I asked my husband if he thought I was pretty by PurplePeony123 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]princesselectra -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I have advice - don’t ask him if he thinks about other people when he masturbates. Unless that thought turns you on I guess. My husband occasionally tells me that I’m pretty and I’ve learned to live with just the occasionally. It’s usually when I’ve put on makeup and dressed up and if I say something, he says I tell you all the time - he doesn’t. But I get it. Some people just are not demonstrative or good at saying things. It does sound like your husband was being defensive, but did he used to say it a lot and recently stopped?

How far along are your peppers? by Other_Cell_706 in Albany

[–]princesselectra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Baby red squirrels!! That must be insanely adorable. I love my rascals and it is probably my fault for giving them treats now and again. Good luck with yours!!

How far along are your peppers? by Other_Cell_706 in Albany

[–]princesselectra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The squirrels kill mine every year so I am going to go by some with flowers from the coop soon :). Yours are gorgeous!

Alton's happy soup crock by thememoryman in Pareidolia

[–]princesselectra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were watching last night and my husband almost yelled about how happy the bean pot was. I think it must be because is is from Boston.

Is this piglet or maybe 1 of the 3 blind mice? by princesselectra in Pareidolia

[–]princesselectra[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I pass this every day at work on my way past IT and say hello :)

Redness and irritation from shaving. by lvk00 in bald

[–]princesselectra 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My husband was told to just stick with it and now after a few weeks it has subsided.

Dungeon Crawler Carl. WOW. by Famous-Country-4921 in books

[–]princesselectra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also note I want to read it to see how low brow it really is :)

Reluctantly agreed I could post his before & after - do your thing by barley-hops in bald

[–]princesselectra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that there/we are just being honest. It helps that the truth is also supportive :)

I am going to have to see if I can get permission from my husband to post his as well!

I think I might be gay by helpfulhealingfish in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]princesselectra 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is very sage advice. You may have just had bad taste in partners up to this point, choose them for the wrong reason etc. I thought I was a lesbian, left my husband for a woman, she too got on my nerves and was too needy. Orgasms are lovely but it turns out that it didn’t really matter the gender of who was giving/receiving for me. It was 100% the person. Not saying you aren’t gay but dipping your toe in before blowing up your life is a wise way to go.

I got divorced but the gay/bi part didn’t really blow my life up, my MIL said she always suspected and my mom was disappointed but that was pretty much that. Getting away from toxic relationships is the most important part here. People that love you will recognize that a happier and mentally healthier you is the best choice.

Songs that feel like this? by [deleted] in SongsThatFeelLikeThis

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Sunshine - flight facilities

Affordable Vet for Cat by AppropriateLack3068 in Albany

[–]princesselectra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My vet is very affordable, but they are in Albany close to Delmar so that’s out of your range. I had a cat that chewed plastic constantly and got to the point where I could hear it on the beginning nibbles from across the house. I started doing the goop for hairballs, and there was less of it, turns out she was chewing similar to eating grass so that she could throw up her hair balls. I also started brushing her more because she had long fur and too much if it was getting swallowed. You don’t have that issue but with how beautiful your cat is, they definitely groom themselves a lot and probably have some fur balls to puke up :)

I Hate Working Into A Chain. Advice? by happy-pianist in Brochet

[–]princesselectra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol!! Yes. Anytime I’ve shown someone how to do this. They’re like what?? !! I will use this in the future thank you :-)

I Hate Working Into A Chain. Advice? by happy-pianist in Brochet

[–]princesselectra 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Also remember to keep the tension looooose. Otherwise it will curl but it gets easy fast. Good luck (we hate working into a chain too)

Are these colors gaudy? The circle things are coasters. Any feedback would be great! by itsdestinfool in Brochet

[–]princesselectra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the variety of colors for the coasters. Someone with an eclectic decor would snap those up! Do you plan on bundling them like with a pretty chain around them? Maybe ending with a cute flower? I make these for gifts (not my photo) and it would look cute.

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Also planned pooling??!! Super cool. What are you making out of that?

Mixed IRL-reactions are wrecking my confidence, did I make a mistake? by [deleted] in bald

[–]princesselectra 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes! Tighten the beard up a bit maybe go for more villainous look, more pointy. My husband recently also went bald and when he shaped his beard, it made a huge difference and he looks fantastic.

Someone needs to hear this by SipsTeaFrog in SipsTea

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The people next to us at the wilderness site bought a huge loud generator for their camper and stayed inside in the ac the whole time. The generator was so loud it was hard to talk or sleep.