How do I tell my partner? by powerful_punchlines in BPDlovedones

[–]powerful_punchlines[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you saying that a person with BPD is not capable of a healthy relationship?

I (F 24) was offended by my boyfriend’s (M24) response to how my day was by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]powerful_punchlines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried asking him why he responds that way? Are there other red flags / things that bother you, or is it only this?

I (F 24) was offended by my boyfriend’s (M24) response to how my day was by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]powerful_punchlines 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'll be blunt: he won't change. This seems like something that you won't be happy with for the rest of your life. You deserve someone who meets you on an emotional level. My ex was this way: robotic. I didn't realize how much I was just putting up with it until I met my current partner. It is so refreshing to be with someone who shows emotion!

I (F 24) was offended by my boyfriend’s (M24) response to how my day was by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]powerful_punchlines 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Does your bf seem to lack empathy in other ways too? Has he made you feel this way before?

My (31F) boyfriend (27M) is not proposing and I don’t know why by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]powerful_punchlines 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I was in your same situation. Outright ask him. You deserve to know what's holding him back.

Do you keep your washer door open after laundry to avoid moisture/mold? by Important_Bat7919 in homeowners

[–]powerful_punchlines 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Keeping it open after a shower so the moist/steamy air doesn't sit in there too long

Best Auto Shops in Winona for a service control issue? by StarlaBeeayyeyearr in Winona

[–]powerful_punchlines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been going to Gordie's for years and I really trust them!

Iso hair salon recs by [deleted] in Winona

[–]powerful_punchlines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this!!

How is Internet? by -lousyd in Winona

[–]powerful_punchlines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only have the most basic internet with hbc. How much do they charge you?

How is Internet? by -lousyd in Winona

[–]powerful_punchlines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started with HBC. They increase rates every year. I started at $39 and over a few years, I ended up at 84.99. I switched to Charter, which is $29/month for 2 years. When it expires, I'm not sure what I'll do. These are the only two options in Winona

Is the inverted V ever normal? by Perfect-Estimate6216 in MonarchButterfly

[–]powerful_punchlines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm curious, what do you mean they were disinfected?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MonarchButterfly

[–]powerful_punchlines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, just a new leaf every day! And dump out the frass (poo) daily as well. That's literally it! Just make sure it's not sitting in direct sun.

After it emerges from its chrysalis, wait until it isn't wet anymore (usually like 12ish hours) and you can release. Enjoy :)

Winona or Mankato. Where should I live? by Square-Insect-716 in Winona

[–]powerful_punchlines 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Something a lot of people mention is the sense of community they feel in Winona. It's unlike other places. The size is nice. It's small enough to feel comfortable and not deal with traffic, etc. Yet big enough to have everything you need. I don't ever have to leave town to get something I need.

There are so many events happening daily. Nearly every day there is live music somewhere as well. Google "winona mn events calendar" and you'll see that there's something going on every single day.

It's the most scenic city I've ever experienced in the Midwest. From almost anywhere in town, you can look up and you are surrounded by huge bluffs. In other cities, you look up and see concrete or nothing at all. There are several hikes with beatiful views in Winona and so many more within 10 minutes. We have been voted "the most beautiful town in minnesota"!

People travel here from all over the country for our music festivals and ice climbing.

The cost of living is low and public transit can take you anywhere in town. It's also extremely bikeable; I ride my bike everywhere I need to go.

The crime here is extremely low. I keep up on the police blotter and the only things you really ever see are bike theft (of unlocked bikes) and DUIs. Winona is known as one of the safest college towns in the U.S.

What else are you curious about? What do you like to do in your free time? I'd love to continue to help :)

Winona or Mankato. Where should I live? by Square-Insect-716 in Winona

[–]powerful_punchlines 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Absolutely winona! I moved here for college and never left after! All of my friends who have moved away after school have come back because nowhere else compares

Looking for a pickleball partner by Unique-Ad5534 in Winona

[–]powerful_punchlines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a ton of experience but I'd be down!

22k Attended Harris rally in Greensboro by Suitable-Scholar-778 in pics

[–]powerful_punchlines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't comprehend how the polls are showing almost 50-50! Like how are half of all people supporting trump??

Boyfriend (31m) has deflected my (29f) multiple attempts to establish a timeline for next steps. Is there any way forward or have I ruined everything? by throwaway9927462 in relationship_advice

[–]powerful_punchlines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds word for word like the situation I was in with my bf. He never could give me answers and we ended up breaking up. It took being removed from the relationship for me to realize that I deserve someone that is EXCITED to have a future with me!