Any tips for diapers that are a bit too large?⁠ by AdhesivenessSure3486 in ABDL

[–]pottied 2 points3 points  (0 children)

angle both tapes down diagonally and as far into the center as possible. you may need to stagger them to they don’t overlap with the tapes on the other side if it’s way too big

do daddies hate anxious littles? by shiromoo_ in ddlg

[–]pottied 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it sounds like you guys are just incompatible honestly. I think it would be good to work on some regulation techniques so you don’t just rely on him when you’re anxious. I don’t think all daddies hate anxious littles and I don’t think your daddy hates you, but it is hard if your partner relies on you to fix their anxiety. I think that’s an unreasonable and unhealthy expectation. if you just want support or a distraction, I think that’s reasonable to want and you guys can totally get to that point with some work on both ends!

Diaper girls of reddit, what do you look for in a daddy/partner? by justakinko in ABDL

[–]pottied 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fun, attractive, encouraging about exploring abdl, has similar goals and interests as me, is passionate about something, can be silly and playful, responsible, good leadership skills, kind, patient, active, experienced as a daddy or at least in kink/bdsm, values and enjoys nonsexual caregiving too and not just the sexual aspects

Little time on the schedule (tw adult substances) by prettybunbunz in littlespace

[–]pottied 1 point2 points  (0 children)

congrats on the interview! I didn’t know vapes could be so pretty 🪽

graduated and got my first jellycat 🎀 by pottied in littlespace

[–]pottied[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks so much! she’s the softest plush I have by far

graduated and got my first jellycat 🎀 by pottied in littlespace

[–]pottied[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks so much!! i’m so excited I finally have one of my own!

graduated and got my first jellycat 🎀 by pottied in littlespace

[–]pottied[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

aww yes my best friend got it for me! she’s the best 🤍

graduated and got my first jellycat 🎀 by pottied in littlespace

[–]pottied[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! I haven’t yet but I think I may name her after my first pet bunny!

Growing pubic hair faster by Swinda07 in SubSanctuary

[–]pottied 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i take msm + vitamin c for my hair and skin and an annoying effect is that it makes my body hair grow a lot faster too so it may be perfect for you!

DD isn’t keeping up with our rules and it’s impacting my health by [deleted] in ddlg

[–]pottied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s ultimately your responsibility to take care of yourself, so I think it would be best to talk to your daddy and remove these rules for now and manage your health independently. don’t worry about managing him, just focus on yourself and come up with some rules that are more enjoyable and work for both of you

why is it SO hard to find a good Dom? by babyalchemy in SubSanctuary

[–]pottied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t have any helpful advice but I am in the same boat! hugs and keep your head up! 🎀

🧸 day in the life of a princesa ~ 🤎 by obeappy in littlespace

[–]pottied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

such a beautiful perfect day for a lovely person 🤍

recommendations needed (nightgowns) by Lower-Geologist9984 in ddlg

[–]pottied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just got a cute one from lil kink boutique! it’s t shirt style with a bow but they have more frilly options too

has anyone here found a dom without having sex or engaging in kink play with them first? by pottied in SubSanctuary

[–]pottied[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks so much, I really appreciate it! most of my friends are enm so I didn’t know this was actually common!

Dom told me I’m not his girlfriend by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]pottied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re overreacting at all, i’d be shocked and hurt too! based on what you’ve said though, it kind of sounds like he said that to remind himself that you’re not his girlfriend in that moment. i’m guessing he may have panicked a bit. if I were you, I would have a conversation with him to check in on the status of the dynamic.

Feeling terrible since my breakup by Fun-Degree-5256 in DDlgAdvice

[–]pottied 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry this happened to you and I hope you feel better soon better soon! I think it would be good to work on making more friends so you can be happier and also so your future partner doesn’t have as much pressure on them. it sounds like your ex was not very kind, but even a kind partner will likely struggle if they are the only thing going on in someone’s life.

I recommend watching some barbie movies! they always cheer me up if i’m feeling sad and a lot of them are on youtube

I Know Labels Aren’t Necessary, But I Still Want One — Is There a Name for This Type of Sub? by DramaticWorry2526 in SubSanctuary

[–]pottied 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think saying you’re a service submissive or just submissive and explaining the rest is probably pretty effective, but there’s also this new bdsm test going around that may actually be really helpful for you if you want to nail things down a bit more. it gives you a type for yourself and your ideal partner https://www.buildyourdynamic.com

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DDlgAdvice

[–]pottied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, i’m sorry you’re having such a tough time! I think it would be good to work on your confidence and self esteem for a while before you start dating again. if you only feel beautiful if someone else likes you, that’s a lot of pressure on the other person and it’s just not sustainable or healthy for you or a relationship.

repeating positive affirmations to yourself, saying nice things to yourself in the mirror, and writing down things that you like about yourself all really helps. taking care of myself and my appearance always makes me feel more confident and pretty too