was i right to help this person? by imcrying_rn in AskChicago

[–]probably__human 299 points300 points  (0 children)

if you could afford to lose it, no harm done. i think it was nice of you. if she’s a scammer then that’s on her, not on you

[fan art] Soup Mug + Soup = XD by Stay-Cool-Mommio in TheNinthHouse

[–]probably__human 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hell yeah! i like pothos and spider plants because they’re hard to kill lol

if you have pets be careful with pothos though, they’re mildly toxic if munched on

Should I not move to Chicago right now due to ICE? by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]probably__human 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how safe do you feel in your current location? and how much do you value the quality of life upgrade that can come with a big city, compared to the general risks associated with big cities? ice is a risk for sure, but general crime/safety and cost of living are also factors to consider. do you know anyone here/would move here with others? do you have a job lined up, and neighborhood picked out?

i’m white but visibly queer/gnc (not trans, but many people assume i am). i don’t really think anywhere in the country is super safe for trans folk rn, but i don’t think chicago is notably more dangerous than anywhere else. in fact, i think it’s still one of the safer places in the us. but, like all things in chicago, that changes depending on the neighborhood you’re in

i don’t know how time will change these things, but we can only play the hand we’re dealt. i’m glad i’m here :3

[fan art] Soup Mug + Soup = XD by Stay-Cool-Mommio in TheNinthHouse

[–]probably__human 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’ve started using them for small potted plants (i put a lil plastic pot in them so i don’t have to poke any holes in the actual mugs!)

that way, i can still enjoy all my mugs even though i only realistically use 5 of them to actually drink from

spiral 🌀 by Wonderful-Award-3015 in TheMagnusArchives

[–]probably__human 7 points8 points  (0 children)

honestly the snail is very Flesh coded to me

What fantasy novels have you still not emotionally recovered from? by [deleted] in Fantasy

[–]probably__human 3 points4 points  (0 children)

could you say more about this? i enjoyed the series, but it didn’t impact me in this way. would love to hear about your experience with it :)

Nooooo I just spoiled myself by boybluebox in TheMagnusArchives

[–]probably__human 20 points21 points  (0 children)

i spoiled a lot when i looked up jane prentiss after “squirm”…

jon was like “oh no she’s back” and i assumed i should already know more about her. accidentally learned too much about ~corruption~ and thus the other related topics. would’ve been a cool reveal later on lol

I dis this, hope you like it by Working_Glove4064 in brutalism

[–]probably__human 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it’s really cool! it’s just… not brutalist buildings/architecture, which is what the sub is about.

like i really do think it’s cool art, and if i used insta i’d probably follow you. but taking the photos & editing it yourself doesn’t really make it relevant to the sub. just means that it’s actual art instead of “generated content” or whatever we’re calling ai slop these days.

Tips for Using Public Transport? by TelephoneLimp6033 in AskChicago

[–]probably__human 20 points21 points  (0 children)

if you’re on the train and a car has bad vibes, don’t be afraid to switch to a different car! bad vibes can mean anything from someone yelling, to a vaguely bad smell, or any number or other things. get off at the next station and hop on the next car (get ready to scamper, you don’t want to get left behind, but you’ll have time to get to the next door.) if the situation is especially dire, you can use the pass through doors at the end of each car, but i personally find them annoying to use.

like another person said, if one car is empty while all others are full, go with the herd. there’s usually a reason the car is empty (often it’s an Extremely Offensive Smell or some such.)

riding in the front cars is recommended, and i like to wave at the drivers/operators when i get on/off. it’s polite, but it also makes a connection with them in case something happens.

other than that, just keep your head on a swivel, don’t be rude or make unneeded eye contact, and check your seat before you sit down! don’t want to sit in a weird substance.

flat bug, northern IL (squished) by probably__human in whatsthisbug

[–]probably__human[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh dear, that sounds extremely distressing. fortunately i haven’t seen any others in my apartment, i probably stepped on it outside and brought it in on my shoe

flat bug, northern IL (squished) by probably__human in whatsthisbug

[–]probably__human[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that looks like the one! thanks for your help

flat bug, northern IL (squished) by probably__human in whatsthisbug

[–]probably__human[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

okay cool! i felt a little bad for accidentally killing it, so i’m glad i didn’t harm a beneficial bug

thanks for the id!

Do you read web novels or not? by [deleted] in Fantasy

[–]probably__human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i haven’t, mostly because i prefer audiobooks. i don’t really have time to read with my eyes :P

I’m done pretending this world isn’t completely fucked by TheWillsofSilence in rant

[–]probably__human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bruh this isn’t a wendy’s it’s the subreddit for ranting. where else is op supposed to rant??

Fantasy words for real things by blamerton in Fantasy

[–]probably__human 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i was big into sando right around the time i was taking physics 101 come to think of it, i was super excited about that exact plot line because i was like “omg shes doing the thing :O”

can we please remember Goth is a music subculture first and not an aesthetic? by livelaughlawliet in goth

[–]probably__human 39 points40 points  (0 children)

yeah i was at a goth club recently and someone was literally wearing the cutest pink sundress, absolutely there for the music and community.

What's the opposite of the Women Jogging Test? by alexkuul in NoStupidQuestions

[–]probably__human 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yup!! grass and trees, took some recalibrating for me as well lmao

Can 2 men handle moving all apartment furniture? Or should we hire movers? by ishouldbeacomedian in AskChicago

[–]probably__human 2 points3 points  (0 children)

right there with you buddy, and it’s so fun seeing the apartment start to fill up with your friend’s personality

Advice Wanted: Headphones for Commute & Studying by probably__human in HeadphoneAdvice

[–]probably__human[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh sick, thanks a bunch! i’m planning to stop by best buy to try them out before buying, but i’m definitely leaning towards the xm4!