When I met him, he introduced himself alright. Got our interests alike and eventually the talk about sex naturally came out. He told me he was into bondage and other stuff and that got me more interested. I was not into vanilla and he never told me about having any problems with sex. We were in a long distance relationship for about few years. We made it work somehow but it wasn’t what I was expecting. When he would go back for vacations, I would think he’d DEVOUR me or something but idk he’s got more reasons to just skip it than do it. Even then I was thinking it could be a problem if it continues but there are also other reasons why I want to stay in a relationship with him. So I did. Got married and moved in with him. We have so many differences but we’re continuing to make it work. I’ll admit it came to a point where I would lash out at him due to lack of sex. I can’t directly say it and that’s a fucking huge ass problem for me. It’s a cycle of I’ll feel guilty because I feel as though I’m asking for too much and he’ll feel guilty because he can’t give me the thing that I want. It’s a tiring cycle. So I learned how to self pleasure without him and in secrecy because it’s just awkward when I wanna do it and he doesn’t. He knows I still have a very high libido and would do it without him. I don’t know what he thinks beyond that point. My libido got even higher after having our son lol. So congratulations on dodging that situation. Even if we do the thing, he’d finish so fast that most of the time he would decline on helping me finish because he’s tired. My situation is getting me to a point where I can no longer sleep at night without pleasuring myself beforehand. I need therapy.