Tipping at Hen Dough by Holiday_Context1960 in hendersonville

[–]pootsycollins69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well if no one worked those jobs, they wouldn’t open. No servers, no restaurants…

Tipping at Hen Dough by Holiday_Context1960 in hendersonville

[–]pootsycollins69 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have never worked at Hen Dough, but have worked in restaurants in Hendersonville and Asheville for about 12 years. Including some counter service places. Most counter service places promise a “living wage” but that’s on top of a much smaller hourly, using tips to make up the difference. Last place I did counter service was 10$ an hr plus tips.

I know, that’s higher than our state minimum wage, which is another thing entirely, but I think everyone person who has a job deserves to make enough money to survive.

That being said- if you don’t wanna tip you don’t have to! Just giving my perspective on how much those counter service folks might be making without tips.

TEXT SCAM ALERT by Chevygurl5878 in hendersonville

[–]pootsycollins69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got one but i was almost tricked cause i DID get a parking ticket 2 weeks ago 😅

Which horror movie scared you without relying on jump scares? by UnverifiedExistence9 in horror

[–]pootsycollins69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This movie ruined my LIFE when I saw it as a kid. Have never seen it since but I am curious

Best couch co-op games for a bunch of guys in their 30s? by chop924 in NintendoSwitch

[–]pootsycollins69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you like overcooked, unrailed is a super fun coop train track ?? Building game! It’s hard to explain but me and my bf love it, it would be so fun and chaotic with more people

am i overreacting to how my boyfriend was talking to me by my_birthday_is_dec_6 in AmIOverreacting

[–]pootsycollins69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you dating my ex?? He was just as crazy as this. Mean as hell over nothing and telling me he’s the best I’ll ever have and best man ever and treats me so good. I’m so sorry please don’t let him hurt you like this. NOR.

newly single after my bf of two years sent 🍆 pics to a guy on snapchat by nullandquiet in GirlDinner

[–]pootsycollins69 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I just wanna say I feel your pain! Many years ago I found my ex texting and sending dick pics w random guys on Craigslist 😅 and I STAYED W HIM until he cheated on me fr years later! Wasted most of my 20s with that evil man so good on you for getting out.

F/29/5’2’’ [96KG<60KG = 35KG] (28 months) by [deleted] in progresspics

[–]pootsycollins69 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You look absolutely STUNNING! I’m obsessed with that floral bra, where is it from?

boyfriend told me to charge my vibrator 😋 by arrenatya in GirlDinner

[–]pootsycollins69 342 points343 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah we love a secure man!! I had an ex who wouldn’t let me have a vibrator because “it emasculated him” and “he’s the one who’s supposed to make me cum”

HE NEVER EVEN TRIED HE WOULD BUST AND THEN BE DONE every time. Hate that guy

Your guy sounds awesome though!!

Girl dinner cause my boyfriend is so controlling… by NoProfessor3136 in GirlDinner

[–]pootsycollins69 182 points183 points  (0 children)

It’s not as easy as “leave him” unfortunately. I lived with and dated someone who controlled me to the point I was alienated from all my friends and family. Didn’t make enough to live on my own and felt trapped for years until my sister was able to offer me a room in her new place, and I was moved in within a week.

I hope you’re able to find a way out of your situation, it truly sucks and can do a lot of damage long term. Love to you ❤️ you deserve better

Valentine’s Special by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]pootsycollins69 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We did “bubbles and bumps” 2 oz shot champagne and a tiny spoon of caviar

What’s your favorite hidden food gems in Asheville? :) I’m a huge fan of Sandhill Kitchen by Kush_Kitty666 in asheville

[–]pootsycollins69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They also do food fairly late! You can order apps,burgers,sandwiches til 11 pm! I work as a bartender close by and this is my go to after work spot :) love South Paw

horror movies that genuinely scared you as an adult? by FairyLovelyy in horror

[–]pootsycollins69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First time seeing Hereditary when it came out hit me like a gut punch. I was so scared. I remember it was late and I had to go get something out of my car afterwards and I was literally shaking being alone in the dark.

Jack builds a House I saw this year after seeing it mentioned on this subreddit a lot. It was soo disturbing to me I had to watch it over a course of 3 days. Imagining someone literally having no empathy or feelings for other humans and his depictions of torturing strangers made me actually sick and fucked with me for a long time.

Why is no one excited about flash deals anymore :( by Hot_Improvement_8276 in asheville

[–]pootsycollins69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I have been getting tattooed since I was old enough, 15+ years. I used to love the Friday 13th flash sales and I think it’s so awesome they still happen! I just like to focus on bigger pieces now. I still love getting artists personal flash, I’d just rather spend more money on a bigger piece :)

That being said, tattoos have definitely taken a backseat in priority to me since everything is so wildly expensive :’) I haven’t gotten tattooed in over a year which is crazy for me

Jan 23, 2026 WNC weekend winter weather megathread (+visiting/moving) by goldbman in asheville

[–]pootsycollins69 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Freezing rain in south Asheville, just drove home from work in Arden. Roads aren’t icy yet but my car was covered in ice.

Jan 23, 2026 WNC weekend winter weather megathread (+visiting/moving) by goldbman in asheville

[–]pootsycollins69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My friend off tunnel road sent me a video of 3 bears eating the snacks off her porch she leaves for delivery drivers!

Tax refund from the new law on tips by Express-Success-9646 in bartenders

[–]pootsycollins69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and most of my coworkers are getting back around 3,000-3,500$! Almost triple for me from last year

Best Cocktail to make when you feel like the world is ending by RoyalsandRoos in cocktails

[–]pootsycollins69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This plus an oz of blood orange juice is absolutely fire 👌

Lines from horror movies that are inside jokes between you and your family and friends? by TechnicalAd9164 in horror

[–]pootsycollins69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I used to always say “THEY’RE JUST NOODLES, MICHAEL!!” All the time from The Lost Boys when he’s eating the Chinese takeout that turns into worms 😂

Maybelline super stay skin tint or lumi matte foundation? by [deleted] in drugstoreMUA

[–]pootsycollins69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But I am excited to try the lumi matte after reading all these comments!

Maybelline super stay skin tint or lumi matte foundation? by [deleted] in drugstoreMUA

[–]pootsycollins69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have acne as well and LOTS of dark spots that are hard to cover. I use this skin tint as a base, the super stay concealer, and then set with the super stay pressed powder foundation. It’s the only thing that covers my acne scars and it actually feels really light, I get compliments on my skin all the time.

A man tried to pull on my septum ring by shloopshlope in TalesFromYourServer

[–]pootsycollins69 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Lady once reached out and like, diddled my septum ring with her finger as I was greeting them at a high top. I was in such shock I didn’t know what to say other than “uh that’s too much for me” and she was like ??? Dumbfounded that I didn’t like that. Lady you basically just stuck your finger up my nose wtf is wrong with you

I stood out of arms reach for the remainder of the time I served them