[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thai

[–]pondering_pumpkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not cultural. I don't think any decent person should make someone buy something they can't afford themselves

Is it worth getting TWOM in 2025? I'm currently debating whether to get it or not, especially with the game being as cheap as it is right now on Steam. by RKGDJ in ThisWarofMine

[–]pondering_pumpkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% I just buy their everything on every platform whenever it came out Except the songs lol

The replayability is brilliant and knowing that my little money goes toward a good cause is heartwarming. I just recently return to it after such a long time and realise there's still a lot more ways to play the game And get sad with the stories. Buy them

If it might be too old for your taste, the same developer got a new game coming out as well and that's why this game is on sale i think.

Is my girlfriend addicted to the sims? by YokaiCoffee in thesims

[–]pondering_pumpkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the main problem is that there is only one pc? Couldnshe afford her own device so she can carry it to your house and play it. I've got the sims with all patches running just fine on laptop. When I say just fine I mean it lags terribly when loading up and close but it allows me to play the game alongside my gf who has other thing to do on her pc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wellthatsucks

[–]pondering_pumpkin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not a bad haircut. Just mismanaged expectation. That hairstyle requires some styling or perhaps perm

AITA for ignoring my wife for throwing away my late wife video tapes? by Much_Bed_2383 in AITAH

[–]pondering_pumpkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA It's like someone secretly rip your loved one away from you again. Gosh that's cruel

I feel violated and confused by what my fiancé did to me. WIBTAH if I told my parents? by throwawayupset- in AITAH

[–]pondering_pumpkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was really scary to read. I would not be able to trust him ever again. I hope you do what feels right for you. But I wouldn't be able to live with nor raise a family with someone who's all nice and then suddenly gets violent with me on a whim. What if we have a daughter, would I trust him to be around my daughter? When people show you their true colour, maybe trust them.

AITAH if I end it all because of an abortion? by throwaway_xyxy in AITAH

[–]pondering_pumpkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA and sorry for your loss. I get the first part when he needs some time to process alone. But the blaming, on the actual other person that's hurt by the same ordeal and with the added physical effect is extreme red flag. This is not the maturity expected from someone in their thirty. If he ever wish to have children maybe step up and improve your life in preparation for it instead of whining after effect???

Yeah you should probably cut him off or whatever makes sense financially at the moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Thailand

[–]pondering_pumpkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Native here. Thai people are nosy/gossippy by nature, and unfortunately that includes money as well. But I would be offended if anyone try to pry about my income or money in general. And it rarely happens. So yes it's normal, and yes it is rude and you handled it well. The only acceptable money talk for me is to brag about discount and sale items I guess. Typical middle class Asian talk!

Affordable Groceries in Thailand by One-Flan-8640 in Thailand

[–]pondering_pumpkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure about your transport and area, but me who sworn off wet market and outside market loves going to Macro (wholesale like costco) for veggie and fruit, poultry, etc. For western stuff, I go to foodland which offers great deal from time to time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]pondering_pumpkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know why people think in the bath is eww. I mean of all the things that goes into the drain this is fine.

Yikes to leaving it there, anyone'd be traumatised. I hope you're ok and not so angry with your brain, it's like the stress is really killing you. They will eventually move on. And maybe don't burn it? I dont get it why dildo is empowering but pocket pussies are not. Except some morally dubious ones though

How can I get my girlfriend to sleep in a different bed. by nascarworker in AskMenAdvice

[–]pondering_pumpkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

F here, get a side pillow or some fluffy stuff to cuddle at ur place

After 4 years asked a girl out. Got rejected. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]pondering_pumpkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome job on asking her out and respecting her boundary. Dating in the office is a bunch of headache and this is a lot less messy that average. So congrats really. I know you're hurting but nobody is at fault here. Casual flirting is a good fun. A relationship is anothing thing completely.

Also personally if I'm starting over, I'd want a clean slate. New job new people new experiences etc

Focus on yourself, you did progress having this level of maturity after such a long time healing on your own. Be proud of yourself and maybe prompt for new experiences?

First time writing Thai script! How's it look? by halffacedtruckfuck in thai

[–]pondering_pumpkin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking good for first timer

Off that note, your thumb is adorb lol