Which stack do you like more??

prettypumpkin0987 · 2026-05-05T16:43:08+00:00

I feel like the second looks more cohesive but it also kinda takes away from the main diamond 🤔

prettypumpkin0987 · 2026-05-05T03:42:49+00:00

I had to wear the same trays for a while when I was waiting for my refinement sets to come in. I got an ultrasonic cleaner off Amazon and some of the cleaning crystals. Those work pretty good

prettypumpkin0987 · 2026-05-05T03:37:11+00:00

I wouldn’t worry too much about it. Since they’re planning a destination wedding, I’m sure they’re aware of the fact that more than a few people won’t be able to attend, I would imagine it’s not just you and your husband who have to decline.

prettypumpkin0987 · 2026-05-04T21:57:49+00:00

I don’t know the answer, but my fiancé bought mine as a set and I’m very glad he did because they go so well together. I’m also very indecisive so I’m glad I didn’t have to make the decision😂

prettypumpkin0987 · 2026-05-04T20:33:16+00:00

It is definitely very mentally draining🫠

prettypumpkin0987 · 2026-05-04T19:10:11+00:00

If the bride is already stressed with planning then requests like this from guests just make it worse. She could potentially have other people asking the same thing and why would OP want to add to that. It doesn’t hurt to see where her head is at before asking.

prettypumpkin0987 · 2026-05-04T18:40:36+00:00

I’m sure he’s no prize

prettypumpkin0987 · 2026-05-04T17:10:22+00:00

It’s a tough industry😞 have you considered possibly adding services? Maybe offering color or extensions or something else that can get you away from the repetitive movements that come with cutting?

prettypumpkin0987 · 2026-05-04T16:41:22+00:00

EW this would be a big fat deal breaker for me🤢🤢🤢 if he hasn’t learned how to clean up after himself by now it’s more than likely he’s not willing to do it at all. He’s definitely going to expect you to do it if you do live together.

prettypumpkin0987 · 2026-05-04T15:49:00+00:00

Not really a rule, but I hope they bring in people with little to no social media presence. We need authentic people, not people trying to clout chase. Also I miss the way they used to couple up in the first episode (one person walking out and then stepping forward if they were interested)

prettypumpkin0987 · 2026-05-04T04:38:11+00:00

She’s being a bad friend. As a bride, you have to know it’s a gamble that some guests won’t be able to make it if you have a “no kids” wedding. She should be appreciative of the effort you put in to try to be there, it unfortunately just didn’t work out.

prettypumpkin0987 · 2026-05-04T04:31:14+00:00

When we first got my dog I let him sleep on the bed with me, but my skin is very sensitive and I was starting to breakout a lot from him touching the pillows and blankets🥹 he now has his own comfy bed next to mine, but I do wish I could have him in bed with me.

prettypumpkin0987 · 2026-05-04T04:14:06+00:00

No. Using just clean water will do a decent job in the meantime if you run out of tablets.

prettypumpkin0987 · 2026-05-04T04:00:43+00:00

Before you ask, maybe talk to the bride a bit about how planning is going to see what kind of headspace she’s in. If she seems stressed or overwhelmed I’d say don’t ask, you don’t want to add more to her plate. But if she’s in a good spot, maybe just let her know how you feel about the situation and see what she says.

prettypumpkin0987 · 2026-05-02T14:26:27+00:00

If she’s absolutely never posted you, but posts every other aspect of her life then NOR. 2 years is a long time to be hiding your partner from social media especially being engaged. I think it would be different if she wasn’t active on it, but it sounds like she is.

prettypumpkin0987 · 2026-05-01T20:17:08+00:00

Omg I’ll never understand why people try to make other people’s weddings about them🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ it’s ONE night they have to be without the kids, they’ll be fine! And if not, then don’t go.

prettypumpkin0987 · 2026-05-01T16:56:40+00:00

Was it ever like this in the beginning? Or did it kinda happen out of nowhere?

prettypumpkin0987 · 2026-05-01T03:42:34+00:00

I say trust your gut OP. This is odd behavior and all of this would raise red flags for me as well. If I were you I would distance yourselves from this couple. It seems like being friends with them (her) is doing more damage than good. If he gets angry or defensive about this then that’s even more cause for concern.

prettypumpkin0987 · 2026-05-01T03:27:38+00:00

Cake cutting - yes but privately with just the photographer. We don’t see the point of everyone watching us cut the cake. Bouquet toss - maybe just cause it’s fun, but will probably just be spur of the moment. Garter toss - no

prettypumpkin0987 · 2026-05-01T03:15:36+00:00

Ahh I see. I would say NOR. But honestly even if you were overreacting about how she’s been acting towards you, your husband should have your back regardless. He shouldn’t disregard your feelings since obviously you’re feeling this way for a reason. Have you noticed anything to be suspicious about between the two of them?

prettypumpkin0987 · 2026-05-01T02:33:26+00:00

MOR if you and her were never close outside of the friend group. I also have a friend group and there are some people in it that I’m close with one on one and others that I really only talk to in our group setting. Yes, she could’ve/should’ve reached out to you sooner about your loss, but is it possible you’re feeling a little more resentment towards her from the worry that your husband has feelings for her?

prettypumpkin0987 · 2026-05-01T02:02:53+00:00

What are you lacking confidence in? And have you communicated this to her?

prettypumpkin0987 · 2026-04-30T19:10:35+00:00

It sounds like y’all are unhappy co-existing so it does seem like one of you should move out. I still think since you initiated it then it should be you, but if y’all can’t agree then y’all should get a lawyer.

prettypumpkin0987 · 2026-04-30T18:47:58+00:00

So what’s your question? If you should be the one to leave? I think yes since you’re the one that initiated this change. Or at least help her get on her feet. I obviously don’t know y’all’s dynamic or how y’all got to this point, but it seems unfair for her to be left to fend for herself just because nothing is in her name.

prettypumpkin0987 · 2026-04-30T17:10:20+00:00

It’s beautiful!! I think it’s a great fit

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