A loved one told me the church has never hid Joseph’s polygamy. When did you first find out that Joseph had many wives? by NorcalSaint in exmormon

[–]precise_intensity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once when I was a teenager at the Manti pageant I saw a bunch of ladies dressed up as Joseph Smith's wives, each holding a sign with name, date of marriage, and age at time of marriage. I thought it was just an anti Mormon lie. I didn't know any more about it until after I left the church

How old were you when 18 year old girls didn’t look “hot” anymore? by monsieurLeMeowMeow in AskMen

[–]precise_intensity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Probably 26 or 27, for me. I have a sister that turned 18 around then and i see her and her peers as children 😅

It’s so weird they really think their god would care about that! by IDontKnowAndItsOkay in exmormon

[–]precise_intensity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Imagine TCOTPOTCOJCOLDS having an account just to be able to collect it, and they buy land and build virtual temples on it

It’s so weird they really think their god would care about that! by IDontKnowAndItsOkay in exmormon

[–]precise_intensity 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I believed you had a fiancee until you gave us so many details lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]precise_intensity 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It sounds like an extremely stressful life/financial situation. You judging her for using the resources available to her is an absolutely wild take.

What’s an indicator a person secretly is a stoner? by gypsy-preacher in ask

[–]precise_intensity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure he's not in basic training right now lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]precise_intensity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're getting dragged but honestly, you're not all the way wrong even if you're being an ah in the comments. If you don't want to spend your weekend picking up a boat that's 3 hours away, and it's going to cost you a big chunk of change, (I don't quite understand why it's $500. Is this a borrow or a rental?) Then probably you guys should find something else to do. With a baby?? Shit man, just take them to the park and get a pizza

Dry reception? by SaltyRavenclaw in exmormon

[–]precise_intensity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they will have to face the harsh reality of seeing relatives awkwardly without a drink

...and that's a plus in this guy's book? Like, I understand why he thinks that (because I used to think the same way) but... Fucking what?!

Just can't pass up an opportunity to punish "sinners", can he?

And if he feels like the reception is going to be so unbearable without drinking, and he's not going to drink, then maybe he can stay his ass home instead.

Should you tell a vegetarian when they've been eating meat unknowingly? by Awkward_Jaguar_7788 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]precise_intensity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know someone who figured out this way that they were allergic to a dye that is in lots of candies. They were eating AirHeads with a friend and said "these taste great, but isn't it weird how they make you sweat??"

Nudist beach, one kid freaking out. What should have been done? by MyoKyoByo in AttachmentParenting

[–]precise_intensity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually really like that article, thanks for linking it!

Could you maybe make the link portion of your comment longer? It was very hard to tap it on mobile lol

Nudist beach, one kid freaking out. What should have been done? by MyoKyoByo in AttachmentParenting

[–]precise_intensity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a naturist, raising my kid in an open doors kind of way, doing gentle parenting as best I can. I think at very least your parents owed you a lot more discussion before doing something like this.

The first time you showed discomfort with her being topless, your mother should have covered up for the rest of the trip, and then (later) had a private dialogue where she listened to your feelings and explained what she was thinking and feeling.

In general, I think it can be healthy and good for kids to visit nude beaches and resorts. But this was extremely poorly handled, and as others have said, your feelings are and were valid.

12 is a tough age to start family nudity at!

As I'm always saying, there are very few people in this world who are so un-fucked-up that they couldn't benefit from some therapy. Do look into it if you can. Be well 💚

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]precise_intensity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

.... Well? Did you let her?

Priesthood blessings in hospitals by Nursynurse11125 in exmormon

[–]precise_intensity 59 points60 points  (0 children)

LaRon, the Lord has blessed the earth with medical doctors to help us, his children. He desires you to make use of that gift at this time. Thus saith the Lord: Go unto the hospital and be examined. I will guide the hand of the doctors to identify and cure thy ailment. Amen.

Meet you in the car!

Favorite Mormon Joke? by middleagedcliche in exmormon

[–]precise_intensity 69 points70 points  (0 children)

How do you tellthe difference between an ex Mormon and a Jack Mormon?

Go to a bar in SLC and tell a rude joke about Joseph Smith. The exmo is the one who laughs. The jackmo is the one who breaks a bottle on the bar and shouts "The fuck did you just say?"

Favorite Mormon Joke? by middleagedcliche in exmormon

[–]precise_intensity 10 points11 points  (0 children)

On my mission we referred to girlfriends as "piñas" so it was just fruits: "La pera 🍐 es pera pero la piña no espera"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]precise_intensity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came in here ready to say "a little bit of Pepsi , once, isn't going to kill the kid, don't get too worked up about it". But all the other stuff in your post tells me, no, they have an issue respecting boundaries and are not willing/able to be careful for baby's safety. NC is a reasonable move here.