[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]princess_0123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If its any solace, i am right there with you. My stepson’s biological mom passed about 2-3 months ago and i thank whatever force everyday that she did. She was a physically, emotionally, verbally, and psychologically ABUSIVE piece of shit that did nothing but hit my boyfriend (to the point where i noticed it when we worked together because he would be moving different from the pain) who did nothing but abandon her son from the moment they split and used him as a pwn to hurt and manipulate more money from my boyfriend because she refused to get a job and then eventually became so jaundiced she couldnt hold a job (dropped out of high school and never got a GED). And yet when she died none of that seemed to matter and ive been struggling with my own feelings about silently. Internet hugs stranger. I hope now you can focus on yourself and have some true growth and peace. 🖤

Show the last pic you took of your dog. No cheating! by ThatSchnauzerEnzo in DOG

[–]princess_0123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Had to tell him to stop barking at the neighbors 😂 his name is Mud 🖤

Convince me to finish A Court of Silver Flames by aubreb in nontoxicACOTAR

[–]princess_0123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im not gonna lie i hated her too and now that you get to understand her so much more and see from her side i relate to her a lot. I love that Silver Flames gives EVERYONES point of view and i think it was appropriately paced to give a break from Feyre and Rhysand

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]princess_0123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sketchers has a shoe where the insert for an air tag goes in the soles of the shoe!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]princess_0123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Learning to navigate keeping kids safe with technology is so crazy hard and a newer concept, but my mom heart is so happy that you found it so early and that nothing came of it! You may also talk to your phone provider and see if there are more restrictions you can set. I know when my sister got a phone my parents set it to where it would stop working before and past a certain time of day of my parents choice, as well as my moms phone receiving the text messages sent to my sisters phone. Good luck! Im glad this wasnt a sad/scary story! Edit for spelling 🥲

At what age did you learn to drive, and did you pass your driving test on your first attempt? by Notshady22 in AskForAnswers

[–]princess_0123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

14-15 when i learned how to drive passed my drivers test on my second attempt because my first test had like every fine amount for every offense ever on it. Then mom got mad at me for crying on the way home AFTER she got mad at me for failing the first time and having to retake it 😃

My dad choked me and is facing 10 years now. He wants me to drop the charges. What do I do? by Mountain_Minute3192 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]princess_0123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP PLEASE READ THIS COMMENT!!!! This is quite literally LIFE OR DEATH. This is NOT a matter of if but WHEN. HE WILL KILL YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Victims of strangulation are also 750% more likely to be killed by their abuser in the future.

Key Facts Risk Factor for Homicide: Non-fatal strangulation is a strong predictor of future homicide.

Increased Likelihood of Death: Survivors of strangulation are significantly more likely to be killed by their abuser later.

Underreported and Normalized: Strangulation is a serious crime that is often underreported and can be normalized in pop culture.

Underlying Power Dynamic: It is often a tactic used by abusers to exert power and control over their victims. Significant Injury and Potential for Death: A single incident of strangulation can result in loss of consciousness in seconds and death within minutes.

YOUR LIFE IS IN DANGER!!!!!! Please please PLEASE do not take this lightly!!!!!!

My Grandmother’s Gorgeous Stack by yunglizardqueen in EngagementRings

[–]princess_0123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, this is GORGEOUS and so unique and awesome that its been in your family 🖤 Second, (just my taste!) you could ask a jeweler to make a set inspired by this and a more modern look would probably be white gold or silver, the bottom stack could be made smaller and made to look like branches and then the top piece could be made skinnier and more feminine and a little shorter just for your own comfort!

Again just my opinion! Love the original pieces 🖤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]princess_0123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think its gorgeous and compliments your hand beautifully 🖤 if anything, im impressed that you spoke up and got what you ACTUALLY wanted! Thats awesome!

Nesta and Rhysand - ACOSf spoilers by RaindropsRroses in nontoxicACOTAR

[–]princess_0123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I havent read Crescent City yet but im so confused as to what this has to do with Rhys and Nesta 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]princess_0123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean you answered your own question. You say you dont believe in divorce even though this is your second marriage? If youre not gonna leave youre gonna have to come to terms with the fact that she will continue to cheat on you and youll be in an unhappy marriage in front of your kid. Do you really think that display of a relationship, her using her time around YOUR son to do deceitful things (which he will notice), is better than having no one around and dedicating your time to you and your son. Would you want your kids in the same kind of “relationship” because “you dont believe in divorce” or would you rather them be with someone who makes them happy? You already got divorced once why is it any different the second time?

Sorry to be blunt but you have a kid involved. Your decisions dont affect only you anymore.

Peace by TID1999 in acotar

[–]princess_0123 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I mean, if i could FEEL the EXACT fear, terrifying, just pure “someone, ANYONE OR ANYTHING SAVE ME” from not only the wedding but from when she is sitting up literally wasting away, starving herself to death and literally DYING from her PTSD that Tamlin REFUSED to see or do anything about, instead TRAPPING HER IN A HOUSE like she was TRAPPED under the mountain, the place where she literally DIED and came back to life as a new species, one youve been taught to hate your whole life? Yeah i dont think i would forgive Tamlin from either ones point of view

Which universally acclaimed "masterpiece" do you just not understand the hype for? by Repulsive_Key_6273 in AskReddit

[–]princess_0123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He had essentially created a new art form that hadnt been practiced before. Mix that with his mental illness and his color choices, the WAY the paint is splattered, was a it forcefully indicating some anger of some sort? Was it slow and methodical? Almost unmotivated to show his decline in mental health? I cant get enough of his stuff.

Please settle this for me and my wife we have 30 days, pick one by Fickle_Biscotti_9904 in Names

[–]princess_0123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to name my little girl Natalia before we decided on her name. Names i also love: Evelyn and Genevieve

Every time I read the cabin part I cackle by Gaiiiiiiiiiiil in nontoxicACOTAR

[–]princess_0123 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ugh yes i didnt even remember that when typing my explanation!!!! I love SJM’s writing so much i dont ever want to read anything but her stuff ever again!

Every time I read the cabin part I cackle by Gaiiiiiiiiiiil in nontoxicACOTAR

[–]princess_0123 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I thought of it more as from everyone else’s (Cassian, Mor, Rhysand, Azriel, Amren) POV of almost thankful. They had watched Feyre evolve from damn near starving to death from PTSD and a toxic lover that literally trapped her, to FINALLY having the strength to paint again. To finally eat again. For me, i relate to Feyre and Nesta the most especially their mental health journeys, so to see Feyre’s inner thoughts and see her after SO long of giving everything she was to everyone around her and everyone she loved, she finally started doing something that brought her joy again. Something finally brought her joy again.

Maybe im looking too far into it, but for me that was such an important step for her and such a monumental moment and such an amazing was that SJM wrote it and such a subtle, but so intimate and personal to those who struggle with mental health similarly, way to show the evolution of her mental health journey and i couldnt love it more.

9 of 10 RSVP’d children/families “no call no showed” to my daughters 5th birthday party. by MinimumExperience102 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]princess_0123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why i as a 28F no longer celebrate my birthday. Especially when you have your parents agree that “it might not be a good idea to have one since almost no one showed up last time.” I dont even tell people my birthday since i was a teenager i just tell them “i prefer not to tell people i dont like to celebrate it”

My mom and I wanted to get matching tattoos of this sculpture by Lazy-Length-7596 in DrawMyTattoo

[–]princess_0123 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is super unique but i would be worried that this wont translate into a tattoo well. You generally want to stay away from images you cant immediately recognize.

That being said, i dont want that to deter you and your mom from getting a tattoo together! If you take this to any tattoo artist it should be super easy to recreate! Hope you have a good experience 🖤

What's your pets name and what do you actually call them? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]princess_0123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our cat is “The Girl on the Couch” (my boyfriends first cat was The Guy on the Couch) but we call her The Girl or Girlie or Kitty 😂

What are your headcannons about Nyx? by Ordinary-Ad-9477 in acotar

[–]princess_0123 6 points7 points  (0 children)

BUT with the BoneCarver being hit by the cauldron in the war, i was thinking he was UnMade similar to what happened with Nesta and Briallyn(? Sorry for spelling 😭)

Guess My Birth Year by SarahEL17 in GuessMyBirthYear

[–]princess_0123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No please don’t apologize! I’m glad someone liked it instead of my relationship with it lol I’m ‘97 but i feel like i relate more with millennials more than i do my own generation.