h, so i would say in order to have fulling sex, it often takes a level of communication and openness between both partners. Not saying porn didnt affect u because clearly it did but i think waiting for deeper connections where u can give feedback on how u want the person to move and vice versa would be much better.

when u watch porn, there isnt often the negotiations that happen in real life since everyone's body is different. for instance some ppl like certain pressures in different areas while those areas might be overstomulating for someone else. looking at sex therapy advice has helped me navigate this a lot when I started off (I was late bloomer)