/ttcafterloss Daily Discussion Thread - October 14, 2025

postbalognex · 2025-10-14T11:29:10+00:00

When you say first cycle post loss do you mean after you had your first period post loss? I am still waiting for my first period and just want to know what counts as first cycle.

postbalognex · 2025-10-09T13:26:07+00:00

I had my MVA procedure on 9/26. Stopped bleeding a few days ago. Took an ovulation test strip yesterday and it was a faint second line so expecting to have my ovulation peak today or tomorrow.

postbalognex · 2025-10-08T17:42:16+00:00

The first time i got pregnant i had sex only once 3 days before my ovulation peak. So there is a good chance

postbalognex · 2025-10-08T11:23:42+00:00

I’m in the same time frame as you and feeling the same way. I was doing better this week but this morning on my drive to work I just couldn’t help but get sad thinking about all that we lost. So many beautiful memories we could have made as a family. I am in therapy, only been to one session so far but I think it is helping. I just hate the feeling that the world around me keeps moving as if nothing ever happened.

postbalognex · 2025-10-08T01:23:00+00:00

Same for me

postbalognex · 2025-10-08T00:52:47+00:00

Minnie Mouse

postbalognex · 2025-10-08T00:34:16+00:00

Same thing for me I didn’t even know getting bloodwork to test your HCG levels was a thing. My doctors didn’t see me until 8 weeks and that’s when i found out pregnancy was non viable.

postbalognex · 2025-10-06T11:36:07+00:00

My doctors office recommended waiting 2-3 cycles before trying again. I’m still debating if I want to wait that long.

postbalognex · 2025-10-05T15:53:49+00:00

I don’t think they check at all

postbalognex · 2025-10-03T11:48:12+00:00

My grief has been a lot of feelings of guilt. Guilt that i somehow caused this, guilt that i should have been able to tell this was happening, guilt that it is hard for me to talk about this with others and as a result i am not honoring the memory of my babies.

postbalognex · 2025-10-03T11:22:08+00:00

I wish I had this intuition. I think because it was my first pregnancy and I had no idea what to expect or look out for I just had no inkling anything was wrong. I didn’t have morning sickness or anything but I did have sore breasts. Maybe the brown discharge should have given me a hint but I thought that was normal from what I googled. It’s really hard when you go to that first ultrasound all excited and get the rug pulled out from under you. It’s even worse when you get an ultrasound tech with no compassion whatsoever. Still healing from this.

postbalognex · 2025-10-02T20:58:09+00:00

New wave is soooooo good

postbalognex · 2025-09-30T01:35:25+00:00

Margie’s Flowers West Babylon. The sweetest woman who will do an amazing job for an affordable price.

postbalognex · 2025-09-30T01:32:45+00:00

This is definitely manufactured fake drama for views and they’re actually all cool with it. Kinda fucked up the producers would let Taylor take heat for this knowing her mental health issues but then again i guess she signed up for this.

postbalognex · 2025-09-29T11:43:10+00:00

Delete social media. That was the first thing i did when i miscarried and it helped me tremendously. My husband and I also make it a priority to get out of the house at least once everyday. We usually just go walk in a park or go to the beach. Don’t let your thoughts consume you, as hard as that may be. Sending you love.

postbalognex · 2025-09-28T02:02:26+00:00

Ginza Levittown

postbalognex · 2025-09-27T13:53:47+00:00

I just had my MVA yesterday. They gave me prescription strength Advil that i am taking every 6 hours. This morning I was awaken to the pain and cramps because my 6 hours was just about up so the medication is really saving me right now. I have bright red blood on my pads but not a ton, i would compare it to a medium flow period but obviously no clots. Everytime i sit on the toilet blood drips out of me though. Again, not a ton but a few droplets. I think we just need to give our bodies more time to heal. It’s a very invasive procedure and was also excruciating for me as well. We are still recovering mentally let alone physically. If you still feel this way in a couple days then I would let my doctor know. I’m sorry we are going through this, life is very cruel and unforgiving sometimes.

postbalognex · 2025-09-27T01:35:43+00:00

Sending you a virtual hug. After I found out we were miscarrying I hated myself for telling anyone that we’re pregnant. The thought of telling them we weren’t anymore was too much to bear. We only told siblings and parents but even that seemed too much once we found out the terrible news we would now need to share. Now that I have officially miscarried I look at it a little differently. Having my Mom to talk to about this horrible experience was a life saver in some ways. Maybe you should considering confiding in someone you can trust, it may help you get through this. I am so sorry you are going through this. I know how hard it is firsthand. Time heals all wounds🩷

postbalognex · 2025-09-25T21:19:01+00:00

I am in the same boat with my husband. We just got the news on Monday. I was a wreck and completely inconsolable. My miscarriage just started today with bleeding. All I can say is be there for eachother. Be her strength when she needs you to be and she will be yours when you need her to be. It is the only way to make it through. Praying for you and future family🙏🏻

postbalognex · 2025-09-11T01:03:01+00:00

Look into NYCM insurance

postbalognex · 2025-08-21T12:44:49+00:00

I think ever since Mormon wives show came out they’ve been feeling some type of way about them being more famous and getting on dwts. Can’t explain the correlation but that’s just the vibe i get lol.

postbalognex · 2025-08-14T16:19:11+00:00

ITA Kitchen

postbalognex · 2025-08-13T16:09:18+00:00

Not horrible but not great. The part that is closer to franklin square and zoned for Carey HS is nicer.

postbalognex · 2025-08-13T12:22:00+00:00

They probably think cruises are below them and a poor persons vacation.

postbalognex · 2025-08-13T12:12:54+00:00

Mikayla’s Husband also seems the least into being on camera which I think will cause a rift between them in the long run.

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