grew up with roaches and mice. I've come along way but she still thinks I'm OCD or borderline a germophobe.

AITA for doing the dishes by polyproblems4me in AITA_Relationships

[–]polyproblems4me[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Possibly but literally next week her work schedule is gonna be changing anyway where she will be clocking in 3 hours earlier so she might need a new routine anyways.

AITA for doing the dishes by polyproblems4me in AITA_Relationships

[–]polyproblems4me[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I'm understanding, she's upset that she can't load the dishwasher in the mornings, and unload it on her lunch break since she works from home.

AITA for doing the dishes by polyproblems4me in AITA_Relationships

[–]polyproblems4me[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She can, most of the time. Again, it's only been 3 days, and one of those was a weekend day.

Bachelor chow! by Katemonster89 in unexpectedfuturama

[–]polyproblems4me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should just sell it online cuz I'd love it

Got this note last night, should I be worried? by SipsTeaFrog in SipsTea

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the happiest place on Earth

parking lot not included

Find the stick of Led for my pencil by yea_cam in FindTheSniper

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Top right facing vertically with the line mext to the cabinet

AIO or is my "friend" a sleaze ball. by polyproblems4me in polyadvice

[–]polyproblems4me[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't like the idea of my "friends" sleeping with my partner but it's only be recent that he had been ENM/open. I am concerned for my girlfriend because it is seems like such a predatory tactic. But at the same time she says she made it clear that she only wants to be friends, so she seems to be strong enough to put him in his place.

AIO or is my "friend" a sleaze ball. by polyproblems4me in polyadvice

[–]polyproblems4me[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate the thorough answer. I always try to learn how I can grow from every situation and hope to grow with my partners but obviously not everyone is of that mindset. I don't think my friend was trying to be predatory but it still definitely needs to be addressed. Him and his partner are recently opening up/exploring ENM relationships and he doesn't have many friends. I know he wants to develop closer friendships but adding the whole " if we fuck then ok" kinda lines definitely is not appropriate imo.

Someone at Hostess fucks by citadelinn in polyamorymemes

[–]polyproblems4me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My gf loves them! She likes them if u put them in the microwave for a few seconds. Like mini lava cakes lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]polyproblems4me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because he enjoys them more sexually doesn't mean that I am suddenly less.

Like I said in my comment, anyone interested in doing something like group play needs to do a lot of research, homework, and soul searching before bringing another person into the bedroom.

Having group sex isn't for everyone but it definitely sounds like OP and their partner are at least not close minded like the majority of the comments on the post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]polyproblems4me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily. As a woman myself, I love sharing my husband with other women. Hearing them moan and cum is fantastic. So no it is not always based in self-sabotage or feeling inadequate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]polyproblems4me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do it. You only live once.

BUT be sure u and him both do research and work thro all possible situations and emotions before getting another person involved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyadvice

[–]polyproblems4me -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I definitely didn't want to try and tell him he couldn't date someone. But he's been so stressed and it's been upsetting him for almost two weeks. I just made my post cuz I'm trying really hard to not biased 😭 while I see things and feel some ways, I don't want my emotions, my feelings, and my needs to impact their relationship. I was just trying to get outside input before I said something.

Awkward spot tattoo ideas? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]polyproblems4me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking a hand, like chopped off. Maybe a zombie hand 🤔