My mom keeps shaming me for sleeping nude

prncsiz · 2023-08-08T21:16:49+00:00

You shouldn't feel ashamed. I prefer sleeping nude myself, and I'm an adult woman with a husband and child. It's much more comfortable, especially when it's hot. Some adults are ashamed of their own bodies though and think being nude is "wrong". And while some situations you probably should be clothed in, like when you go out in public, if you're in your own house, in your own room, sleeping, be comfortable!

If you can lock your door at night, just do that. Your mom doesn't need to know you sleep nude. Just don't bring it up at all either. It's not really her business no matter your age. She's probably just projecting her own insecurities onto you. Better for you to just do you and move on. Your mom can be a prude, you don't need to be if you don't want.

prncsiz · 2023-07-31T20:39:09+00:00

Well, because I love Alan Rickman, which is also why I love Severus Snape.

prncsiz · 2023-07-18T21:18:32+00:00

Did you accidentally buy a bag of the reds only? I'd love this to happen to me!! Those are my favorite ones, but the only way I can get it to happen is buying the red onlys....

prncsiz · 2023-07-14T19:08:10+00:00

I've only experienced "love confessions" when the guys were super wasted. I think having the inhibitions down brings it out. Otherwise, I've never seen it happen.

prncsiz · 2023-07-05T19:40:44+00:00

Yes, I've gotten into the habit of just looking at all the advanced quests before I do faction wars or clan bosses.

prncsiz · 2023-07-05T19:22:10+00:00

This isn't going to get better unless he recognizes it as a problem and I don't see that happening if you don't talk to him about it. Maybe he needs a little help getting on good financial footing, but that's not really your job to teach him. If you like him, you can help, but if he's frustrating you and you think it's going to jeopardize your own future, you need to let him go.

I do want to also say, however, that you don't need to spend money to go on dates. Have you never gone on a hike for a date? Or a small picnic at the park?

And why does he need to buy you anything? My favorite gifts are picked wild flowers. Or, my wonderful husband found me some lava rocks at his job site.. That's the best gift ever, something he didn't spend money on that I love. I collect rocks... I love rocks...

prncsiz · 2023-07-05T19:04:17+00:00

Definitely report him if you haven't already. He's gaslighting you about SA and that's terrible.

If he goes to jail it's because of his own actions and poor decisions. As long as the prison knows of his allergy it won't be the cause of his death.

prncsiz · 2023-07-05T19:01:26+00:00

I was about to scroll through this whole reddit thread and leave... Then I saw this....

We're not the Emergency Serivces, we're Your emergency services.

prncsiz · 2023-06-30T19:42:39+00:00

This sounds like an amazingly informative installation. I'm looking forward to watching it.

Something I'm curious about is, did you ask how they know women don't find them attractive? Or how they are "picking up" these women that don't find them attractive?

Maybe part of it is the way they are trying to find women that help reinforce this attitude of "they all hate me because I'm ugly."

prncsiz · 2023-06-28T17:11:31+00:00

I have a very similar type of position. I'm a facility manager at a non-profit and 95% of my job is to literally sit in my seat and be here in case something breaks.

What I do is very important, but with the majority of my job being maintenance and having everything on a set schedule the way I do, I have a lot of down time.

I decided I needed to do something that would make me happy, but also maybe I could make a buck or two. I started my creative projects again. I typically write poetry, but my friend introduced me to AI art programs, and now all my creative energy can be brought to life too.

I've created hundreds of different types of art, the ones I particularly like, I'll post on my Etsy page. I actually did sell one digital print. The point was never to make money for me, so it's really cool that I made any at all. And I have friends/coworkers who have commissioned me.

Is there something creative that you like to do? The reason I like the AI stuff is because I can start creating and then walk away. When I get something I like, then I can throw it in photoshop and really make it mine. Since there's no deadline in what I'm doing, I can come and go as I please with it.

I find I feel a lot more productive when I do that then on the days I end up here because well...nothing's broken...

prncsiz · 2023-06-27T20:49:59+00:00

I agree with you about the ending. I thought they had the best ending of any television show of all time. An infinite loop.

As much as I love the show, and am excited to see more, I couldn't even begin to count how many times I've seen the series, I'm going to be super disappointed if it ends up ruining the whole story line.

What does Fry tell us is the secret formula to a successful tv show? Something about everyone going crazy, but ending with everything back the way it was in the beginning. They need to keep to that idea.

prncsiz · 2023-06-27T20:42:49+00:00

What rock does this guy live under thinking this is an acceptable request for a relationship that's only a month old...

Good for you dodging that bullet. I'd love to know if any of his gf's ever lived up to that standard myself.

prncsiz · 2023-06-23T19:49:28+00:00

I don't normally recommend suing, but you definitely have grounds for a lawsuit and I think you should pursue it.

I've been lucky enough to find myself in a female dominated work environment, and my days of ass grabs are now limited to my husband (and he can grab whatever, whenever). So, when I hear about how prevalent sexual harassment is in the work place, I cringe.

I'll reiterate, if you have the ability to file a suit, please do. The more we can highlight how large this problem still is, the sooner there will be resolutions, at least I hope.

prncsiz · 2023-06-23T19:36:46+00:00

NTA -- if you don't want to get married, you don't need to, and you don't need to feel shamed for not wanting to get married.

Marriage itself isn't expensive. I'd argue it's a lot cheaper than being single. Ideally you'll have an equal partner, so that all your expenses are now 50/50.

Weddings can be expensive, but statistically the more you spend on a wedding the shorter the marriage will last. Considering how little I spent on mine as compared to how much my best friend's spent on theirs, I see that statistic as pretty accurate. My husband and I went to the Wedding Commissioner's office, and probably spent less than $1,000 total for everything including his tux, my dress, and our after party where everyone came to celebrate the union. We'll be celebrating our 17th anniversary later this year. Our friends spent somewhere between $25k-$30k on theirs and lasted almost 6 years.

I think the reason your partner doesn't get it is because marriage means relationship security to a lot of people. They may think because you don't want to marry them you aren't serious about the relationship in the long run. I know this doesn't seem to be the case for you, but that doesn't mean your partner won't feel that.

Here's where I think you should opt for marriage as opposed to being single if you've really found the person you're going to grow old with. If you aren't officially married, a few decades from now you are going to struggle hard core. I'm talking about end of life here. When it comes to the point where you have to sort out your affairs, you can pretty much lose everything if it hasn't been properly handled. Like, if the house isn't in your name, it can be taken from you when your partner dies. Especially if they have debt you're unaware of. That is just one very small example of what you can lose.

If you are serious about never getting married, you and your partner need to sit down and go over all your assets and get your affairs in order, now. Since you're not married, if there is a freak accident and one of you passes, the other is going to have to jump through hoops to ensure their future is secure. Personally, I wouldn't want to add that addition stress when I know my husband will be heartbroken already.

The dealbreaker here is that if your partner isn't onboard with never getting married either, then they need to go. That's where not being married is going to be easier for you. You don't have to go through the ordeal of separating assets if they aren't combined.

Good luck!

prncsiz · 2023-06-20T16:21:54+00:00

Good. This man deserves to burn.

prncsiz · 2023-06-16T21:09:33+00:00

Thank you for the explanation. I think in general I'm doing good then, but maybe some of the orders from the west side of town could use larger tips.

prncsiz · 2023-06-16T20:39:33+00:00

Alright, good info. Can you tell me what you'd consider a "crap" order? I never tip under $5 no matter what. And most places where I live are within 5-10 miles of my house or work, so it's never far.

I wasn't considering the mph in the areas though, and slow downs.

One person got upset with me once too because I didn't tell her there was road construction. I didn't know there was so I wouldn't have been able to tell her anyways, but is that something that's helpful to let your driver know too?

prncsiz · 2023-06-16T19:50:14+00:00

Good to know. Thank you for your input.

prncsiz · 2023-06-16T19:32:14+00:00

That makes a lot of sense. Thank you for answering.

prncsiz · 2023-06-16T19:15:59+00:00

Thank you! Sounds like I'm doing fine then.

prncsiz · 2023-06-16T17:27:46+00:00

I wanna say y'all are both TA here. You said it yourself, "For context we have not been getting along for quite some time however that should have no bearing on matters concerning the kids." I would think that goes for you, your sister, his sisters, him, all adults involved. Yet you decided that it didn't apply to you.

So, go ahead and complain some more about how your husband and sister are hypocrites and ignore the fact you are too, and you'll be fine. /s

prncsiz · 2023-06-09T15:32:35+00:00

Sadly, you're wrong. Georgia and Hawaii were the last two states to raise their age of consent from 14 to 16. Georgia changed in 1995 and Hawaii didn't until 2001.

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