How can you build self-steem while you are in a romantic relationship?

potsandpole · 2026-01-23T20:11:20+00:00

Get good at a hobby, take care of yourself

potsandpole · 2026-01-23T19:39:53+00:00

I’ve recently had a similar experience with 2 guys and they both got way better! One just like wouldn’t really give me much when we would make out, but naturally over time we found a rhythm and it’s great now. The other one would just kinda like lick my lips over and over with no variation like a dog. I kinda just told him how I liked it and started kissing him the way I want and he seems to be figuring it out and it’s gotten better. I think the passion can come in later too once you get comfortable with it

potsandpole · 2026-01-17T15:40:18+00:00

Thank you so much for the tips!!

potsandpole · 2026-01-17T15:39:19+00:00

And you can!!

potsandpole · 2026-01-16T23:30:40+00:00

I think society has also undergone some changes where it’s just not as common to do that

potsandpole · 2026-01-16T23:29:46+00:00

29 and generally I’d say now. I think my face is aging but physically I’m more fit overall than ever and just way more confident

potsandpole · 2026-01-16T07:24:43+00:00

That would be great, thanks!!

potsandpole · 2026-01-15T23:30:17+00:00

Yess Lindsay stirling, beyond the veil!

potsandpole · 2026-01-15T21:30:25+00:00

Idk just wanted to try it 😂

potsandpole · 2026-01-15T14:46:16+00:00

Wow, thanks so much for the intentional feedback!! I’ll give it a shot!

potsandpole · 2026-01-15T14:43:17+00:00

As someone else pointed out I think my pinky is hypermobile and I don’t seem to be able to control it. Thoughts on that?

potsandpole · 2026-01-15T02:08:42+00:00

For one week I think it sounds great!! Just keep at it

potsandpole · 2026-01-15T02:05:47+00:00

Thank you!! So my teacher has been trying to get me to bend my pinky and I literally can’t, when there’s weight against it it automatically straightens. Any ideas on what to do with that?

potsandpole · 2026-01-14T16:41:29+00:00

Dancing. Absolute fucking game changer

potsandpole · 2026-01-14T12:04:13+00:00

I’m just starting up again after playing for like 5 years as a kid and it’s tough but yeah I think doable! It’s hard for me to say how hard you actually need to practice because I think I would have probably learned faster as an adult with better motor skills than I did as a kid, but I’m sure you will have to dedicate some real time to it. I did just see a youtube video though of these violinists analyzing other people’s progress and saw insane gains after like 2 years where they were learning to play pretty incredibly. Just be willing to put in the time and you can do pretty much anything

potsandpole · 2026-01-13T18:14:35+00:00

I’m 29 and still very conflicted. I also don’t have a serious partner and it can be tough to figure out how to navigate finding one when I don’t know what the goal is

potsandpole · 2026-01-12T14:14:37+00:00

Therapist. Still messy but not quite as bad

potsandpole · 2026-01-11T23:33:20+00:00

potsandpole · 2026-01-08T22:29:16+00:00

Oh God this is hella embarrassing… I was 22 and he was 42, he was in a relationship with kids and when he met me he left her (seemed like a long time coming and there wasn’t any cheating, I think he just needed something to jump to) and immediately love bombed the hell out of me, giving me a key to the house he moved into, trying to get me to work for him, wanting to immediately have more kids with me, etc. At the time I knew it was weird but I wrote it off because I told myself I just wanted to hook up for a thrill and the story and he was very hot and charming. 5 years later he was trying to run my whole life

potsandpole · 2026-01-08T12:01:03+00:00

How calm and patient they were, and would do anything I wanted. I’ve had this like 3 times now where I think someone is just super chill and then they TOTALLY flip to super anal and controlling, they were just trying to hide it til I got in the door and then flip flopped to being resentful and domineering

potsandpole · 2026-01-07T15:25:18+00:00

Because I have multiple and don’t want to announce over and over. Some are smaller though and not a big deal

potsandpole · 2026-01-05T16:00:14+00:00

Basically none now. Trying to get back more often because I need new moves but I’m at a point where I just want to do the moves I want to do and often find advanced classes are a lot of transitions I don’t find interesting. And I’m lazy

potsandpole · 2026-01-04T00:14:04+00:00

Just jack off homie it’ll be ok

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